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"Pan-Africanism is a global movement promoting the unity, solidarity, and self-determination of African people on the continent and in the diaspora, born from the shared struggles against slavery, colonialism, and racism to foster cultural pride, economic strength, and political independence, advocating for a unified African identity and collective liberation."
My POV is Black Americans are no more African than White Americans are European or Asian Americans are Asian.
As such, words like "diaspora" and phrases like "Pan-Africanism" do not resonate with me.
Sounds like propaganda.
What do Black Americans gain by identifying as/with Africans?
If Black Americans have nothing to gain, then who does?
My time is better spent focusing on my own interests right here at home.
If Black Americans are not African, then Pan-Africanism has nothing to do with us.
As it relates to African "culture," it's poor taste to throw stones from glass houses![]()
We haven’t been offered dual citizenship to any country over in Africa,
Benin is not the first country to grant citizenship to descendants of slaves. Earlier this month, Ghana naturalized 524 African Americans after the West African country’s president, Nana Akufo-Addo, invited them to “come home” in 2019, as part of the 400th anniversary of the arrival of the first enslaved Africans in North America in 1619.
But Benin’s citizenship law carries added significance, in part because of the role it played in the slave trade as one of the main points of departure.
There are practical reasons why the cultural ideals of pan-Africanism can't be achieved."Pan-Africanism is a global movement promoting the unity, solidarity, and self-determination of African people on the continent and in the diaspora, born from the shared struggles against slavery, colonialism, and racism to foster cultural pride, economic strength, and political independence, advocating for a unified African identity and collective liberation."
My POV is Black Americans are no more African than White Americans are European or Asian Americans are Asian.
What do Black Americans gain by identifying as/with Africans?
She kinda looked at me and said, "It's just me, what can I do?"
You should have immediately called her a liar to her face. You should have said…..”ma’am I know your son wasn’t created by immaculate conception…..your son has a father…..you just chose wrong”
That’s the kind of accountability we need to hold these black females to out here. It’s because of their bad decision making that not only is the community suffering with these young black males terrorizing the neighborhood but school administrators such as yourself and others can’t dedicate your full time and attention to the rest of the kids in the classroom that need it. All because that mother made one of the worst decisions ever.
Not even gonna hold you, this post reeks of something else but, whats the story here tho? What if the father just died? Lets just not jump to the stereotypical conclusion.You should have immediately called her a liar to her face. You should have said…..”ma’am I know your son wasn’t created by immaculate conception…..your son has a father…..you just chose wrong”
That’s the kind of accountability we need to hold these black females to out here. It’s because of their bad decision making that not only is the community suffering with these young black males terrorizing the neighborhood but school administrators such as yourself and others can’t dedicate your full time and attention to the rest of the kids in the classroom that need it. All because that mother made one of the worst decisions ever.
Not even gonna hold you, this post reeks of something else but, whats the story here tho? What if the father just died? Lets just not jump to the stereotypical conclusion.
Multiple kids across grades 6-12. I know of 4. All the kids have the same last name, so I'm not sure if there are multiple fathers.
He isn't around from what I know.
Likelihood is high but unless you know, you can't call it certain. The way the internet talks like black man + women = Single mother, they're NOT blaming her(and you know in today's world, fact or fiction, majority rules). You think it's jokes, just like folks really believe Florida is a real life GTA server, just like folks really believe you're going to see a fight every time in Waffle House. We don't have room to be pushing that stereotype around ourselves.I hear ya champ. When you ask “if the father just died” are you talking about by way of natural causes due to old age/something like that…..or are you talking about the father being killed out here in the streets doing something stupid??
The likelihood between the two in this day and age is the latter for certain. You can sit around with your head in the clouds and play games about the subject if you want to.
DCAllAfrican ……any idea or insight about the father??
Likelihood is high but unless you know, you can't call it certain. The way the internet talks like black man + women = Single mother, they're NOT blaming her(and you know in today's world, fact or fiction, majority rules). You think it's jokes, just like folks really believe Florida is a real life GTA server, just like folks really believe you're going to see a fight every time in Waffle House. We don't have room to be pushing that stereotype around ourselves.
So....lets turn the perspective for a bit....so you're saying its true most black men wont raise their kids?Whether YOU like it or not stereotypes exists for a reason. Some good……..some not so good. They exist because of prior knowledge, past history and things repeating themselves. A leopard never changes its spots champ.
I’m quite certain (not 100%sure) but quite certain the kids father thatDCAllAfrican was referring to in his story isn’t dead. If you want to go against traditional thought and wisdom on the matter then so be it.
By the way…..I don’t think it’s “jokes” as you said. I think it’s sad and disappointing that the mother is left with no other option but to throw her hands up mercilessly at the sky to pray for help from heaven up above and to weep on the shoulders ofDCAllAfrican during a parent/school conference knowing that failed as a mother. Thus leaving the burden of educating him in the hands of our good brother
DCAllAfrican to pick up the pieces and try to save that lost child of hers and the countless many other children that just want to come to school to learn.
So....lets turn the perspective for a bit....so you're saying its true most black men wont raise their kids?
... most black women choose to have kids with black men, but don't care to be "under" a black man.
In the words of Huey P Newton..."It takes Two to tango..." so you really think black women be out here like, "Ohh baby bust in me!", or is it dudes out here like; 'I'd go raw"?
Trying to absolve men of accountability is ******* WILD! Talk about calling the kettle black.
I hope yall get that **** worked out.
...and you know you wrong for even going there.Multiple kids across grades 6-12. I know of 4. All the kids have the same last name, so I'm not sure if there are multiple fathers.
Like every "Williams" in the world is related. 
In the words of Huey P Newton..."It takes Two to tango..." so you really think black women be out here like, "Ohh baby bust in me!", or is it dudes out here like; 'I'd go raw"?
Trying to absolve men of accountability is ******* WILD! Talk about calling the kettle black.
I hope yall get that **** worked out.
Again, insane take. With your logic, if you know someone that leaves their house unlocked and ppl go in there to rob them of everything…. Who are you putting the onus on? The opportunistic robbers (in perfect world they would make all the choices not to do that, and I’m not condoning the robbers) or the person that chooses to leave their house unlocked?Before abortions, before smashing..the B(UM)AN still has to approach the women. Then after talking, wining and dining(I DARE you to say it), and gaining trust dude still has to make a decision to wrap it up, if he choses not to, has still to decide to pull out. SO many situations before we get to all that but you wanna skip over all that like she Jedi mind tricked you and stole the semen out your sack in the night. Peleeeeeeeaaaaaassseee.
In the words of Huey P Newton..."It takes Two to tango..." so you really think black women be out here like, "Ohh baby bust in me!", or is it dudes out here like; 'I'd go raw"?
Trying to absolve men of accountability is ******* WILD! Talk about calling the kettle black.
I hope yall get that **** worked out.



You say that is if "both" is not an option. Your insurance company will definitely will see it as an option. Thats what it comes down to at the end of the day...it's BOFFUM and you know its both because both point sitting fingers. Back to the point I started to make...Again, insane take. With your logic, if you know someone that leaves their house unlocked and ppl go in there to rob them of everything…. Who are you putting the onus on? The opportunistic robbers (in perfect world they would make all the choices not to do that, and I’m not condoning the robbers) or the person that chooses to leave their house unlocked?
Accountability without authority is failure.
No man (not even a husband) has the authority to force women to have sex or give birth.
You're speaking to a man who wanted to have a kid, but the woman I was with refused, had an abortion, and didn't even tell me.
Where is my "accountability" for her decision?
Why don't you "work that out" for me, Fam?![]()
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