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For all of those that are too worried about wanting "other vagina", you have to remember that women are attached to said vagina, and women for the most part are crazy.
And when you find a good woman and realize that you don't have to put up with that craziness, you will trade that need for "other vagina" for sanity in a solid relationship.
For me, I need to have trust in my marriage. My wife trusted me to have 4 children with me. So I have to make sure that I don't allow for some basic neanderthal cravings to
get in the way of what we have built together. For me, the sum of my relationship with my wife is more important than my urges. You can't call yourself a man and not
behave like one.
I'm not a hermit. I look at other women. But I don't ask them for their #. When my friends are engaged to get married, I go to their bachelor parties. I look at the women showing
themselves off, but I don't touch them. When I've gone to a strip club (twice in my life) I buy the cats around me dances because I won't touch other women. The temptation would
be too strong. So because I value my marriage, I don't put myself in situations that could cause any weakness.
By and large, you need to find the one for you. Sounds like the OP found his, had his hardship and even through trying times kept his marriage a priority. And to that I say, tip of the cap.
Folks better recognize that "99-1" rule. It's real.