What do yo say/do to avoid buying a drink for a girl in a club/lounge/bar?

[hugo]

Back then i use to buy them all the time but now im like...wtheck, how bout you buy me a drink...but seriously most of the time these birds ask me to buy em a drink or buy her and her girls shots, i say sure and boom just disappear in the dusk of the lights and smoke....and no its not that im broke or anything, just that i go out every week and spending over $50 a night is cray..rather have a bottle at home at take these birds home... What do you say or do?

 

[thegreatone]

"im sorry i dont drink, so i dont buy drinks, but my friend here does." (while holding a drink in my hand)

 

[grizzly hebert]

No.

 

[antonlavey]

I just make girls buy me drinks as I double fist glasses of Moet. It isn't that difficult, and any girl that gets you a drink is a keeper for the night.

 

[mahnametahrone]

It's simple. DON'T BUY THEM DRINKS. If it's a homegirl then yeah. But if it's some random chick, you're just playing yourself.

Spoiler: Warning%3A%20Spoiler!

I had some random chick at the bar that asked if I could buy her and her friend a drink. I ordered them a drink and walked away

 

[airthompson]

I would buy you a drink, only I'm not 21. But can I interest you in bathroom stall sex?

 

[jhawk826]

No.

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[two zero five]

No.

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[denni5themenace]

so you're telling me that random girls walk up to you, ask you to buy them a drink, and you oblige?

 

[sumrndmdude]

"just when I thought you were different" as you 

, and guilt her into free yambs.

 

[thadocta]

I tell them yes.

Go to the bathroom whip up the special recipe and watch while they down the future generation

 

[ksteezy]

A girl that actually asks a dude to buy her drink is a bird, id buy a girl a drink if I'm interested and if she doesn't ask for it....she asks me to buy her a drink I'll laugh in her face.

 

[tr1ll]

"Buy you a drink?!" :x

 

[ohmygosher]

If you are being asked to buy a drink, then you are probably a beta male. Females know what type of guy this works with.

 

[rocksfan25]

Maybe it's because I don't give off that vibe, but I rarely have a girl work up the courage to ask me for a drink out of the blue/after a couple minute of conversation. I would only buy a random girl a drink if I had been around her for 30+ mins and thought I was getting sex out of it. Usually, those types of girls will also buy you drinks.

Single days are gone now, love being married to a girl that doesn't drink. Not wasting my money plus she can drive

 

[elpablo21]

I dont even say anything

Just hit em' with the

 

[curbsideprophet]

Not thread worthy bruh.

 

[fly23s]

Dam u want the d so bad

 

[theofficialace]

I just tell them its my birthday and My boy is taking care of drinks tonight.

 

[theofficialace]

And never hang aroung the part of the bar/club where theyre actually serving the drinks. Thats where guys get asked the most.

 

[deuce king]

Either say "No" or just say "I don't buy females a drink that I don't know very well" and then try to spin a conversation off from that.  If a chick walks away from that, then you know she's not worth your time anyway.  However, a real chick really wouldn't ask you to buy then a drink anyway.

 

[gatzbygordon]

when i  first turned 21 i was at an event with some coworkers..

i was a projectionists and we would get into these film maker parties for free and also get free drinks, this was after the international film fest..

one night we went after work and it was at a gay bar..we were just stopping by for a couple of drinks and bouncing, it just wasnt dudes there either it was just being hosted at a gay club..

this was all industry people, plus they were from all over australians french peeps,ETC.. they were all cool as hell..anyway i was just chillin and my boss told me to go talk to some girls

i wasnt really dressed for the occasion and said eff it..walked around a bit and saw this white blonde chick sitting at the bar bored as hell, we started to talk and she said her and her friends were going to cabo but their flight was cancelled due to weather, i think it was during Gustav or something, but yeah this chick was probably an 8.5 out of 10..she asked me arent you going to buy me a drink..

and i told her that i didnt bring any money since i got free drinks and that i wasnt expecting to meet a hot girl at a gay bar..she laughed and she said well here ill buy you a drink...

so after 5 drinks or so we are making out and shes grabbing my junk we drank alot more after that..then she tells me she wants to go outside to do it..

she was from long beach 29 years old and worked for boost mobiles corporate offices..we start to head outside and her friend who was with her comes and gets her and tells her they are leaving..we give em a ride and the entire way im getting my hands wet..

 shes telling me she loves me and this and that..to come live with her i dont have to work or she can get me a job in hollywood...

we get to her hotel and my buddy and i had to carry her..we get in the elevator just the 2 of us and shes telling me to get naked and lets do it right here..then we get to the hallway and shes saying to do it there too 

 girl was wild this was the first time i had ever gone out to a bar...her friend told her to get into the room and she was telling her to let her go..and the last thing i hear is some struggling then i hear her scream.."LET ME GO I WANNA F_ _ _ _ HIM!!" 

we took off after that..cuz i knew her friend wasnt going to let her out..

next day at work im hung over..walking to the booth and everyones staring at me..

i get to my work area and my boss yells WTEFFF.. then he said did you get attacked by a cheetah?? and i had no clue what he was talking about..then he tells me to check my neck..

i go and look in the mirror and my neck is tore up with these nasty hickies all over my neck...

i didnt get her info which i regret, thats how fast things went..

if you have to ask for advice on females then you will NEVER ever succeed with the ladies..

i have never asked for advice with females, you gotta get out there and also make friends with girls, it lets you into their world, some chicks will do anything for you..

you just have to have a great personality and also not take things too seriously,its all a game you just have to choose the right opponent.

 

[tr1ll]

Riveting tale, my friend.

 

[trilluminated]

 

[csrcarbajal]

when I get asked by a random bird i give them the , say no and then proceed with my night