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Lol I wasn't serious man don't go to the back pages gonna a bunch of trannies maybe even a serial killer
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Dang man, this thread is a crazy mix of
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Really it comes down to confidence and knowing yourself, being comfortable with yourself.
Sunshineblotters, you sound like one of my best friends but i think you're trolling too...Black man with his masters, you're a rare breed my dude.
Really it comes down to confidence and knowing yourself, being comfortable with yourself.
Sunshineblotters, you sound like one of my best friends but i think you're trolling too...Black man with his masters, you're a rare breed my dude.
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What is your master's in, sunshineblotters?
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I swear to god I am not trolling. If I am may lightning come down and strike me right now. I know but I am an americanized european african, not an african american if that makes sense. (I am raised african in europe but I came here when I was 10). The features found in american blacks I dont have, but I am working on it. I am not naturally muscular. I started going to the gym but fell off. Now I am back on. My goal is to have a decent beach body by NEXT summer since I avoid beaches like the plague. My voice aint like black americans voices. I wish it was.
In fact thats why I like the same kind of women black americans like. I used to fantasize about being naturally huge, good at sports, a smooth talker, girls of all races flocking to me etc.
What I do well: I know how to dress (I get complimented by guys and girls all the time)....... that's really all I can think of
@Jay6jay you werent the one who made me go there. I have been thinking about it for about a year. I told myself if I cant get my richard wet by the time I graduate grad school I would go through with it. Then I decided not to go through with it. :/ I just couldnt bring myself to do it..... Mostly because of the trannies. So now my mindset is in my next trip to europe I will stop at a brothel.
In fact thats why I like the same kind of women black americans like. I used to fantasize about being naturally huge, good at sports, a smooth talker, girls of all races flocking to me etc.
What I do well: I know how to dress (I get complimented by guys and girls all the time)....... that's really all I can think of
@Jay6jay you werent the one who made me go there. I have been thinking about it for about a year. I told myself if I cant get my richard wet by the time I graduate grad school I would go through with it. Then I decided not to go through with it. :/ I just couldnt bring myself to do it..... Mostly because of the trannies. So now my mindset is in my next trip to europe I will stop at a brothel.
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Accounting. Planning on having at least 3 parts of the CPA Exam done by May.
Also like I said before confidence was not a problem until i went so many years with it and it never worked. I lost it and can't get it back. In fact the girls who have given me a chance with no confidence are better looking than the ones that gave me a chance when I did have confidence. That is not saying much because except for the two outrageously hot girls that I went on a date with
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Sex is a lot more enjoyable when you're young.
Might as well get all the ******g out of your system because there's going to come a point in time that you're not even going to want to do it anymore.
Might as well get all the ******g out of your system because there's going to come a point in time that you're not even going to want to do it anymore.
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Same here. You doing big 4?
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I can tell. Even without having sex my libido has significantly reduced in the last 10 years.
One of my biggest regrets (not the word I am looking for since I cant control that no one wants me but whatever) is not having sex when I was 15 or 16 like everyone else. Not sure if I should say this but I go weeks without touching down there. I really hope it is because that has become boring (i used to overdo it). That the real thing will stimulate me more. That I could have real sex whenever I wanted.
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I stopped looking for a job a while back when I almost got a position with PwC. IDK what happened.... right now I am focusing on the CPA Exam. One of my aunts is at the recruiting board of GE and told me to hit her up when I am almost done with the CPA so I am just going to do that instead. I'll get back to applying soon. If I get a job at the Big 4 before then, I will take that instead. Just for the career boost. I dont care much for public accounting but it is really good for your career. I strongly prefer industry
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Solid plan. You'll end up with a very good salary right out of school & that'll do wonders for your self esteem.
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woops
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You a grown man so you are going to do what you want but don't get accustomed to brothels if u have to go to Europe to get to them cause you may be desperate when you come back to the states and use backpages
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Yo this thread is really sad.
If any of you guys live in NYC and need some coaching or a wingman hit me up. I'm not the greatest but I'm willing to help. I legit feel for you guys and wabt to help.
If any of you guys live in NYC and need some coaching or a wingman hit me up. I'm not the greatest but I'm willing to help. I legit feel for you guys and wabt to help.
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If anyone in Chicago wants to coach me LMK. I wont start till summer when I have expendable income. I'll prolly make a thread about it then.
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What kind of women you like?
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Wait, sorry I don't know your backstory sunshine. I just read the first few pages and wrote my response.
Is this thread basically the written version of 40 Year Old Virgin?
Is this thread basically the written version of 40 Year Old Virgin?
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I don't want to use height as an excuse but being 5'5.75" sucks. Also I'm a socially awkward loner. I feel like the Invisuble Man.
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As long as her face aint popped and she dont look like a hippo in terms of weight. I am cool.
No, because the 40 year old virgin didnt try if my memory is right
My backstory:
Used to have confidence
didnt work
lost confidence
lost self esteem
kept trying
in late 2011 I went on a date with a hot girl, she ended up not being interested (i txted her too much)
decided I had enough
went into deep depression (never got it treated, never saw a doctor to confirm it, i just know)
stopped trying
now I am looking for a job and will try my luck again when I have more disposable income. Right now my money goes towards pot and shoes because I am tired of spending money to no avail. The amount of money I have spent on girls and got not out of it would amaze you. (I'd say about a grand a half a year for the last 5, not to mention all the money before that)
All my expendable loot is going to kicks, clothes, and food until I got a steady income
EDIT: Now that I think of it, more like 2.5 grand a year for the last 5 years spent on girls with nothing in return
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Bruh
You counted the decimals?
You counted the decimals?
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Seriously, some of you are over thinking things.
All it is, is a numbers game at the end of the day unless there is something really, really, ****** up about you (as in schizo, serial killer, rapist, etc).
It's like a ballplayer going 3-30 in his first 30 at bats in the league and then retiring because he's only batting .100. It's all variance. The greater the numbers of women you meet, the more variance becomes less of a factor and the curve smooths out.
Furthermore, if you don't value yourself then others won't as well. When it comes to women and dating, it's better to come off as "too good" then not good enough.
Also, don't be too picky. Preferences are fine but nitpicking is counterproductive unless you consistently can pull dimes.
You have to realize that shame and/or embarrassment only exist in your mind.
All it is, is a numbers game at the end of the day unless there is something really, really, ****** up about you (as in schizo, serial killer, rapist, etc).
It's like a ballplayer going 3-30 in his first 30 at bats in the league and then retiring because he's only batting .100. It's all variance. The greater the numbers of women you meet, the more variance becomes less of a factor and the curve smooths out.
Furthermore, if you don't value yourself then others won't as well. When it comes to women and dating, it's better to come off as "too good" then not good enough.
Also, don't be too picky. Preferences are fine but nitpicking is counterproductive unless you consistently can pull dimes.
You have to realize that shame and/or embarrassment only exist in your mind.
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@ Sunshine
Man, you're going to be ok dude. Say you come out of school making 60K, hit the weights and get a solid physique. There's going to be women out there that are dying to meet a dude that has that much going for him. Are they dimes?, no because dimes always have a ridiculous amount of options. But the average to slightly below average chicks out there are plentiful, and they are going to be past the stage of just trying to hook up with the jock or frat boy.
They want a guy that is really going to be down for them and in turn you get the panties, feel me? Man, I just moved from Chicago, and up there I know 15-20 chicks that probably would let you smash, just off the strength of having a decent job.
Man, you're going to be ok dude. Say you come out of school making 60K, hit the weights and get a solid physique. There's going to be women out there that are dying to meet a dude that has that much going for him. Are they dimes?, no because dimes always have a ridiculous amount of options. But the average to slightly below average chicks out there are plentiful, and they are going to be past the stage of just trying to hook up with the jock or frat boy.
They want a guy that is really going to be down for them and in turn you get the panties, feel me? Man, I just moved from Chicago, and up there I know 15-20 chicks that probably would let you smash, just off the strength of having a decent job.
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I'm telling you straight up, if you don't fix your act in this dept. soon, you will be the 40yr old virgin.
I personally know of 2 people like that and this **** feeds on itself and the older you get the harder it is to dig out of the hole.
Coaching won't help because there's no magic formula. It's just all about putting yourself out there. You have to treat this like your balls are on the line because if you don't there's really no difference between not having any and not using them.
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The dudes problem is himself.
While chasing women isn't necessary, putting yourself in positions to attract women is. The problem with the dude, is that he's afraid to put himself in those positions because of a fear of rejection.
I was like this dude all through HS and my first year of college but then I changed because I became increasingly more comfortable with myself and with rejection. Rejection in all aspects of life is normal. Expecting to always win is kind of an insane way of thinking.
The most important thing is putting oneself into advantageous/winning positions in life to convert potential into reality. You have a lot of really smart people who are broke, good looking people who are loners, wealthy people who are miserable, etc.
No matter what your potential is, you still have to place yourself into the correct positions in order to capitalize on that potential. Otherwise you're relying on pure luck.
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Solid point here. You have to sell yourself to a certain extent. Highlight your strengths and disregard your weaknesses. Learn what different women value, and find one that values what you value.
Man just get a feel for these broads, and don't focus on the p. Focus on whether yall are a good fit for each other.
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I do not fear rejection. If you read my post you would know i put myself out there until last year when I quit. Get off your high horse and stop making assumptions.
