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[s-blaze]

You didn't want to be a dog dad?

Not off the rip

 

[polosanddunks]

Wish you the best air spider 777 and I really hope it was a lapse in her thinking at the time. Only thing is I would NOT trust a women that grown who’s playing with emotions especially when you were going through things. She had the audacity to say break up, let’s just be F buddies and she wanted to explore other options? IMO she doesn’t value you and think it’s sweet out in those streets.

Sounds like she’s already mentally checked out before the real breakup comes and she wanted to see if you’d chase. If I were you I’d just get on my gym, grind and chill with the homies more and don’t get back to being too comfortable with her. Anything could happen.

 

[bxbadboy90]

I was in a situation myself a few yrs back. I was with shawty for a few years and she was pushing for marriage, kids, etc talking about the biological clock is ticking. We planned to move out of state together and about 3 months before the move we both got cold feet about it as it would have been a huge step as we would be moving to a city where either of us had any friends or family.

I remember we spoke on the phone one night and she shared that she was unhappy with where we were and how I wasn't doing the things that she is looking for from a potential partner lol. After listening to her for about 2 hours, I decided to call off the move and relationship, breaking up with her. Literally TWO days later she camped outside of my house waiting for me to get home from work to "talk"

She basically told me that she wanted to work on the relationship and we decided to hold off on the move while we worked on the relationship. Literally 4 months later we got into an argument that she created and she took her belongings and broke up with me.

3 months later she got pregnant with someone else's child. Learned my lesson then and dodged a bullet.

Some women do not like being alone and are willing to stay unhappy in a relationship until a new dude shows up. It was a pretty valuable lesson that I learned at the time.

 

[tokes99]

Some women do not like being alone and are willing to stay unhappy in a relationship until a new dude shows up. It was a pretty valuable lesson that I learned at the time.

staying in relationships to avoid being alone & having to return these cold skreets to endure learning another person & having meet a bunch of strangers to do so definitely ain’t exclusive to the women…anecdotally, i think way more men stay in ‘unhappy’ relationships than women & it also seems to me way more women are apt to stand on business & at least attempt to end a relationships if they aren’t getting the major thing(s) they want ahht of it… whereas man tend to just check ahht & become zombies

not saying this was the case in your situation but i sometimes think women pull this move, whether consciously, subconsciously, or unconsciously, when they are trying to leverage the relationship as a sort of hail mary negotiation tactic—it’s almost similar to the ‘what are we?’ convo that some younger women bring up to get to the relationship status, especially if talk of chirren & marriage has been broached, that’s a notice that the proverbial shot clock has started…the ‘unhappiness’ is really based on specific expectations & not necessarily the interaction within the actual relationship…i have heard multiple still single women talk kinda wistfully in hindsight about guys they ended ‘good’ relationships with because they weren’t on their timelines or weren’t in their eyes progressing in certain ways they wanted

 

[willypete]

I had 2 ex’s that hit the as soon as we were done, 2 months later they were pregnant by someone else game. Also another that was about 2 years later but we were on and off during that time. All of them have ain’t ish baby dads (one has 2 smh), and they all regret doing that ish instead of staying in the relationship and working on things.

I say all that to say that I agree some people don’t like to be alone and also some people don’t want to see others alone (dudes shooting clubs up left and right then not taking care of their seed).

 

[Beruseruku Desu]

need some game on how to bag this cougar.

+20 years older than me

visiting my city in 2 weeks and shes staying for like 4 days. got her #, agreed to go out. offered to drive (her hotel is far) but she said its okay and said she can drive to the city herself. I didnt respond after that

 

[アミーゴ]

need some game on how to bag this cougar.

+20 years older than me

visiting my city in 2 weeks and shes staying for like 4 days. got her #, agreed to go out. offered to drive (her hotel is far) but she said its okay and said she can drive to the city herself. I didnt respond after that

Context on how you met?

 

[Mark Antony]

Just don't be weird and that should be a lock.

 

[Beruseruku Desu]

Context on how you met?

hinge

 

[アミーゴ]

hinge

Oh this is a layup - meet out for a drink and back to yours/her hotel

 

[fluid hips]

need some game on how to bag this cougar.

+20 years older than me

visiting my city in 2 weeks and shes staying for like 4 days. got her #, agreed to go out. offered to drive (her hotel is far) but she said its okay and said she can drive to the city herself. I didnt respond after that

 

[fluid hips]

Patrice was ahead of his time

 

[Jumanji]

Definitely passed up on some cheeks before cause her fingernails had dirt under them. Couldn't do it.

 

[dontsteponmyshoes]

Definitely passed up on some cheeks before cause her fingernails had dirt under them. Couldn't do it.

Long time ago went on a first date with a girl. She showed up in those foam all black platform flip flops. Over all cute date was alright but I caught a glimpse of the bottom of her foot and it was blacker than the shoe, and the killer was I saw a little clump of dirt chillin between her pinky toe . Far from the pettiest I've ever been through.

 

[willypete]

Do the tall yambs scare the average nter away?

I know suberzat1 loves a tall yamb but I remember people were height fishing in here as well

 

[Mark Antony]

I like a tall chick and rarely met one that cared like that.

 

[tokes99]

it’s a long listen/watch but some interesting lil tidbits about online dating throughout

 

[Beruseruku Desu]

Do the tall yambs scare the average nter away?

I know suberzat1 loves a tall yamb but I remember people were height fishing in here as well

I’m a climber and that mountain must be climbed

 

[Beruseruku Desu]

Fellas we doing flowers on first date with someone you might think is actual wifey????

 

[アミーゴ]

Fellas we doing flowers on first date with someone you might think is actual wifey????

 

[tay1]

First date and wifey dont go together.

 

[tokes99]

Fellas we doing flowers on first date with someone you might think is actual wifey????

how you get to thinking she could be wifed & you only @ the 1st date? in any case, unless she mentioned something about it…and even still flowers are cliche/generic…i’m assuming you been talking enough & know something about her to the point you think she could be made an honest woman without seriously dating yet, so if you really on that, try coming with a meaningful SMALL gesture that you think would resonate with her

 

[TURBO UNO]

First date and wifey dont go together.

I imagine that scenario would scare away man or woman. Waaaay too soon to do that.

 

[suberzat1]

Do the tall yambs scare the average nter away?

I know suberzat1 loves a tall yamb but I remember people were height fishing in here as well

I would have told her short *** to shut up and get into the car!

 

[fluid hips]

Do the tall yambs scare the average nter away?

I know suberzat1 loves a tall yamb but I remember people were height fishing in here as well

She tryna make D1 babies