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*%%$@ my post count higher than yours, I should be askin' where you came fromOriginally Posted by ACE BOMBER
what's with all these ideal ladies comin out of the woodwork on NT?! and how come none of yall exist in real life?Originally Posted by Galvelocity
I came in to write pretty much exactly this haha. I wanna stay home and take care of my kids and have dinner ready when my husband gets home and then do dishes while he watches the news. I get sooo much hell from feminists for it but it's really what I want to do haha.Originally Posted by I Drink Your Milkshake
cool story
so I invited this guy I've been dating for a while over....it was later in the day, and I had made pancakes. When he came over, I fixed the eggs, bacon was already made in the oven with the pancakes staying warm. We ate, I cleaned up his plate or whatever and started cleaning up and washing dishes. We were talkin', then after a while he got really quiet. So then I was like "what, you tired or something?" He said "no---I'm just watching you wash dishes..."
I don't know why, but I love that. And no, I didn't want him to want to help me wash dishesHonestly, I'm not one to do +%$* for no one and a lot of people think I'm selfish....but when I like someone, I'll do things like that. He's been over twice, and I've cooked twice. It's funny cuz he said that had the been the first time in a long time where he had a sit down meal. And I don't mean like tv dinners, I mean like prepared a meal (penne pasta with marinara sauce, grilled green, red, yellow peppers with mild Italian sausage, Parmesan cheese on top---nothing too extravagant) and fixed his plate and all that jazz. And the next time he comes over, I'mma cook something else. I love cooking for a man....if it's a man I really like.
I think if a woman has a man, point blank...she should be cooking for him. Now if it's not every night, ok. I get it, we work. But I think more nights than not, should be home cooked meals. My mom does (or at least tries her best to) cook for my stepdad and I appreciate her for it. All of the women I know cook for their husbands, but the husbands also cook some nights too. I think that is the ideal relationship for me.
Also in terms of the last name thing, I can't wait to be Mrs. _____, but my only qualm is that I really really really like my last name. No one I know calls me by my first name, it's always been my last so it just makes me a little sad to thing about losing it for goodjk