Another Girl Problem: Mature NTers Welcome - Update Page 7 (10/20) PICS - Story up on Page 9

[Deleted member 56682]

Girl in your avy?

 

[mycoldyourdone]

yo je comprends rien la

 

[cornzilla]

I feel cheated where is the pics???

 

[d money87]

Originally Posted by PUSHA x Vinsanity

Originally Posted by FromThaTown

Well first u need time off with her if it's that bad. And if you can REALLY forgive her for what she has done then get back with her. If not, get your mind right and your health right and look for another bad one out there.

Rule #1: Never forgive a chick that cheated on you.

Straight up. It doesn't get any simpler than that.

It may seem tough right now, and you may have all these feelings of forgiveness, because you want her back, out of desperation... but don't do it. If you let her back into her life after she did somethin' like that, then she knows she can get away with whatever she wants. It's just not a good road to travel down. It might hurt for a while, but giving her up is most certainly the path that you need to choose. As they say, "There are plenty of fish in the sea."

this is one of the smartest things i have ever heard a NT'er say. i went down that road it was a huge mistake and it just ended in heartbreak. she cheatedon you man as much as u may want to forgive her you just cant do it. if she is able to have sex with another dude while shes ur gf then she has no morals andthere are way way better chicks out there.

 

[rafool]

Originally Posted by MidEastBeast

How dare you waste my time by putting "pics" without really putting pics in the thread.

scrolled down on all 4 pages and come to the end and not a find a single picture

oh well

 

[primavera vills]

I wish I knew the story.

 

[geminifly]

I don't know what the hell is going on, im out.

 

[jt air jt]

Yo. Sorry for the broken english.I was really @$@#!% up last night. Its probably in the top 5 sad days of my life...

But anyway, a lot of my friends that know her are saying that its really unlikely for her to cheat on me because of how much they knew she loved me...

and because she would have told me; since we were doing a long distance relationship anyway.

And that this isn't the first time these chicks (Rachel and Monique) have tried to start some @@$#.

I don't know, I trust her - because I love her. So until I see visual proof, or until she actually tells me the truth I will stand by her.

I await on her call (her mom takes her phone away - so she can supposedly only call when her mom isn't around... another long part of the story)...

I'll feed you guys an update when she calls me.

Until then, someone can give me their e-mail so I can just send them the pics, because I think there's something wrong with this comp...

Also, I've got some voicemails that I can upload to justify my situation more - because a lot of people understand where I'm coming from after theylisten to the voicemails...

 

[nicefro]

The hell is going on in this thread?

 

[kwestmajik]

Originally Posted by muscle68

She cheated?

Why you mad at the other guy?

QFT.

 

[newkidtadagame]

Thank her for wasting your time and money..cause a ring and a baby may have had you ready to DV ole girl..people make mistakes and if you feel that she'sgenuinely apologetic and you can make it work, go for it. I'm not gonna sit her and tell you to get over her, erase her contacts and all that causethat's not what I would do. When I make a commitment to someone, whether it be a relationship or platonic, thats what it is. I'm gonna try and make itwork where I can and do what I can do to make it better..if she's not about that then she's pretty much made the decision for you..hope things work outwell for you (and your laptop!)

 

[True Blues]

Sounds like she wasn't worth it anyways.

No offense.

 

[jt air jt]

yeah, my laptops *%*%+% up.

 

[sloanboy]

real talk i was in the same position at one time the best advice i can give is jus let her go cus if u keep pushing she jus gone pull away and if u try to staysround its jus gonna get worse snd 9 times out of 10 after being in that situation and also seeing my friends and fam go through it they usually comeback...........and thats real but u also gotta remember one my always remembered quotes
"ONCE A CHEAT ALWAYS A CHEAT" also remember this if a women wants space give it to her cuz if you dont shell jus take it

 

[bns1201]

Ludacris - Undisputed

"If your boyfriend thinks you're loyal to his %%% he's a motherf***in fool"


Trust a brother....I was in the same situation about a month ago, haven't spoken to her since

 

[jt air jt]

confirmed?

(she's in the middle)...

 

[phinsfan13]

F her. Like everyone else said stop wasting you energy. If you are 19, you have a lottttt more to learn and many more women ahead of you. Do not limityourself. You're screwing yourself in the end. Get out of that "my life is over" crap, many of us have been there.

 

[presequel]

Originally Posted by JT AIR JT

confirmed?

(she's in the middle)...

how does that confirm anything?

 

[dolladp]

Don't really know the whole situation but I tried the long distance relationship before and never again. To stressful and costly. Best thing you can do ismove on and stop wasting time in your life, guarantee you she isn't.

 

[czdadegrees]

hmmm dammmm man if she tells you the truth....and she did some funny stuff DIP if not stay

 

[pj and bompton]

Originally Posted by undefinedinc

Originally Posted by TheBachellor

OP you need to step your story-telling skills up. I read that +%%! like "the hell did I just read?"

With that said, you're looking in to it too much. Coming up with conspiracy theories and all that

Seriously, don't go on the computer for a day. That way you won't be on 5 myspaces refreshing all of them

But seriously.
.

Ok I'm not the only one, I read it like twice and have no idea what is going on

i thought i was the only one i don't understand that !$!@ at all...what's the deal with the myspaces?

 

[starbury03]

You are trippin'. Get your mind right, then think about this later.

 

[Lee And His Sneaks]

I like everyone else have n o idea whats going on in this thread. It reminds me of Metal Gear Solid 2, towards the end when Roy Campbell's communicationsstart wiggin' out.

 

[whyte1der05five]

Good thing I have my Little Orphan Annie Decoder ... otherwise I wouldnt understand this thread at all.

 

[hyphysole]

Thats why i keep my chick on check but smh at me for cheating