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[CJMcfly26]

I had a similar experience, met a girl, went to her crib, said I was cute, she kinda didn't look like her pics btw, but smashable, we chilled watch Ride Along, didn't have much conversation, basically had to dip out early, cause it just wasn't going nowhere.... Shorty just kept playing with her cat. Waste of $2.50 going to see chick.

 

[snax91]

I had a similar experience, met a girl, went to her crib, said I was cute, she kinda didn't look like her pics btw, but smashable, we chilled watch Ride Along, didn't have much conversation, basically had to dip out early, cause it just wasn't going nowhere....Shorty just kept playing with her cat. Waste of $2.50 going to see chick.

At first I thought that it was a good thing until I realized he probably referring to an actual cat.

 

[superb]

Whatsup NT bros, I had the most bizarre POF date I've ever had last night:

I'll try to keep it concise. I've been on and off POF for a few years now, and have been on countless first dates with girls from the site, nothing comes remotely close to what I experienced last night. 

This past Sunday afternoon we run into each other on the site, I saw her profile, I messaged her first. A 27 year old girl, works in HR. Yes a girl I've never met before. My profile has some recent face and full body (clothed) pics. A few messages back and forth on the site, then she drops me her number. She says that night that we should meet up this week. So. ..We text a bit on Monday and Tuesday, I sent her another face pic, she says I'm cute, she also sends me a pic of her. I ask to see her Wednesday night at a casual bar downtown. She agrees. Our date is for 7pm, I get off the subway right at 7, the bar is steps away. I text her where she is. She says she's inside. I go in, I walk up the stairs as it was there, and I see her. She kinda avoids eye contact, and not much dialogue is exchanged, but we agree to get a table. We go to the waiter and he seats us. ...We get to the table, I begin to take my jacket off like normal, I see her pause for a second, then she sits down not taking her jacket off. So I sit down with my jacket still on.

I'm not kidding, about 1-2 seconds after we are seated she says she has to use the washroom. She barely put her bag down, I don't even think she did actually. She goes to the "washroom," and doesn't return for a few minutes. I begin thinking, did this really happen? Sure enough, she left.

I texted her 15 mins after, an hour after etc, asking for a reason. She messaged back 15 mins after she left saying "Sorry its not gonna work out." That's all I ever heard back from her. I was absolutely stunned lmao. Bros I approached this date the same way I've approached all the others and have had numerous successful dates off the site in the past. I'm still thinking about it this afternoon, I'm still shocked by what happened. Not really hurt, just shocked. Both caucasian if it matters. 

Any comments or thoughts about this?

1.
Depends, are u ugly, fat or disfigured

2.
She probably was a transfer and got scared when she was around you

3.
Somebody probably did the same thing to her and she just wanted to do it to somebody else as a ego boost

 

[Top Boy]

I had a similar experience, met a girl, went to her crib, said I was cute, she kinda didn't look like her pics btw, but smashable, we chilled watch Ride Along, didn't have much conversation, basically had to dip out early, cause it just wasn't going nowhere.... Shorty just kept playing with her cat. Waste of $2.50 going to see chick.

This is why I don't drive more than 15 miles for P. One of my golden rules.

 

[sohoguy]

Sound like what I did to a chick I felt was ugly in person and I didn't want to be seen with. Take the L bruh, and it's ok she don't see ya beauty, another chick will. stay positive bruh, because that sound like it hurts

 

[suberzat1]

When he said cat.....I thought she was playing with the box

 

[timelessflight]

Whatsup NT bros, I had the most bizarre POF date I've ever had last night:

I'll try to keep it concise. I've been on and off POF for a few years now, and have been on countless first dates with girls from the site, nothing comes remotely close to what I experienced last night. 

This past Sunday afternoon we run into each other on the site, I saw her profile, I messaged her first. A 27 year old girl, works in HR. Yes a girl I've never met before. My profile has some recent face and full body (clothed) pics. A few messages back and forth on the site, then she drops me her number. She says that night that we should meet up this week. So. ..We text a bit on Monday and Tuesday, I sent her another face pic, she says I'm cute, she also sends me a pic of her. I ask to see her Wednesday night at a casual bar downtown. She agrees. Our date is for 7pm, I get off the subway right at 7, the bar is steps away. I text her where she is. She says she's inside. I go in, I walk up the stairs as it was there, and I see her. She kinda avoids eye contact, and not much dialogue is exchanged, but we agree to get a table. We go to the waiter and he seats us. ...We get to the table, I begin to take my jacket off like normal, I see her pause for a second, then she sits down not taking her jacket off. So I sit down with my jacket still on.

I'm not kidding, about 1-2 seconds after we are seated she says she has to use the washroom. She barely put her bag down, I don't even think she did actually. She goes to the "washroom," and doesn't return for a few minutes. I begin thinking, did this really happen? Sure enough, she left.

I texted her 15 mins after, an hour after etc, asking for a reason. She messaged back 15 mins after she left saying "Sorry its not gonna work out." That's all I ever heard back from her. I was absolutely stunned lmao. Bros I approached this date the same way I've approached all the others and have had numerous successful dates off the site in the past. I'm still thinking about it this afternoon, I'm still shocked by what happened. Not really hurt, just shocked. Both caucasian if it matters. 

Any comments or thoughts about this?

ehh don't sweat it man. Honestly if it was me, i would have deleted her # with a quickness after she left. No point of texting to see whats wrong.

be glad she did this now rather than later

 

[301216baller]

That's crazy smh

 

[moonman818]

Whatsup NT bros, I had the most bizarre POF date I've ever had last night:

I'll try to keep it concise. I've been on and off POF for a few years now, and have been on countless first dates with girls from the site, nothing comes remotely close to what I experienced last night. 

This past Sunday afternoon we run into each other on the site, I saw her profile, I messaged her first. A 27 year old girl, works in HR. Yes a girl I've never met before. My profile has some recent face and full body (clothed) pics. A few messages back and forth on the site, then she drops me her number. She says that night that we should meet up this week. So. ..We text a bit on Monday and Tuesday, I sent her another face pic, she says I'm cute, she also sends me a pic of her. I ask to see her Wednesday night at a casual bar downtown. She agrees. Our date is for 7pm, I get off the subway right at 7, the bar is steps away. I text her where she is. She says she's inside. I go in, I walk up the stairs as it was there, and I see her. She kinda avoids eye contact, and not much dialogue is exchanged, but we agree to get a table. We go to the waiter and he seats us. ...We get to the table, I begin to take my jacket off like normal, I see her pause for a second, then she sits down not taking her jacket off. So I sit down with my jacket still on.

I'm not kidding, about 1-2 seconds after we are seated she says she has to use the washroom. She barely put her bag down, I don't even think she did actually. She goes to the "washroom," and doesn't return for a few minutes. I begin thinking, did this really happen? Sure enough, she left.

I texted her 15 mins after, an hour after etc, asking for a reason. She messaged back 15 mins after she left saying "Sorry its not gonna work out." That's all I ever heard back from her. I was absolutely stunned lmao. Bros I approached this date the same way I've approached all the others and have had numerous successful dates off the site in the past. I'm still thinking about it this afternoon, I'm still shocked by what happened. Not really hurt, just shocked. Both caucasian if it matters. 

Any comments or thoughts about this?

That's terrible story bro.

My only idea is that you didn't look like she thought you would... I've never had anything like that happen to me though, so I can say for sure...

Just forget about that ***** and move on to the next one.


I'm going out with a 22 year old massage therapist (prostitute I'm assuming) tonight... Hopefully will at least get a free BJ

 

[$tacy]

U fat ain't u bruh? U mentioned full body pic like she should've knew. No problem fucl that how keep it moving big dawg

 

[1413flywithme]

Damn....at least you didn't waste money on drinks, food, movies, etc. Keep it moving. She would've saw me back online(Pof) before she started her car. On to the next one.

 

[youngdoc]

That's crazy smh

Dudes do it to girls all the time. It's the risk you take with online dating

 

[dh1water]

post her pics 

 

[wavycrocket]

Damn that cold blooded big dugg. At least you ain't waste any money though.

Did you grab something to eat or naw?

 

[Bruce Banner]

 
This is why I don't drive more than 15 miles for P. One of my golden rules.

I second that . met a few chicks that would require an hour or two hour drive for me to go see them , couldnt do it . chicks flake all the time imagine making it halfway to her crib and a chick stop replying .

 

[truth-serum]

Link to her profile page?

I can help you air her out down to her house address

 

[Top Boy]

 

 
This is why I don't drive more than 15 miles for P. One of my golden rules.

I second that . met a few chicks that would require an hour or two hour drive for me to go see them , couldnt do it . chicks flake all the time imagine making it halfway to her crib and a chick stop replying .

Or she just wanted to play with her cat the entire time...

If I have to put in extended effort to reach you, you will give up the cat, literally, or never hear from me again

20 and already hate long commutes with a passion, on top of wasted time.

 

[CJMcfly26]

Bruh she played with this cat for like 20 mins, like she just got it, I asked her how long you had the cat, said about 5 years and he sleeps under bed with me at night.......20 mins later I was out, if anything that cat was gonna get the yambbs before me

 

[rocky437]

could be anything with females man. maybe it wasn't even you and she had some kind of insecurities or something.
it's hard to tell because she just straight up left, which is cowardly within itself, especially when you guys never even had a conversation.

She was a skinny girl. I like them thicker. Maybe she knew that. Ur probably right though. 
Yeah man at least she didnt waste anyones time/money.

 
Damn that cold blooded big dugg. At least you ain't waste any money though.

Did you grab something to eat or naw?

Naw. It was a smaller dining area we were in, I was a bit embarrassed when she walked off. I chilled for a few minutes, played it cool, then just left. Wasn't in the mood to have a drink or food at that time. 

 

[jrod54life]

 
She was a skinny girl. I like them thicker. Maybe she knew that. Ur probably right though.

Yeah man at least she didnt waste anyones time/money.

Naw. It was a smaller dining area we were in, I was a bit embarrassed when she walked off. I chilled for a few minutes, played it cool, then just left. Wasn't in the mood to have a drink or food at that time.

u shoulda sat there like a boss and invite the side/other chick let ppl at the diner see when one bus leaves the next one will be there in a couple mins

 

[rellireloaded]

 
Whatsup NT bros, I had the most bizarre POF date I've ever had last night:

Don't pay these joes no mind. 

I remember my cousins homie wanted me to go on a double date with him to this club in a casino.  We get there, and the girls are already inside..  We're waiting in line, and we see them come out.  I see his chick then I see her friend, and I'm like, "HELL NAW!".  I think I even said it out loud pretty loud I'd been drinking, so I don't really remember.  But I'm pretty sure they didn't hear me even if I did.  But I wasn't going to F it up for the homie, so I get in the mindset of not being rude; and just kicking it for a quick min before I slip off to scoop out some better looking talent.  The second we link up with them inside the club this skinny frumpy B starts acting how I'm feeling in side.  Talking about "I'm not her type.  She's not into light skin dudes".  Blah blah blah.  This comes after a hand shake and a "How are you doing nice to meet you" introduction.  Her girl mind you is thick and proper looks at her like "WTF".  I'm like "I totally understand, and it's just fine by me that I'm not your type.  Really it's ok."  

To put you in the mind of my appearance I ended up with the homies girl that night.  It was just a case of ol girl knowing she was out of my league, and that silly **** was her defense mechanism.  It turned out to be a very interesting night tho to say the least     

I wouldn't pay that **** no mind some joes have crazy as ways of doing things.  Like Opie's girl that started a fake email in his name and is sending pics that only he has to her ex, and then confronting him about it. 

 

[rocky437]

Originally Posted by jrod54life  

u shoulda sat there like a boss and invite the side/other chick let ppl at the diner see when one bus leaves the next one will be there in a couple mins

Lol at this for real. Funny guy. 

 

[jumpman247]

Me after sending 50 messages to different girls online.

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[bendover]

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[moonman818]

Me after sending 50 messages to different girls online.

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Me too

Don't even trip... I've had a ton of success and get the profile view and no message from most of them broads.