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[Beruseruku Desu]

Unless you already have a roster, I’m not understanding why you didn’t say a meet was set up during that call. Y’all weren’t vibing like that to wanna see each other?

Also like the others said, just double text if you want to pursue this woman.

It was long distance lol. She’s currently living in Europe.


Pics for the beast cause y’all made me laugh too much:





Idk how to approach a long distance chick tbh. I probably shouldn’t even sweat it

 

[fluid hips]

 

[fluid hips]

matched with the blonde hungarian chick on hinge.
we called each other and talked for like 5 hours on the phone. i havent done that **** since high school

i message her the next day and she leaves me on read. this was 2 days ago lol

chat, am i cooked?

should i remove her as a follower on insta cause i dont want her to be seeing my business

Did you factor in time zone difference?

 

[willypete]

It was long distance lol. She’s currently living in Europe.


Idk how to approach a long distance chick tbh. I probably shouldn’t even sweat it

Unless she plans to visit the country you’re in or you plan to visit hers, treat her as a reserve or honestly straight to g-league.

Sounds like a waste of time but you already invested some time so just play it cool and let her hit you up when she does.

Did you factor in time zone difference?

Hella valid point

 

[TSCQ]

It was long distance lol. She’s currently living in Europe.


Pics for the beast cause y’all made me laugh too much:


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Idk how to approach a long distance chick tbh. I probably shouldn’t even sweat it

you sure she aint ai?

 

[Beruseruku Desu]

Did you factor in time zone difference?

yeah. its been two full days since we talked.

you sure she aint ai?

lol im sure. during the call she turned on her video and started snacking on some hungarian chips and she was teaching me hungarian words

 

[Beruseruku Desu]

Sound up

Me when I was talking to that girl

 

[tokes99]

yeah. its been two full days since we talked.





lol im sure. during the call she turned on her video and started snacking on some hungarian chips and she was teaching me hungarian words

in 2025 you never know...



for you man on the apps, how often & thoroughly do y'all read their profile, if at all?

 

[willypete]

for you man on the apps, how often & thoroughly do y'all read their profile, if at all?

Most if not all the time especially after the match. Can’t just be shooting your shot at either a bot, transformer (only if that’s your preference), man playing face off or escort

A quick scan of a profile tells you almost everything, like if they have kids or not (sometimes listed and sometimes you find out in messages)

 

[tay1]

You gotta pay attention to the profile. I matched with a bot/catfish or whatever and didn’t figure it out until after a couple messages

 

[ogbobbyjohnson773]

 

[tokes99]

Most if not all the time especially after the match. Can’t just be shooting your shot at either a bot, transformer (only if that’s your preference), man playing face off or escort

A quick scan of a profile tells you almost everything, like if they have kids or not (sometimes listed and sometimes you find out in messages)

You gotta pay attention to the profile. I matched with a bot/catfish or whatever and didn’t figure it out until after a couple messages

was watching something that was kinda incredulously critiquing/reviewing women’s profiles that were basically all negatives & no attempts to “sell” themselves (ex: having kids, having attitudes, talking primarily about what they don’t like/want in great to detail) & while seems obvious that some intel is advantageous in order to ‘conversate’ & be able engage if a match happens…given the dearth of matches most men on average get (which i’ve heard guys say they just swipe on everything) & conversely the overwhelming plethora of matches that women tend to get i wonder if folk only look at profiles post match?

an associate at work told me she only cracks the apps open out of boredom, never entertains or replies to her matches, & will frequently delete & reup dating apps off her phone w/regularity; they are strictly a form of entertainment to her…so i asked what, if anything, could/would ‘compel her to actual link with man she matched with…to which she basically replied with ‘eww’

 

[Beruseruku Desu]

My boy Von out here feeling himself

 

[fluid hips]

yeah. its been two full days since we talked.

I meant when you sent the text. It could have been night time when she was sleeping.

Sometimes I read a text in the middle of the night and roll back to sleep without responding

 

[willypete]

Beruseruku Desu on that 5 hour call

 

[Beruseruku Desu]

 

[tokes99]

 

[tay1]

I truly doubt it’s this high but stay safe out there

 

[willypete]

Wait which dating apps let you send pics, explicit at that?

But I doubt it’s that high however I’m sure it’s still a surprising number. Really no different than the ones who flaunt like they’re single offline as well. Just have to move careful as always

 

[s-blaze]

I've get hit on from poly couples, to men, to women looking for dog dad's.

And everything in between.

 

[tay1]

I've get hit on from poly couples, to men, to women looking for dog dad's.

And everything in between.

You didn't want to be a dog dad?

 

[Mark Antony]

Which dodo is on the apps sharing that they are married?

 

[willypete]

Which dodo is on the apps sharing that they are married?

I’ve come across several on hinge that would put “married,/in open relationship looking for” followed by either boyfriend/someone to entertain/some other variation.

And would have their husband/significant other in the pics as well.

I’m pretty sure the dudes must be trying to get 3sums or polys started since I run across a lot of “no poly, 3sums, unicorn” on women’s profiles.

 

[fluid hips]

Imagine if Google gatekept this from iOS/mac users like Apple likes to gatekeep

All these influencers will jump to Android overnight

 

[tokes99]

Imagine if Google gatekept this from iOS/mac users like Apple likes to gatekeep

All these influencers will jump to Android overnight

maybe…are folks onto ai like that?