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Throw my man. I'm feeling your arguments cuz we're in similar situations, but check this.
My girl is 31! If i can get her to be reasonable then your girl at 23 should be reasonable.
My girl has a job, career, makes 80+ a year so for her it does make sense. When I laid out my issues on the table she understood. I'm young, unestablished, don't have anything built up and right now I know it would be impossible to juggle a new career and baby.
If she's being this unreasonable now, imagine her when you have a kid together and your tied to her forever?
RIP to your kid, but your not attached to her right now. If she's willing to give you an ultimatum like that, I think it's time to go. Obviously the compatibility you were talking about might have gone away if she's saying stuff like that.
My girl is 31! If i can get her to be reasonable then your girl at 23 should be reasonable.
My girl has a job, career, makes 80+ a year so for her it does make sense. When I laid out my issues on the table she understood. I'm young, unestablished, don't have anything built up and right now I know it would be impossible to juggle a new career and baby.
If she's being this unreasonable now, imagine her when you have a kid together and your tied to her forever?
RIP to your kid, but your not attached to her right now. If she's willing to give you an ultimatum like that, I think it's time to go. Obviously the compatibility you were talking about might have gone away if she's saying stuff like that.