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Glad I can go on a trip solo dolo and not worry about any drama.
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Nah. Guilty of being in the same place for too long and keeping friends or friends of friends around due to convenience/history despite growing apart.
Glad I can go on a trip solo dolo and not worry about any drama.
Go, have a good time, and on the last day, call him out on his BS in front of everybody.
I don’t know how old you are op and not trying to overstep but the older you get the less time you have to waste on haters and their nonsense. Life is too short to hang out with people like that because make no mistake, he will do everything he can to make your time miserable. I personally don’t have the time or energy to willingly go into a situation with clowns like that. You’re better off doing a separate trip because dude revealed himself to not be a good friend so forget him
7 not that many people man . One person can absolutely ruin a trip for everyone. Ive been there before and will never do it again. If i was in OPs position I wouldn’t go. That **** WILL be a headache.
I agree but I’ve known too many dirtbags that have ruined things for me even in large settings. They just gravitate towards you then the other friends feel awkward. I wonder why he was trying to bash OP on the other group chat. seems like a scumbag on a mission and doesn’t want OP there. I also think OP’s other friends look funny in the light as well for not calling dude out for scumbag behavior. Makes me think they might share some of the ’s views and are lying to OP about not wanting the around.I agree with your post but this is also a large trip so it would be pretty hard for dude to target OP and ruin his experience. Plus as he said, he’s cordial in person so he’s not going to want that static. In a smaller, more intimate setting I would agree but not a group of this size. I just think if he wants to go that it is feasible.
I agree but I’ve known too many dirtbags that have ruined things for me even in large settings. They just gravitate towards you then the other friends feel awkward. I wonder why he was trying to bash OP on the other group chat. seems like a scumbag on a mission and doesn’t want OP there. I also think OP’s other friends look funny in the light as well for not calling dude out for scumbag behavior. Makes me think they might share some of the ’s views and are lying to OP about not wanting the around.
This is the way.Glad I can go on a trip solo dolo and not worry about any drama.
Not enough people are comfortable with themselves to go out in their own cities let alone a trip solo dolo. I, personally, do it all the time. IDGAF. But it does take a high level of outgoingness. Usually by the end of the night I’ve met some yambs or made some friends
But this speaks to your maturity and class as a person. My scumbag meter is off the charts with OP’s situation. I don’t trust his other friends and I fear that they are in on the scamActually I remember this dude Mason ruining a trip for the group when I was in Atlantic City once. Thing is, he was annoying in general, not targeting anybody.
Whole situation is just weird and OP never said his age but just sounds immature. In my prime party days there was a group chat of 5 of us that were rock solid and if someone was inviting a friend to something, they would just invite them. Dudes weren’t holding tribunals like in the case of OPs friend ground.
This situation really shouldn’t be as hard as OPs friend group is making it.
Solo or just a few folks always end up the best time…Me and my folks used to be DEEP but now anytime a lot of us pop out it doesn’t take long for me to be over it ….Less patience for all that bs going on in big group trips or eventsThis is th way.
Started taking solo trips a couple years back and I swear by them. I've made some great friends by going somewhere foreign and forcing myself to adapt.
I recently went on a guys trip with friends I've known for probably 10-15 years in total and I knew it would've been better had I gone alone. I get along great with groups but I like leaving my comfort zone in ways in which my friends are not open to.
went to school with an NTer here and was good friends with him for a few years... as we got older I realized he too was a hater and even try to clown me on here in the forums and through text... So I was just like enough is enough and just deleted their number and stopped contact with them... but it is what it is
You don’t need the sullying your name and any other “friend” that didn’t immediately excommunicateI'm 28. Everyone in the group is 25-29.
Did a solo trip out to San Diego for a month and a half over winter and loved it. Might move out there.