Son...he could have at least waited outside.
HE DROVE AWAY.
He walked to his car. opened his door. started his ignition. closed the door. put the car in reverse. backed out. put the car in drive. drove off the premises.
...THEN he called to see where his GF was.
That invalidates EVERYTHING else he did.
Your analogies, examples, and excuses fail beyond comparison.
I would have freaked out too, no doubt, but straight leaving my GF AND kids?
...TO DRIVE AWAY?
Will you please stop quoting me for something I didn't say? I was never defending this guy. **** that guy. He'll obviously have to live with being known a coward who left his wife and kids to die wherever he goes.
I was talking about the entire 20/20 hindsight phenomenon of picking out someone who should've acted differently whenever something like this happens. They're always looking for a hero, implying that they would've acted like one. But I lived long enough to know that the phrase "talk is cheap" isn't a mere figure of speech. I guess you'd be a lot more satisfied if I tried to make it look like I would've acted like a hero in the same situation. Fine, here's what I'd do: I'd jump on the shooter with no regard whatsoever for my own safety, only caring about my fellow men around me. I would try to knock him out and sustain him until the police comes. If he shot me, I'd fight him until my dying breath.
Satisfied? I can't even bring myself to say "I wish I could see how you would act if someone started killing everyone around you", but that would mean that you would have to experience something like this, which I honestly hope neither you nor anyone does.