Hinge Takeover >>> Tinder, Bumble Pof

[checks mcgee]

Hurd. I def don’t try to ge the number super quick because I feel like they gon think I’m some type of scammer. I think one chick had told me that before

not OD quick

have a couple convos

 

[tokes99]

not OD quick

have a couple convos

what qualifies as quick tho? isn't the point to get off app?

from what i hear women say about apps most guys aren't typing anything they haven't heard, its just the same convos on repeat basically (or worse the overly clever/try hard responses); which contributes to the same burn out dudes talk about w/the apps...seems to me the better route is to figure out quickly as possible whether a woman likes you enough to link outside the app rather than go back & forth messaging to try to learn more about her/see if she like you, obviously be tactful about it but if you already matched what else is there to talk about really?

 

[bxbadboy90]

Facts^^. I also send no more than 1x message a day on the app. That way when I ask for the number after 2-3 exchanges I dont come off as thirsty/eager.

 

[xbiker47]

Had a friend tell me within 5 messages you should close on the #. Eliminates having a meaningless pen pal

 

[checks mcgee]

what qualifies as quick tho? isn't the point to get off app?

from what i hear women say about apps most guys aren't typing anything they haven't heard, its just the same convos on repeat basically (or worse the overly clever/try hard responses); which contributes to the same burn out dudes talk about w/the apps...seems to me the better route is to figure out quickly as possible whether a woman likes you enough to link outside the app rather than go back & forth messaging to try to learn more about her/see if she like you, obviously be tactful about it but if you already matched what else is there to talk about really?

OD quick is like first message lmao which ive def done

but make a connection first, clever comment, then go forth

 

[tay1]

There is no one size fits all approach. Due to the volume of messages they get, you just will be forgotten at times. Message again. If no response, or it's dry, move on.

Only thing I found that works consistently is commenting on their profile showing that you paid attention. They like **** like that.

 

[rbk93]

I been hitting bars. Met a married woman and went out to eat. Got blocked a few days later.

Update for 2025.

 

[tay1]

I been hitting bars. Met a married woman and went out to eat. Got blocked a few days later.

Update for 2025.

Did you pay?

 

[fluid hips]

I been hitting bars. Met a married woman and went out to eat. Got blocked a few days later.

Update for 2025.

Storytime b

 

[fluid hips]

Sometimes you gotta tap into your masculine frame and be a savage on the dating apps.

Had more success with "cancel your plans next weekend" vs "what are you doing next weekend?"

 

[rbk93]

Did you pay?

Bought a few drinks as well as the meal.

 

[tay1]

Sometimes you gotta tap into your masculine frame and be a savage on the dating apps.

Had more success with "cancel your plans next weekend" vs "what are you doing next weekend?"

Was gonna say something like this too.

In some cases it’s best to not even ask. Just lay the plan out right in front of em.

“Let’s do lunch/ dinner @ this spot @ whatever time”. Sometimes it’s psychology with these broads.

 

[checks mcgee]

I been hitting bars. Met a married woman and went out to eat. Got blocked a few days later.

Update for 2025.

hustling backwards

 

[アミーゴ]

Had a friend tell me within 5 messages you should close on the #. Eliminates having a meaningless pen pal

You ain’t even gunna tag me, the person who told you???

Last time you get the drop

 

[willypete]

Shot the club up this week, first time doing that without the rubber.

So glad no woman was that crazy to have me do that before. Definitely would’ve had a kid or 4 years ago.

 

[willypete]

Regarding the apps, like everyone said you can’t apply the same thing to each person. I’ve gotten numbers same day as matching and some after a week or even after the first date (idk how I was cool with JUST messaging through blk).

Just don’t come off as od thirsty or weird (sometimes women like weird though) and you should be good. Also don’t take everything to heart, ish could be going good in app or in text and she can go ghost the next month. Keep shooting them shots y’all

 

[rbk93]

I haven't tried the apps in a while. Plus I don't put much effort into the profiles.

 

[tay1]

Shot the club up this week, first time doing that without the rubber.

So glad no woman was that crazy to have me do that before. Definitely would’ve had a kid or 4 years ago.

Couldn't do it. I have the worst of luck. I'd be the type where the kid would have the IUD hanging on him like an earring after shawty delivered. I don't take chances.

 

[willypete]

Couldn't do it. I have the worst of luck. I'd be the type where the kid would have the IUD hanging on him like an earring after shawty delivered. I don't take chances.

It took me a min till I finally did it. It was either right before she came on or right after she was off, she would say shoot the club up but I alway pump faked. I’m sure I would’ve fell asleep right then and there on her if I wasn’t standing hittin from the byke

 

[fluid hips]

Yea that's why you do anal and don't have to worry about getting her pregnant

 

[suberzat1]

Regarding the apps, like everyone said you can’t apply the same thing to each person. I’ve gotten numbers same day as matching and some after a week or even after the first date (idk how I was cool with JUST messaging through blk).

Just don’t come off as od thirsty or weird (sometimes women like weird though) and you should be good. Also don’t take everything to heart, ish could be going good in app or in text and she can go ghost the next month. Keep shooting them shots y’all

Check your phone. I sent you an invite for this taco and tequila night I'm hosting on Saturday

 

[willypete]

I haven't tried the apps in a while. Plus I don't put much effort into the profiles.

Profile really don’t matter, gotta have a slick mouth piece when you finally message each other.

You can be:
Ugly
Broke
Fat
Live at the crib with parents

But if you can make a bihh laugh and have her smiling off words, then it’s all money

 

[willypete]

Check your phone. I sent you an invite for this taco and tequila night I'm hosting on Saturday

Thank you and appreciate that. I’m still on injured reserve so if I can have one of my tings drive then I’ll definitely try to be there

 

[アミーゴ]

Thank you and appreciate that. I’m still on injured reserve so if I can have one of my tings drive then I’ll definitely try to be there

I’ll see you there b - if you don’t pull up I’m sending the goons