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Does your opinion change if kids are involved?Big red flag. Just screams "I'm lazy af."
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Does your opinion change if kids are involved?Big red flag. Just screams "I'm lazy af."
And I can't rock with the tired social conservative politics he peddles about black women either. Blaming the macro issues facing the black community mainly on the unique moral failings of black women is some nasty stuff.
I have noticed the prevalence of dudes peddling the same **** on NT. You push back on it and the "why can't we hold people accountable" steez
My opinion is of people that aspire to be stay at home parents/spouse. It's a completely different thing to have to do it out of necessity. If you have kids, and you can afford to stay home, by all means do it. Because I know I wouldn't trust a stranger with my kids. But there are newlyweds out there with no kids where one of them just stays home. That's a huge no for me.Does your opinion change if kids are involved?
You think raising a baby is not a reason for a woman not to work?
Average paternity leave is about a weekThat's what paternity leave is for. I can take care of the baby while my wife gets her *** back to work.
What do you mean by seriously enough? Making sure the house is taken care of? Or is there more to it?I'm cool with a stay at home mom if I can comfortably afford it and she takes it seriously enough. Don't want to come home and she got nothing done but a learn a new Qanon theory.
Cot damn I hit show ignored content and saw that, what the hell. Just ban son already.
Well said, I will also add that libs are scum
lol I guess the person who posted this just skimmed through the video?
The women who made the video made the title. The IG post doctored it up a bit.For real, title is Buzzfeed at its finest
That's a part of it, managing the house, bills, mommy duties etc. Including her hobbies and doing things for her own fulfillment.What do you mean by seriously enough? Making sure the house is taken care of? Or is there more to it?
I am an immigrant too, social conservatism is alive and well in my family. Older African Americans are social conservatives too.Im a little bit mixed on it, maybe it's being children of immigrants,
butI have a little bit of sympathy for a certain kind of social conservatism,
that I think in modern western individualist culture has become verboten to express.
obviously I think "the submit to your man stuff" takes it too far.
but like I think having strong cultural norms against having children out of wedlock for example
may be "problematic" but the older I get I think it's on balance a good thing.
now does that mean people should be harassing single mothers on the internet
no,
but it's im not sure how to encourage one thing
without giving licence to reactionary misogynists.
For real, title is Buzzfeed at its finest
Average paternity leave is about a week
Throwing the baby at the grandma and making shawty go back to work immediately is wildEnough time for me to find a more permanent care taker. Probably my wife's grandma or her mother. They don't work. I also do 75 percent of my work from home I'll be around most of the time. Bottom line is she gotta get her *** back to work asap. Aint no free rides in my household.
I didn't support her through school for her to be lounging around changing diapers. Get ya *** out there and make us some MF money.
I def agree with you but i will say kids can change everything. There is a strong possibility that circumstances of having children change people's plans afterwards. Happens a lot actually.Nah, I definitely feel like if you're in a relationship long enough that its heading towards marriage that it has already been discussed if your partner wants to stay at home and take care of the children.
That is the time to voice your disagreement and break things off if you have to.
This isn't something that'll just happen that you can't foresee.
Welp, it took 4 mins
Yeah, when my wife and I had our first kid. She was ready to go back to work, but realized she would be working to pay for daycare. Fortunately, my salary allowed her to not have to work and raise our kids.I def agree with you but i will say kids can change everything. There is a strong possibility that circumstances of having children change people's plans afterwards. Happens a lot actually.
But a woman who doesn't want to work period is a red flag for me.
Have two female friends that work remotely and are stay at home homes and the husbands both f'd it up. One cheated, one is an abuser. Both chicks are sweethearts, both gorgeous. Great catches. Now they're getting divorced. Husbands goofed.
Throwing the baby at the grandma and making shawty go back to work immediately is wild
Sounds like your situation is unique though with your ability to work at home for the majority of your time. I personally don't want others looking after my kid.
I don't think so. I think it comes from a lot of women in my life having been career ambitious and independent. It's what attracts me.You wouldn’t want a wife to hold the fort down ?