What happened to men?

[2163O1baller90]

i used to listen to myles munroe alot a few years ago

 

[atlsfinest]

Don't let a woman who never grew up with a father tell you how to be a man. Their vision of manhood is literally from movies and TV shows. This is why I think it so important for me to marry a woman who's parents were still together. My parents have been together for over 40 years and her parents have been together for over 30 years. I think that saves me alot of drama I hear other guys go through.

I know my personality, I'd never be with a woman I have to "check". I'd just leave that relationship because I that's not worth it. I'm not the type to be getting in shouting matches in public.

Some women say, "I need a man who can handle me". Trick, you're an adult not a dog, handle yourself

 

[superblytrife]

Lots of insecure NTers with a frail self image, I see.

Sheesh.

 

[Beruseruku Desu]

Don't let a woman who never grew up with a father tell you how to be a man. Their vision of manhood is literally from movies and TV shows. This is why I think it so important for me to marry a woman who's parents were still together. My parents have been together for over 40 years and her parents have been together for over 30 years. I think that aves me alot of drama I hear other guys go through. I know my personality, I'd never be with a woman I have to "check". I'd just leave that relationship because I that's not worth it.

Some women say, "I need a man who can handle me". Trick, you're an adult not a dog, handle yourself

I’ll take this one step further and say don’t even mess with a chick who never had a father.

Just toot it and boot it

 

[3900stabler]

you aren't giving any respect if your mentality is about putting women in "check" or speaking down as if they are less than human... & seems from your detailed soliloquy that you're projecting a bit much, wanna talk about it?

Bruh u doin too much. Out here sounding like John legend. Being docile around women won't make them like you or give up the p.

 

[kingsrborn]

The good Ol if she grew up with both parents analogy means nothing today as we know it. People on this site bash the MGTOW/Red Pill knowledge that is given away for free via Social Media. I've been Red Pilled for a few years now without even knowing it = not giving women attention/validation , going off of their actions and not their words, not chasing/simping. I've seen so many break ups, divorces, and people just not happy in their relationships in the last 10 years, that I look at relationships completely different from how it was for my parents and grand parents era/time. Most people on here are going to bash me for this, but there's literally no incentive for a man who has no kids, good job with good credit, that's stress free to get married in this day in time.

If you want kids, go ahead and have kids, and if it doesn't work out, you'll be on child support at worst. But being on Child support is way better than losing assets such as houses/cars/savings/401k,s/etc. I noticed people on here bash Red Pill/MGTOW knowledge, but it has saved men from making bad relationship decisions, and will continue to do so in the future. Marriage is a huge gamble for men in this day in time because the statistics on it tells us most of them aren't going so far be successful long-term wise, and the numbers for failure are even worse for 2nd and 3rd time marriages.

Education and money means nothing in marriage when it comes to competing with something that we call time. Over a long period of time, people change, which isn't good for a marriage. What I noticed that can help is that if both people have a common goal =kids, business, etc. It helps keep the relationship last longer, because both people have a common interests that's hard to break apart. Me myself, after witnessing how Social Media, Feminism, and how Entertainment has altered and indoctrinated the western females mind on how they treat and act with men when it comes to relationships, I've bowed out a long time ago.

I still date, but it will never be anything serious as far as commitment goes in my life. I know waaaaaaaay to much about female nature, their constant testing because some women like you to check them or to fight with them because they've been in abusive relationships in the past, so they think that's a loving relationship, if you don't then they think your weak and not a real man, because you won't go upside their head after they've disrespected you first. The emotional ups and downs, the periodical nagging you when they're bored. Other cultures don't have this problem like we do in the West, for many reasons we already know about. Just remember that's it's war that you don't have to play in if you don't want to.

All you have to do is stay away from marriage, unless she has more money than you, and then a pre-nup is written up, but in my opinion, the juice still wouldn't be worth the squeeze.

 

[QU!K]

One of the more interesting threads in a while

 

[kingsrborn]

And it's only going to get worser, because the roles have literally been reversed in the younger generation/people I've seen out in public. People's opinions shouldn't matter when it comes to your respect and morals as a man. The problem of today, is that boys/men where raised to think of relationships in the terms of what it use to be years ago, but them cats are getting ate up out here. Because the dynamics of a relationship has changed drastically compared to what it once was.

Don't let people make you feel bad because you demand respect from others. Most females are raised to think their Queens that don't have to be reprimanded with accountability for any of their mistakes, hence: why most of them can get away with bad actions/behavior that men can't get away. Add in the enablers (family/simps/Social media/feminism), the problem we're having today.

Like I've said, I rather lead than compete with the woman I'm with. Remember that 70%-80% of divorces are initiated by the woman, everybody else around her will know before you do, lol,good luck to yall, because y'all are going to need it bad years from now.

 

[atlsfinest]

And it's only going to get worser, because the roles have literally been reversed in the younger generation/people I've seen out in public. People's opinions shouldn't matter when it comes to your respect and morals as a man. The problem of today, is that boys/men where raised to think of relationships in the terms of what it use to be years ago, but them cats are getting ate up out here. Because the dynamics of a relationship has changed drastically compared to what it once was.

Don't let people make you feel bad because you demand respect from others. Most females are raised to think their Queens that don't have to be reprimanded with accountability for any of their mistakes, hence: why most of them can get away with bad actions/behavior that men can't get away. Add in the enablers (family/simps/Social media/feminism), the problem we're having today.

Like I've said, I rather lead than compete with the woman I'm with. Remember that 70%-80% of divorces are initiated by the woman, everybody else around her will know before you do, lol,good luck to yall, because y'all are going to need it bad years from now.

Who hurt you, bro?

 

[stuntman mike]

worser

 

[Josy Jo]

Not even on some macho steeze. Just some observation I've been making out in public. Have men lost their dignity to the point they're letting women walk all over them? It's crazy how I have to check women and their aggressive tone on a frequent basis these days. Like I don't know how you talk to your man at home like a pet but don't come at me that way in public. Been noticing this in women of all shades white, black, yellow, purple, green, etc in the NYC area.

should i punch my mom in the mouth the next time she uses a tone i don't like?

 

[htg designs]

This thread is pure

 

[Josy Jo]

This thread is pure

it is at 1st & then gets pretty pathetic the more u read.

 

[danikerhino]

Dudes are just mad that they have women as their boss at work. Ya'll need to grow the **** up. And FYI, if you're a real man, you shouldn't only be mad at "danty" women stepping to you, you should mad at everyone stepping to you including the dude that towers over you.

 

[1c3m4m]

I feel like social media has played a part in the downfall of the male

 

[Josy Jo]

I feel like social media has played a part in the downfall of the male

care to elaborate?

 

[DCAllAfrican]

Seeing alot of #NTEXTREMES from both sides of this convo.

Either you hate women or You are a simp.

No grey area apparently.

 

[1c3m4m]

care to elaborate?

Ppl look at these celebs, false prophet teachers spitting ‘advice’, and think that men are supposed to be a certain way or act a certain way, all because they have a high follower account, like it doesn't vary from person to person.

And the masses gobble it up

 

[Josy Jo]

Ppl look at these celebs, false prophet teachers spitting ‘advice’, and think that men are supposed to be a certain way or act a certain way, all because they have a high follower account, like it doesn't vary from person to person.

And the masses gobble it up

People were like this prior to social media.

 

[jape]

some of yall act like you never had to check a woman
some of yall act like you never had to check a man

why are people mad at the verbage being used?

 

[finessence]

Don't let a woman who never grew up with a father tell you how to be a man. Their vision of manhood is literally from movies and TV shows. This is why I think it so important for me to marry a woman who's parents were still together. My parents have been together for over 40 years and her parents have been together for over 30 years. I think that saves me alot of drama I hear other guys go through.

I know my personality, I'd never be with a woman I have to "check". I'd just leave that relationship because I that's not worth it. I'm not the type to be getting in shouting matches in public.

Some women say, "I need a man who can handle me". Trick, you're an adult not a dog, handle yourself

Better yet, don’t ever let a woman with no man, horrible relationship history, someone who’s never HAD a man, but probably a sissy, tell you what a real “Man” is.

 

[finessence]

I feel like social media has played a part in the downfall of the male

It’s had a MAJOR impact. Dudes putting heart and flower crowns on their heads, filters, etc.

The rapper Gunna had on a CHANEL PURSE and got a ton of likes

 

[equality]

I had a girl tell me I didn't want to wear make up because of the fear I have of being different and society has conditioned me to think makeup is feminine. How about I've just never in my life even thought about enhancing my face with makeup? How about I love women but have no interest in these feminine things?

 

[finessence]

I had a girl tell me I didn't want to wear make up because of the fear I have of being different and society has conditioned me to think makeup is feminine. How about I've just never in my life even thought about enhancing my face with makeup? How about I love women but have no interest in these feminine things?

Should’ve asked her how many of her past dudes wore makeup. And why she’s no longer with them.

 

[RIP sleazyy]

I feel like social media has played a part in the downfall of the male

Of people in general. It is virtual drug addiction and anxiety/depression fuel directly injected 24/7.

Like with any drug some folks can handle it but others just go off the deep end.