TL;DR
Gaiz, I think we cracked da algorithm. Da hotter the profile, da more two things happen: a) more high intent users come your way, and b) more serendipity happens. And the hotter the profile, the easier everything else is later.
NOTE:
No pics. Because last time I posted pics, someone screenshotted it and it creeped me out.
This post is pretty long
Here's the new rules, for me. Your mileage may vary. And it's working dramatically better than what I was doing 3-6 months ago.
STEP 1:
Make a "hot" profile
- Being hot online is as artificial as plastic. You don't even need to be hot IRL. You just need a) 5 hot pics (or a mix of 5 hot vids/pics), and b) 5ish hot blurbs of words
STEP 2:
Make your profile even hotter.
- Again, this is artificial. It's just pictures (or videos) and words. Basically treating it like an art project. Make a profile. Then make an even better one.
Step 3:
More "high intent users" come your way and more serendipity happens
- "High intent users" is a phrase used in tech. To relate it to dating, a higher intent user is more thirsty and even thirsty enough to pay some money to even get the chance to talk to you.
- This former model (she has an impressive portfolio) and semi-big time bitcoin investor and I have gone on two dates. On the first date I got to see her super model **** at Chrissy Fields in San Francisco when the sun was out. On the second date, she told me she "had to pay for a 'rose' for me on hinge because I was in the standouts section."
->How did that happen? Books, the gym, and ayahuasca helped. But lots of people have hot enough brains and bodies to be hot online but their profiles suck. Not me. I spent one morning making a hot *** profile. And then I tore it down, took the best piece from it and made an even hotter profile.
-"Serendipity" - it happens more when your profile is hotter. I have a bunch of chicks on hinge and bumble who have matched with me and I left them in limbo. Didn't accept or reject them, simply left them there. Now. I have a decent enough memory. Of those chicks in limbo, sometimes I see them in real life. Best case, I talk to them. Worst case they perform for me. Who cares? I'll see them again. Always planting seeds>*
-> Also, Serendipity happens more in the sense that like... they see a hot profile and assume you're like lowkey famous or something. Or like because of your hot *** profile, they assume they're competing with a bigger pool of women so they have to show out. So they do things like volunteer to take off their clothes and get in the water with you even though it's lunch time.
Step 4:
(this one's obvious) After you "accept" their like, and get the chance to start messaging them -> Make them laugh once or twice then get off the app as soon as possible
- I like to add some "friction" on their end, again getting higher intent users, while also standing out. I do that by leaving a voice note where I speak my phone number (like it's 1999 and I'm leaving a voicemail) and tell them to text me.
- Another thing I sometimes do on Hinge (because you can't send pictures) is to crack a joke about something they just said and then reference something I'd like to show them off the app (like a picture of an album or some random ****.)
Step 5:
Once you're texting, then you want to escalate to an in person meeting.
What you get them to say is more important than what you say. I like to be super indirect. And at the same time super open and forward. And I like to be silly.
So, the way this played out most recently. I send a text saying "You know what we should do? We should never meet up in person. And you know what else, I hate this city on my shirt [New York] worst city in the world."
Now. She's from NY, she knows I love it there. Next text I get from her is her asking me to meet up in person.
Step 6.
When you meet up in person, tell her you're not looking for a relationship. Say those words exactly.
The terms "**** buddy" and "friends with benefits" aren't in vogue anymore, so I don't say I'm looking for those. Instead, I describe what I'm looking for as "Not a relationship." I say I'm looking for something where we can "Cum together, and laugh together with no commitment. And then if that goes well we can start spending more time together."
Step 7.
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Step 8.
Profit
Other lessons
From now on I'm spending as little young moolah (baby) as possible on the first 1-2 dates. And after 1-2, I decide if they're worth spending time with.
Russian women always get that they want. I met a Russian at the museum. We we're dating for a month, but she didn't let me hit. She'd let me grind on her when I was naked and fully hard and she was in her panties but not hit, so I deaded her. May Lazareth her *** later but for now, letting that **** breathe
Saying you're not looking for a relationship from the jump really does work. I did it a few times before but it was kinda weeak. This week though, I've been more direct about it. Both times both chicks kept spending time with me like it never happened.
but in that moment I just wiped it off on her sheets
. Wasnt originally "you not even playing fair. " Bruh was like bet watch me put in even less effort with the line and still flourish 
