That's not disrespect, you just want to be pampered.You are 100 % spot on. The people giving you **** haven't traveled or experienced it to know otherwise.
MOST American girls have no concept of what respect even is in relationships.
Perfect example. I wake up at 6 am to go to work
American Ex: Rolls over "Have a good day at work" and knocks back out.
International Chick: Up at 5:45 prepping me breakfast and a nice warm cup of coffee. Goes back to sleep after I leave.