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Originally Posted by thytkerjobs
the only way i wouldnt take his last name is if it rhymed with my 1st name. No way in hell im gonna be called alyssa salissa or somethin like that for the rest of my life.
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Originally Posted by thytkerjobs
the only way i wouldnt take his last name is if it rhymed with my 1st name. No way in hell im gonna be called alyssa salissa or somethin like that for the rest of my life.
Originally Posted by Nike Star Jay
What's up with trying to give negative words positive meanings? If a random dude called you that, you know you'd be heated.Originally Posted by Nyota de la star
Seriously though, think about it. The connotations of the word are pretty laughable... which makes embracing the word pretty funny
and deliciously rebelling
Originally Posted by Phil Le0tard0
I blame Beyonce, got these females thinking they could go to school, better themselves, and be sucessful without having to latch on to a man
Originally Posted by Nyota de la star
Originally Posted by Nike Star Jay
What's up with trying to give negative words positive meanings? If a random dude called you that, you know you'd be heated.Originally Posted by Nyota de la star
Seriously though, think about it. The connotations of the word are pretty laughable... which makes embracing the word pretty funny
and deliciously rebelling
Probably.
The thing is, I've never heard anyone really use that word in real life like that. NT seems to be in love with it though.
ninjahood wrote:
Originally Posted by mytmouse76
so what are you giving up to her?
da ring, kids, a house, hell........da rampant fake independant diva trend these days is atrocious
Originally Posted by ninjahood
Originally Posted by mytmouse76
Originally Posted by frostythepoptart
its 2009. my chick better be out working if she can, and still come home and throw down the steak.
and its no sweat If i need to help throw down a meal once in a while too. My moms taught me how to cook and look after myself and I love my food
taking up the last name is a sign of respect. it's sort of giving up a piece of yourself for your man.
if your not willing to be represented as part of my family whats the point.
so what are you giving up to her?
da ring, kids, a house, hell........da rampant fake independant diva trend these days is atrocious
Originally Posted by J Dilla Himself
Originally Posted by Nyota de la star
Originally Posted by Nike Star Jay
What's up with trying to give negative words positive meanings? If a random dude called you that, you know you'd be heated.Originally Posted by Nyota de la star
Seriously though, think about it. The connotations of the word are pretty laughable... which makes embracing the word pretty funny
and deliciously rebelling
Probably.
The thing is, I've never heard anyone really use that word in real life like that. NT seems to be in love with it though.
. How old are you? And where do you live? Dead that Team Hoodrat sig, though, though
Originally Posted by Nyota de la star
Originally Posted by J Dilla Himself
Originally Posted by Nyota de la star
Originally Posted by Nike Star Jay
What's up with trying to give negative words positive meanings? If a random dude called you that, you know you'd be heated.Originally Posted by Nyota de la star
Seriously though, think about it. The connotations of the word are pretty laughable... which makes embracing the word pretty funny
and deliciously rebelling
Probably.
The thing is, I've never heard anyone really use that word in real life like that. NT seems to be in love with it though.
. How old are you? And where do you live? Dead that Team Hoodrat sig, though, though
18 ( I have the right to be immature).
I live in some rural-suburban area in Frederick, MD.
Why should I dead it? It's too much fun!
dumbest thing I've read in a while.Originally Posted by Nike Star Jay
That's my problem with American society. We're losing touch of the original gender roles.Originally Posted by Lazy B
What's up with some dudes taking their wife's last name though?Men being househusbands? Men taking women's last names?
word? thats what you gonna tell your girlfriends when they ask..."pssh girrrrrrl i dont need NO man,i bought my OWN ring"Originally Posted by cocolicious
Originally Posted by General Johnson
Tradition wouldn't be a big deal if women weren't selective about when it's ok to break it.Originally Posted by cocolicious
What's the big deal with tradition? Just because something was done a certain way for many years means it has to stay that way forever?
If a woman doesn't want to take a man's last name, that's cool with me, just don't expect the following traditions
-a ring
-a wedding
-me to be faithful
-me to not slap the *%+% outta ya when you get disrespectful
I can buy my own ring, I don't want a wedding & as far as the other stuff that's about respect not tradition.
Is it really THAT serious though?Originally Posted by Master Zik
Unless shorty is famous as a name like there's no reason for it.
Maybe a hyphen but when a wife does this the husband always looks like a sucka imo. Makes no sense.
Please. Spare me.Originally Posted by itz rOLLi
Originally Posted by Nyota de la star
Originally Posted by J Dilla Himself
Originally Posted by Nyota de la star
Originally Posted by Nike Star Jay
What's up with trying to give negative words positive meanings? If a random dude called you that, you know you'd be heated.Originally Posted by Nyota de la star
Seriously though, think about it. The connotations of the word are pretty laughable... which makes embracing the word pretty funny
and deliciously rebelling
Probably.
The thing is, I've never heard anyone really use that word in real life like that. NT seems to be in love with it though.
. How old are you? And where do you live? Dead that Team Hoodrat sig, though, though
18 ( I have the right to be immature).
I live in some rural-suburban area in Frederick, MD.
Why should I dead it? It's too much fun!
18 is too old to be immature, unless you really are a hoodrat.
you're suppose to be in college at that age... grow up, act like it.
Originally Posted by cocolicious
Originally Posted by General Johnson
Tradition wouldn't be a big deal if women weren't selective about when it's ok to break it.Originally Posted by cocolicious
What's the big deal with tradition? Just because something was done a certain way for many years means it has to stay that way forever?
If a woman doesn't want to take a man's last name, that's cool with me, just don't expect the following traditions
-a ring
-a wedding
-me to be faithful
-me to not slap the *%+% outta ya when you get disrespectful
I can buy my own ring, I don't want a wedding & as far as the other stuff that's about respect not tradition.
We don't believe you
You need more people
Swahili actuallyOriginally Posted by J Dilla Himself
Just realized nyota is african
I dont care if her last name is Obama, if you want my bachelorhood, you will bear my last name, point blank , you cant half *%@ tradition, if younot gonna go all the way, we might as well be booed up in the crib and call it a life.Originally Posted by VeryAnalytical85
Originally Posted by HOVKid
Originally Posted by ThrowedInDaGame
Lack of respect.
You want to share my bank account and house, then you'll share my last name.
^ This....and... I've chimed in on this topic on other forums but to give my two cents. If she has a name that has some kind of prestige or financial advantage (Kennedy, Rockerfeller, Hilton, etc.) Then I could understand the hesitation and the benefits of keeping it (or switching to her surname). Yes, I'm familiar with the original purpose of women changing their surnames because of being looked at as property and all that Jazz. But this is one tradition that I'm pretty stubborn with honestly, I wish she would take it (none of that hyphenation business either).
I don't understand this response to my post. Exactly what about my post implied seriousness? Or is somebody looking like a sucka"serious" to you?Originally Posted by Nyota de la star
Is it really THAT serious though?Originally Posted by Master Zik
Unless shorty is famous as a name like there's no reason for it.
Maybe a hyphen but when a wife does this the husband always looks like a sucka imo. Makes no sense.
Wait a min. what now? This is a joke right? Cuz I've seen this used as a joke. I didn't know dudes actually did thisOriginally Posted by Lazy B
What's up with some dudes taking their wife's last name though?
Originally Posted by J Dilla Himself
Originally Posted by Nyota de la star
Originally Posted by Nike Star Jay
What's up with trying to give negative words positive meanings? If a random dude called you that, you know you'd be heated.Originally Posted by Nyota de la star
Seriously though, think about it. The connotations of the word are pretty laughable... which makes embracing the word pretty funny
and deliciously rebelling
Probably.
The thing is, I've never heard anyone really use that word in real life like that. NT seems to be in love with it though.
. How old are you? And where do you live? Dead that Team Hoodrat sig, though, though
Originally Posted by DSK aka iLLoQuent
ninjahood wrote:
Originally Posted by mytmouse76
so what are you giving up to her?
da ring, kids, a house, hell........da rampant fake independant diva trend these days is atrocious
Originally Posted by ThrowedInDaGame
Lack of respect.
You want to share my bank account and house, then you'll share my last name.