Why Men Need to Cheat

[dbailey86]

ill pass because if a woman was to cheat on me i would be pissed. Just break up with me

 

[ooiron manoo]

Grow up bro, 3 years??...I've been in one for 12 and the times I felt I needed to be with other women my relationship was taking a turn for the worst, so before making things worst I broke it off, did my dirt and eventually we ended back together, we never lost respect for each other, once I grew out of that hormonal stage where I simply couldn't control my D, I knew I was ready to fully commit, be nice if your girl was sucking off some other dude and then kissing you pationately, I mean to you a physical connection means nothing and if you can do you, you really can't tell her +++! if she wants to take some other dudes D in her ##@, because yours isn't really satisfying the hunger, right?
Been in a LTR as long as you have, done the dirt same way you have....still feltbatman.  Almost like I cheated, even though I was "single".

How'd you deal? srs question, PM me, convo might be too deep for NT to handle...

All my friends do dirt while with their girls, can't tell you how many times I've covered the spread for them.  None of my business I say, I don't judge, people have needs and they deal with them differently.  I don't have that switch.  When we broke it off in college, back in the day, the p was easy to attain, first shot I got...little soldier would not salute.  I felt that guilty,

.  All my dudes that have JO's could flick that switch like it's nothing,

 

[shoeking2101]

In my opinion, it's just flat out unrealistic for men to be completely faithful to one woman. There are a few men in here who are "faithful," good for them. But the number of men in our society who cheat and participate in "cheat-like" activities.

 

[niketalker23]

I somewhat read the article and stopped.
It's pretty simple. If you don't want to be a monogamous relationship, find a girl who's willing to have an open relation where both of you sleep around. If you can't find one, BE SINGLE. It's pretty easy...

Edit - And for those blaming society for monogamous relationships, there are species in the animal kingdom that have only one lifelong mating partner.

 

[ksteezy]

My boys do the same

I just feel like there is really too much work and stress in cheating, just isn't worth it to me....plus the guilt would really kill me, you gotta understand once the hunger for new flesh is satisfied, you are just left with that feeling, the feeling that you just did your woman dirty....if you feel zero remorse your moral compass is all @%+$@+ up.

Now once I broke it off, I felt bad...but didn't feel guilt, I went on my dates, slept with who I wanted to ad got tired of the routine and eventually found my way back home, me and my girl ha our realist conversations in the 12 years we've been together the day we decided to work things out, which happened 3 times in a 12 year span....we left nothing hidden, told each other EVERYTHING that we did as singles...It hurt the first time, but once we got over our pride, the amount of trust we built was incredible...

 

[daytona 5000]

You guys are under the assumption that females operate under the same thought process as males. Yeah a female will cheat, but I doubt it would be the same kind of cheating that a male would do. Women are more emotionally driven, while men are more physically driven. That's why it's easier for a dude to "cheat".

 

[ksteezy]

technically is easier for a girl to cheat.....any girl can walk into a bar and chances are if she wanted to shed walk out with a dude effortlessly, for most guys to cheat, he has to go out of his way, even game the JO....%%%+ takes effort, which makes it even worst.

inb4 "im Alpha, chicks flock to me, I dont chase em"

 

[dunksb4life]

I agree with ksteezy

 

[jomitm]

I think about this often especially because a lot of these *@+!%@ try to pull you into the dark side.

I'm not going to lie, it's tough as hell because there are so many bad women that I would have tore apart.

However, the one thing that prevents me from doing it is I don't ever want to ruin what I have with my girl: Complete circle of trust, love, and support. @!!! is rare these days.

The ephemeral things aren't worth it compared to a lifetime of stability and happiness.


MOST IMPORTANTLY, the fact that I know most of the guys I know have cheated, and me being an outlier since I've never done it, I feel like a different human being altogether.

 

[decemberlove]

I don't understand the title. Why do men NEED to cheat? I have a gf and I have urges to have sex with other women but I wouldn't ever play her.

 

[al audi]

Damn.....

 

[bbrroowwnnssuuggaarr]

Ive never cheated and never will. If I feel I need to stray obviously she isnt the one for me. Im more of a female when it comes to sex and will only mess with a girl if theres a connection. Sometimes I wish I wasnt cus itd be easier for me now to get over my Ex by sleeping with random females but I just cant do it. My Ex let her Ex kiss her before pushing him off when we were together and it hurt me alot and I dont think I could do that to someone I care about. I do think its easier for me not cheat cus im not that big on sex in the first place. My one boy was with his girl for 7 years and loved her to death but for half of the relationship hed cheat every now and then. Id ask him why and he really didnt know why hed do it and most of the girls were less attractive than his girl. I never understood this.

 

[jpthe3]

Cheating is fun , you get to mess around with chicks , play games with chick . Spitting knowlege you learned form your girlfriend .

but ......
What goes Around , Comes Around .
Karma
all that bs gets to you

 

[blakep267]

Originally Posted by ksteezy

technically is easier for a girl to cheat.....any girl can walk into a bar and chances are if she wanted to shed walk out with a dude effortlessly, for most guys to cheat, he has to go out of his way, even game the JO....%%%+ takes effort, which makes it even worst.

inb4 "im Alpha, chicks flock to me, I dont chase em"

I think he means, a guy will pretty much bang whatever is around. Evidenced by some of the trashy looking chicks we see with kids. where as most women, don't have that thought process.

 

[mdwst9]

i find it easy to be faithful it jus depends on the girl u have. I feel all my needs are met sex wise as well as mentally n emotionally by my girl so i rarely pay any other females any attn. I find humor in knowing girls are thirsty for me lol but thats all it is is thirst i dont do or take them seriously at all cuz i kno wat i got at home. i understand some dudes are different cuz i used to be the same way but if all ur needs are met then wats the point in cheating rly?

 

[da r entertainment]

Originally Posted by blakep267

Originally Posted by ksteezy

technically is easier for a girl to cheat.....any girl can walk into a bar and chances are if she wanted to shed walk out with a dude effortlessly, for most guys to cheat, he has to go out of his way, even game the JO....%%%+ takes effort, which makes it even worst.

inb4 "im Alpha, chicks flock to me, I dont chase em"

I think he means, a guy will pretty much bang whatever is around. Evidenced by some of the trashy looking chicks we see with kids. where as most women, don't have that thought process.

Sounds like he means that women can simply choose a guy they would like to sleep with and it's a done deal.  It doesn't work like that with men.  Women want men to wine and dine them before they will consider sex most times.

 

[defyant 1]

ksteezy - you need to shave them pubes off your face and fall back son. You is the dude who prob fantasized about black chicks in your room while watching sister sister. you wifed the first one who would have you and you got your nostril wide open. stick you what your good at, having the thinest beard in north america and promoting yourself on the internet.

 

[westhellthug]

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[ksteezy]

Originally Posted by Defyant 1

ksteezy - you need to shave them pubes off your face and fall back son. You is the dude who prob fantasized about black chicks in your room while watching sister sister. you wifed the first one who would have you and you got your nostril wide open. stick you what your good at, having the thinest beard in north america and promoting yourself on the internet.

Shut up, you really think you know me from some pictures I post....GTHO...

 

[651akathepaul]

Originally Posted by Defyant 1

ksteezy - you need to shave them pubes off your face and fall back son. You is the dude who prob fantasized about black chicks in your room while watching sister sister. you wifed the first one who would have you and you got your nostril wide open. stick you what your good at, having the thinest beard in north america and promoting yourself on the internet.

Why? Just why?

 

[brotherforreal]

What's funny is that those of that don't cheat get accused of it more than those who do.

There's nothing worse than taking advice from your girlfriends when they have boyfriends and husbands who cheat on them exclusively.

It's kinda like..taking diet advice from an obese person.

 

[4u2c]

Originally Posted by DAYTONA 5000

You guys are under the assumption that females operate under the same thought process as males. Yeah a female will cheat, but I doubt it would be the same kind of cheating that a male would do. Women are more emotionally driven, while men are more physically driven. That's why it's easier for a dude to "cheat".

That sums it up right here. I be telling girls that when man cheat is not really cheating, there is no emotional connection its just wham bam thank you mam and move on. When women cheat they sneak phone calls, lie about where they been , go on dinner dates and actually have a emotional bond to a dude.

i was telling this girl Men should be allowed to have sex with others girls at least every now and then as long as they don't know.

Its really unrealistic for a men in a relationship to be faithful.

I laugh at men when they said they never cheated on their wife or girlfriend before. I know its a dang lie!

 

[yungchamp]

Originally Posted by TheAfricanDream

Originally Posted by shoeking2101

Had a talk with a friend of mine the other day concerning this



Could it be that the only reason why a man is supposed to be with just one woman something that society has placed as standard? I mean, who says exactly men are supposed to be with just one woman? Men cheat, and if Men don't cheat they are thinking of doing it, which imo is just like cheating, only worse. I've always said that if a man is in a relationship with a woman and has sex with another girl outside the relationship, that's not necessarily cheating. Now, if he goes and gets an entirely different girlfriend while in a relationship with someone else, then that to me is considered cheating. With most men, physical attraction is ever changing, and ever present. As the article stated, due to pornography, and other societal happenings in western culture, it's almost incriminating to ask a man to commit physically to just one woman.



Now, is the reverse true? Do we say that asking woman to be physically committed to a man is unfair as well? I for one believe that women are FAR more able to and even MUCH MORE LIKELY to commit physically to one man. In fact, its probable that they would even stick with just one mate physically even if given the opportunity to step out with another male. It should be noted that since the turn of the century though, women's philosophy on sex is changing fast and in a few years, women may be just as causal with sex as men.



It also should be noted that if you go "I Do" and marry someone, then to me, under no circumstance is it okay to cheat on your counterpart in any way, shape, or form.

I agree with you sir. 

never thought about it like that

 

[daytona 5000]

Originally Posted by 4U2C

Originally Posted by DAYTONA 5000

You guys are under the assumption that females operate under the same thought process as males. Yeah a female will cheat, but I doubt it would be the same kind of cheating that a male would do. Women are more emotionally driven, while men are more physically driven. That's why it's easier for a dude to "cheat".

That sums it up right here. I be telling girls that when man cheat is not really cheating, there is no emotional connection is just wham bam thank you mam and move on. When women cheat hey sneak phone calls, lie about where they been , go on dinner dates and actually have a emotional bond to a dude.

i was telling this girl Men should be allowed to have sex with others girls at least every now and then as long as they don't know.

Its really unrealistic for a men in a relationship to be faithful.

I laugh at men when they said they never cheated on their wife or girlfriend before. I know its a dang lie!

This man gets it. A dude will have sex with a ham sandwich if he was able to. Chicks will make you feel like a slimeball if you were to ever bring up the topic of you having meaningless, emotionless (safe) sex with a random jumpoff, but how many "male friends" does she have in the wing? Constantly giving her attention, inflating her ego, listening to her boy problems, and basically being an emotional tampon? She's out chea basically having an emotional affair with these so called friends of hers, and you can't go smash a random chick you have absolutely NO feelings for? OH.

 

[the great hibachi]

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