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[tokes99]

Yes experience did inform me but not in a way people may assume. It didn’t give me wisdom, it only gave me data (which I used to say women - ‘I’m just collecting data’). I still had to sit down later and actually process it.

I don’t wish them away but I do recognized that I stayed in that trial and error phase longer than I needed. Thats mostly because I didn’t truly know who I was and what I needed.

A lot of people don’t come in with self awareness. The mistake is thinking that self awareness comes from more bodies and more situations. For me it came from reflections, accountability and therapy.

Knowing yourself matters more than just moving through people.

leaving as an aside that most men are/can not be moving through a bunch of women even if they wanted, isn't the case that the 'data collection' to whatever extent they are able, usually informs that awareness for most men?

most of people don't get out in the world fully formed, even if man are secure & (relatively) well adjusted...trial & error is un/fortunately (depending the perspective) how most folk are going to 'move through' (again this is relative as most people don't have that much of opportunities or even are want to intentionally move in this manner, tho this isn't to be dismissive of the act for numbers) folks/relationships in these times of 'free market' dating/mating; more likely than not we are all going to/have fumbled a 'good' one, at least in our hindsight of being able to reflect

as noted i think most would agree that we all are works in progress, it isn't entirely obvious that current you will know what future you will be/need/want...but current & future you will be able to look at past you with some degree of certainty & hindsight such that things seem more obvious than they actually were

 

[cragmatic]

I just want to say….

The number of times I can tell a woman is conservative by the way she looks is insane

It’s ALWAYS the blondes

 

[willypete]

I just want to say….

The number of times I can tell a woman is conservative by the way she looks is insane

It’s ALWAYS the blondes

Talking about the hwhite womenz?

 

[cragmatic]

Talking about the hwhite womenz?

Yes lol

 

[willypete]

Yes lol

I realized the black ones usually have a dusty or crunchy wig/hairstyle

 

[lovehateself]

idk man
lots of liberal white blondes out here in so cal

they all wanna " be down"

all good as long as they go down

 

[cragmatic]

idk man
lots of liberal white blondes out here in so cal

they all wanna " be down"

all good as long as they go down

Not where I am

 

[Mark Antony]

I realized the black ones usually have a dusty or crunchy wig/hairstyle

If you can see the glue line or whatever it's called, yup.

 

[willypete]

If you can see the glue line or whatever it's called, yup.

Some you have to give a pass if you see the glue, might be that week before they have a new style

Now is she has the dusty/crusty and you see the glue, I’m sure she has the red hat in her bag or car on standby

 

[Grine]

Yoooo, the hat is always red.

 

[boss302]

this is occuring in florida?

I know a girl that sleeps with a guy who has a girlfriend and lives in his mom's basement the guy looks exactly like an obese version of Kenny Powers with braids, she said that his bed is on the floor and there are McDonald's bags all of the place that you have to step over. She's also told me several times that I'm too mature and calm and I always clean clothes and a clean car and the vibe of being too put together is not what any woman would ever want.

Nah just southern Maryland trash

 

[boss302]

And you want this woman ?

No, just stating how crazy some of them think

 

[willypete]

Nah just southern Maryland trash

Like St Mary’s/Calvert County type southern Md?

 

[ryda421]

Nah just southern Maryland trash

those should be wrappers from crab cakes on the floor since it is in MD

 

[willypete]

I think everyone in this thread felt the same way while dating lol

 

[smedroc]

real

 

[fluid hips]

real

 

[dontsteponmyshoes]

See man, they stay doing too much. She hits me with the wyd I tell her about all the food they had at work today then she gets weird.

We met off hinge bruh she know what my eyes are saying

 

[Beruseruku Desu]

 

[shorty doo wop]

Hinge plus/X or whatever it’s called worth it?

 

[fluid hips]

Was in Manhattan today.

Valentine's day is funny to me. Got cats out here walking around with roses. Dudes facial expressions looking annoyed cuz of the money their girl got them spending. Feel like I'm in a romcom and everyone is following some imaginary script

 

[rare]

Now this here is the truth.

This is exactly what I needed to hear. I’m putting up with things previous versions of myself wouldn’t out of pity for a situationship I’m in. Genuinely trying to be good too but I think it’s towards the wrong person who isn’t good for me.

 

[smedroc]

 

[willypete]

Mans basically admitted he doesn’t have the gift of gab because it’s no way you moving like that and your boy bagging everything you want.

 

[boss302]

Like St Mary’s/Calvert County type southern Md?

Yes, I live in Charles.