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my father wasn't %!%@. he took care of his other kids that he had, one of which while he was married to my mom, the other which he didn't tell my mother about until after their marriage ended.
which only ended because he would beat and choke her.
he didn't want me at all...wanted her to get an abortion. and they were married, lol. for two years before i was born.
didn't pay child support. didn't try to see me.
took US to court. sued me and my mother. me. yes, me.
my mother struggled to make ends meet while he rode around in his benzes taking care of other !##%!+% and their kids.
me, i had to wish i had a father til it just didn't matter to me anymore.
you can't miss what you never had. they divorced in 86.
i can't count on one hand how many things i've ever gotten from him and have fingers left. meanwhile he puts a stepchild through nyu.
so *%%* that **@!+.
he's just a random **@!+ to me. period.
the OP is lucky that he has a better father than a lot of us.
which only ended because he would beat and choke her.
he didn't want me at all...wanted her to get an abortion. and they were married, lol. for two years before i was born.
didn't pay child support. didn't try to see me.
took US to court. sued me and my mother. me. yes, me.
my mother struggled to make ends meet while he rode around in his benzes taking care of other !##%!+% and their kids.
me, i had to wish i had a father til it just didn't matter to me anymore.
you can't miss what you never had. they divorced in 86.
i can't count on one hand how many things i've ever gotten from him and have fingers left. meanwhile he puts a stepchild through nyu.
so *%%* that **@!+.
he's just a random **@!+ to me. period.
the OP is lucky that he has a better father than a lot of us.