Confessions

Dunks206 said:
I'm in the same boat... kind of. I was hanging out with an old coworker knowing that she is with someone. While kicking it, she tells me that they ended that relationship a couple days earlier. Went back to my place, started drinking and I hit. Ever since then, it wasn't to awkward at work. We both worked graveyard while no managers were in the building yet, and we would "mess around" where nobody would go and there weren't any camera's to catch us doing anything. This happened for a couple months, then I got a new job.

I would still see her outside of work everyday. All of a sudden, she was at my place, we were making out, then she just stopped... She said she couldn't do "this" anymore, and left... I am so lost right now. I am definitely not over her, and wish she was still with me. She hits me up every once in a while, but when I mention to hang out, she just "deads" the conversation. I know I guess I was somewhat of a rebound, but she even told me she wanted to slow down with me. Then all of a sudden she doesn't want to kick it with me anymore. I want to stop talking to her, but I still have feelings for her. This also sucks though because I'm going to a concert with her (bought tickets while we were together), and I'm thinking to just give her, her ticket, or just give her money for it. I'm just thinking that I should just not talk to her, and ignore her after the concert... No idea what to do.

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After one week she "ended" it, we went to go eat lunch and get some ice cream. We made out in my car, and a week after that, I helped her move some stuff into her house, and "slept over" for the night... I hope none of my friends still go on NT, :p
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Dating in the workplace was addressed during my orientation. It's approved as long as its not with upper management. I would do it, I just kind of want to keep it professional so for now I just like her company as a friend. Whatever happens happens though.

It sucks that you had to go through what you're going through fam. I don't know you to tell you what to do, but if it were me I would try to cut the girl off. It'll only hurt worse to drag it out.
 
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Use her like she used u. On to the next my friend.

These married o's are off the hook here at work. Only thing I wouldn't mind tapping IS upper management. Something about their female inferiority makes em sexy. Wanna bring em down back down to earth
 
When I first heard people talking about "Chance the rapper"

I thought they meant "Chance" the rapper.

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GreyFoxx said:
Dating in the workplace was addressed during my orientation. It's approved as long as its not with upper management. I would do it, I just kind of want to keep it professional so for now I just like her company as a friend. Whatever happens happens though.

It sucks that you had to go through what you're going through fam. I don't know you to tell you what to do, but if it were me I would try to cut the girl off. It'll only hurt worse to drag it out.
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Yeah, I'm a do my best to cut her off. She still hits me up, so yeah. going to be hard... Especially because I still think about her.
 
Dunks206 said:
Yeah, I'm a do my best to cut her off. She still hits me up, so yeah. going to be hard... Especially because I still think about her.
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You have to occupy your mind in order to stop thinking about her. It's hard because she is still has a place in your life because you're allowing her to be in your life. You have to fight off the temptations and urges of talking to her/being with her. This is only my suggestion and I don't expect for you listen/do it but from past experiences. It's better to cut it short than drag it out, the pain in the end will be much worse.
 
GreyFoxx said:
You have to occupy your mind in order to stop thinking about her. It's hard because she is still has a place in your life because you're allowing her to be in your life. You have to fight off the temptations and urges of talking to her/being with her. This is only my suggestion and I don't expect for you listen/do it but from past experiences. It's better to cut it short than drag it out, the pain in the end will be much worse.
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Thanks man
 
gonna vent things I want to tell my baby momma but it might lead to a divorce so here I go..


"***** you are always so grumpy and trip over the dumbest ****, so what if I didn't wash everything, at least you have clean folded clothes, you can't at least say thank you for that?"

"How can dirty dishes keep you from loving your man? you love **** don't you? and I'm always trying to give you affection but all this **** in the house keeping you from ******* me? do you kow what happens when I'm running around horny all week? sex once a week or two weeks is not enough, you known that.. I just think of cheating on you.. all these other women around and from work eyeing me like a freshly grilled steak and it's getting hard not to play along. But I won't because our daughter needs a man that will set a good example, your dad and uncles are all **** people, I'd rather be upfront and tell you I want to move on, instead of cheating on you but I have hope and will try to change for your dumbass."

"whoever else you're thinking of ******* please just let them already, you won't make love to your ******* husband, you're always so angry but if it helps you be less of a ***** then please get laid already. ."

"if I paid a 5$ hooker to slap me with her high heel.. that would be far more affection and intimacy than I'm getting from you"

"you've seen girls check me out already , your man is far from ugly , girlfriends at weddings looking at me try to kiss your cold uninterested *** wish their man tried to do more of that to them, what the **** is wrong with you?"



I feel better.
 
tough situation up there..have a talk with her..but clean up your house yourself bra...im sure she will eventually follow by example

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Forget the cleaning. You guys just smashing one time a week should be the bigger issue here. Especially if this is your wife.
 
Just from experience tripping over minor **** to start arguments and infrequent sex is usually a period of loss of attraction and of internal conflict on whether to continue or not. It can be recovered though, but only you know your relationship deep enough to know what points to hit.
 
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Mark Antony said:
Just from experience tripping over minor **** to start arguments and infrequent sex is usually a period of loss of attraction and of internal conflict on whether to continue or not. It can be recovered though, but only you know your relationship deep enough to know what points to hit.
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This. That's frustration about other things disguised as frustration about petty bs.
 
@onthe23rd  I know the feeling. Try to talk to her about it when you are cool, calm, and collected. If she cares, she will listen to what you have to say without trying to undermine you or try to make it like it's your fault. After you say what you have to say......the ball is in her court.

To everyone else in this thread that's not married: Marriage is like having a second job that has great benefits. But at times, you dread going to the job knowing you're walking into some potential BS. A successful marriage is one where both parties are willing to work hard to keep the marriage strong and full of love and respect.
 
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Broke down this AM and thoughts of thankfulness dreaded my mind. Grateful I have healthy kids/wife and able to open my eyeballs for better days. This shortcake strain is fire [emoji]128293[/emoji]
 
Wayniac211 said:
Broke down this AM and thoughts of thankfulness dreaded my mind. Grateful I have healthy kids/wife and able to open my eyeballs for better days. This shortcake strain is fire [emoji]128293[/emoji]
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I have a lot of days where I question what I'm doing, or what really makes me happy. Then I'm reminded of how blessed I am to be in my position. Head up high fam!

Stay Lurkin said:
Man - this thread bros. Is real.
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Anyone have kids?

I think I want them... married 1 year, don't feel ready... but don't want to wait too long and be too old (what I feel like is too old) with little ones...

Work is busy all the time, don't get enough sleep already, maintain a house is busy, life is busy... how can I possibly add anything else? Also, don't feel mature enough to be entirely responsible for another human being. But will I be by the time the baby is born?

Who knows, maybe I'll be shooting blanks or something ... any ideas on kids from parents would be appreciated.
 
Didn't read all the pages but there is alot of deep **** in this thread...[emoji]128175[/emoji]
 
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Its needed... I havent been in here for 2 or 3 weeks
 
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