Was she foul or am I taking this the wrong way?

[shoefreakbaby]

Your best friends with a girl

 

[yeerp]

she's doing things with nikki and you are not invited

 

[shoefreakbaby]

Originally Posted by KingofIlladelph

Originally Posted by sheardiboy

Your best-friend's a girl, you're %$@$+!$ done bro..

This comment actually came later than I thought it would.

Yeah man, my best friend's a girl.  And by Niketalk logic, that means I have no male friends and am actually not her friend at all but merely a dude in the friend zone.

I been through some stuff and she's held me down.  That type of loyalty doesn't really have a gender.

Thats deep

 

[troymcclure]

Tell her to have fun and that you want to go on a trip with her soon.

 

[jesusshuttlesworth34]

My man is writing narrative essay-like responses....wow.

Be assertive with your feelings...passive-agressiveness is probably the worst quality to have when handling conflict or disagreements.  If you are truly good friends you should be able to voice your displeasure and move forward.  Good luck.

 

[sillyputty]

Originally Posted by JesusShuttlesworth34

My man is writing narrative essay-like responses....wow.

Be assertive with your feelings...passive-agressiveness is probably the worst quality to have when handling conflict or disagreements.  If you are truly good friends you should be able to voice your displeasure and move forward.  Good luck.

Man, I'm not even tripping but dude is acting like he was legitimately wronged for being in the perpetual friend-zone for 8ish years 
Its like the first thing he forgot about being friends with this woman...WAS THAT SHE WAS A WOMAN! 

Plus its not like she had a boyfriend to invite to go with her... 

TroyMcClure wrote:

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Tell her to have fun and that you want to go on a trip with her soon.

Yeah then have OP post "NT Help, my female best friend won't talk to me any more, she says I made her feel uncomfortable" 

 

[jesusshuttlesworth34]

Tis true...tis true.  I except women to do things men wouldn't and handle certain situations accordingly.  Gender-bias.  

 

[put em up]

pull your skirt down g.

 

[laker4lifeman]

Originally Posted by KingofIlladelph

Oh, NY is definitely cancelled.

 

[blazinrook]

Real deal..she don't really care for u to go.

And u hurt because u realizing now that she don't really care for u like that..
Informing people in travel plans is common courtesy..and what she did was inconsiderate.

(side bar) it's annoying as !%%% to travel with people u not on the same page with..

(side bar 2) the older I get, the more I realize the idea of a best friend just isn't realistic..
Everyone has agendas and u tend to just roll with the ones that have similar agendas as u.

 

[goldenarmz97]

Originally Posted by ATGD7154xBBxMZ

You should've just waited until she remembered if she really did forget. Who buys tickets and forgets to inform the other person she invited? I think her and Nikki were really planning to have lesbian orgies/Dancing Bear party over here for her bday and didn't want you cramping their style.

 

[PRIME]

There's so much %@*@+%@ text in this thread, I lost interest in the topic at hand. But !%%$ it, here's my response (summarized)


OP, you shouldn't have tripped on it. It wasn't that serious.
She invited you, then she disregarded your participation in the trip once plans were put into motion.


She says she's your best friend, but she flexed on you. She jaked on you hard homie.