Originally Posted by
NooEra
Originally Posted by
niidawg3
NooEra wrote:
niidawg3 wrote:
bluedeniro wrote:
cole haan A-1 casual dress shoe
a must wear for me when go to clubs comfortable and
screams fly i got to
get more in different flavors
I want to find a nice way to constructively criticize, but i am drawing blanks. lets just say "your concept of fly, must wear footwear is fraught with inaccuracies"
God - i tried to not sound like an a.s.s too ... so sorry if i did
How about a simple... "Not really feelin em. Take a look at these ....." (provide a better alternative)
Pointing out that you're not trying to sound like an a.s.s. makes you sound like one
i guess ... my comments definitely seem more a.s.s like than all the other ribbing he got. I dont think "not feeling em" helps someone who thinks his shoes are fly, a must wear, and he plans to purchase a few more flavors.
needless to say i am sure he got the message. thanks for showing your care and compassion
I see you point out the 'not really feelin em' , but failed to point out the 'heres a better alternative' Maybe you should have said " Those aren't very fashionable, let me point out something a little better that fits your style and budget " And the other comments towards him stemmed from your comment. If you have said you liked his shoes, eight other people would have given him the
. Don't you understand how NT works ? You're one of the top dogs in this thread so lead by example.
You have nice fits but they don't get any better when you put other people down. Constructive criticism is the way to go, not acting like you're trying sooooo hard to not be mean, yet still bringing all the attention to him. C'mon son.
- In no way shape or form am i trying to bring anyone down to lift my fits up. Where are you getting that from?
- And i see your point about suggestions, and maybe should have, but i do not know the man, his style or his budget. From his post, all i could tell was hehad bought some shoes he thought was fly and was going to buy more. The best i could do was tell him the shoes at that price point are neither fly or amust-wear. And trust me, if i didnt bring it up, someone would have. The OP came off a lil cocky with and the shoes not being the most fashionable didnt help.
Sorry for the +#$-storm. OP - how much did you spend on the shoes? Let us know and we will recommend some alternate suggestions.
cat got those "I just got a job loafers"
