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This is obviously a case-by-case basis.Yeah. Whether it happens during the engagement or you found out she/he did before you guys got engaged. Im just asking how much can a person take in order to get married?Clarify what you mean by "trust damaged." Like cheating?
If cheating happens on either side while you're engaged, you should just end the relationship.
You'll always have it lingering in the back of your mind.^^^You have no idea but you brought up a scenario I am going through right now. Without divulging into things, my trust in my fiancee just got killed this month on something she was trying to hide 2 years ago and it's currently trialing our engagement and our marriage. If anyone has seen the Friend's episode with "I was on a break!" with Ross getting with another girl, that is pretty much what happened to me. It's such a tough battle but I am honestly trying to figure this all out if it can work within this year. The worst is technically this wasn't cheating but it sure feels like it. I get where you are coming from because I can only imagine if this happened when we were married on how much harder this would be but I honestly do want to work things out but statistics will show that this is an up hill battle that we might lose.
By the end of it, everyone has to do it their own way. No relationship is perfect for another. If you want to leave that person, then that is fine because that is what you want. If you want to work it out, then hey, that is fine too. My issue is I am not sure if it is worth working out yet. That is something I have to think about and it's going to take some time.
Her trying to hide it is telling enough.
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