Today's My Anniversary , 12 yrs Married , 22 Total ... Who Needs Advice , lol

[chiang2k6]

how did you propose?

 

[handullz]

congrats (even tho u root for those rotten who-as AKA the skanks)

u mentioned marriage is hard then stated things like temptations and getting bored as being the reason for the hardship.

any others comes to mind that u wouldn't mind sharing?  if i marry my daughter's mother it probably won't be for two years or so.  so im sort of trying to start to think ahead.

also, u have two daughter's any advice with them?  mine is 5 years old and i handle her very well.  ive gotten many a compliments on how good of a daddy i am.  she gets bossy i shut it down so fast i make her cry.  but that only comprises about 1% of our time, other than  that were doing our silly faces, laughing, teaching her lessons, playing ps 3 u know good quality stuff.  

hit me with the stuff im not expecting.  

when it comes to the sex talk i think im going to scare her straight with STD pictures.

she's silly and likes to wiggle her butt but i tell her "asia, be careful, u can get really hurt by doing that."

she said how?  i said ill tell u later and in the back of my mind im thinking HIV.

congrats again.  boston sports > NYC tho

lol @ this post...

But. at the same damb time...

But to.the fellas in these types of relationships ... y'all are a rare breed.

Takes a certain kind of man and woman to GROW UP together and stay together ...

Fortunately for me, I recognized that that's not me early, and didn't get settled down or have kids yet

 

[da r entertainment]

Congrats OP. I will be a year for a me and my wife on September 9th.

 

[mel610]

Salute man. I am pretty close to making that step so it is good to hear positive experiences.

 

[teamjordan79]

this has probably been asked but do u think about smashing other chicks?

you mentioned that u met this chick early....so do you have any experience with other girls?

 

[reeceman10]

How you go from the starting XI to one shorty?

When one complements when another is at a loss.
..When one has the yambs and the other has the chesticals...
When one can teach a MBA class in "knowledge" and the another has the goddess snatch?
One you can bring home to mom dukes, and another belongs in a bend position?

Single for life.

 

[veryanalytical85]

Much congrats man to your long lasting relationship.

 

[ragerx10]

congrats man big props to you

shows that's not always about smashing the most chicks
to me it's more about finding someone that makes you feel your worth something
my girl right now be holding me down. no relationship is easy tho it takes the the both of you for it to work
we're young let's just see where life takes us hopefully its a long healthy relationship

 

[onewearz]

congrats (even tho u root for those rotten who-as AKA the skanks)

u mentioned marriage is hard then stated things like temptations and getting bored as being the reason for the hardship.

any others comes to mind that u wouldn't mind sharing?  if i marry my daughter's mother it probably won't be for two years or so.  so im sort of trying to start to think ahead.

also, u have two daughter's any advice with them?  mine is 5 years old and i handle her very well.  ive gotten many a compliments on how good of a daddy i am.  she gets bossy i shut it down so fast i make her cry.  but that only comprises about 1% of our time, other than  that were doing our silly faces, laughing, teaching her lessons, playing ps 3 u know good quality stuff.  

hit me with the stuff im not expecting.  

when it comes to the sex talk i think im going to scare her straight with STD pictures.

she's silly and likes to wiggle her butt but i tell her "asia, be careful, u can get really hurt by doing that."

she said how?  i said ill tell u later and in the back of my mind im thinking HIV.

congrats again.  boston sports > NYC tho

MONEY , # 1 thing as far as hardships in a marriage. i lost a job once and was out of work for awhile, stress almost got us, we got through it though but it wasn't easy.

as far as daughters , i'm the strict but funny dad. my girls have me wrapped around their finger but at the same time they're so concerned with disappointing me that they don't eff up. they're both daddy's girls , both honor students and both promised to stay virgins till their married

the last one may seem unrealistic in these times but hopefully , the way i'm raising em and the frequent talks we have will prevent any twerkin vids from poppin up. plus my wife also does not play that **** at all. they have facebook and whatever else but my my has all passwords to EVERYTHING and checks wayyyy more than see has to. thankfully right now i have no worries with em. with your girl all i can say is be the softee you'd want her to find in a husband, but also be sure to let her know u don't tolerate nonsense and above all stupidity .

make sure to also show her the standings daily so she can she the sox are 11 games out

how did you propose?

at a family party, we were alone outside getting some air and i just went for it, perfect moment she said .

this has probably been asked but do u think about smashing other chicks?
you mentioned that u met this chick early....so do you have any experience with other girls?

i have, we met very young, i hung out with nothing but dirtbags

i did my dirt, not proud but i was young , just locked it away in my lil secret box.

funny thing is the priest asked us before we got married if we wanted to confess any infidelity to each other and she told me about the 1 other guy when we broke up. i told her 2 others and i said it with a straight face

she cried over 2 imagine if i really spilled the beans.. nothing she needs to know, nothing i need to know as far as her dirt if theres any.


thanks again everyone for the congrats

 

[da r entertainment]

Been with my girl 5 years now. Its almost that time.
OP and anyone else married/engaged, what was "that feeling" like? She is most defiantly the most important person in my life now.

my wedding was honestly one of the best nights of my life. seeing my mom and grandmother beam with pride, dancing with them both to boyz 2 men's " mama " ( still cry everytime i hear it ). i'll never forget it. dancing that first dance with my wife ( eric benet's " spend my life " is our song ) , moments i'll always cherish.

you know when your ready, when you are it's a constant feeling of butterflies and goosebumps , only way i can explain it. it's the moment your parents dream of when they had u, seeing the look of pride on their faces gives you a feeling i can't explain. but like i said, make sure before you go in you go in with no regrets on how you enjoyed these days because honestly, these times are the best of your life. marriage is you becoming a man and enjoying the ups and downs of raising your own family and passing down your experience .

good luck fam , i honestly wish u the best ......

This is the truth. Our 1st dance song was So Beautiful by Musiq and everytime I hear it takes me back to that night.

 

[onewearz]

good song

 

[moe200069]

OP, congrats to you and the family. I imagine that twelve years (+ the years of dating) is no easy task. Seeing threads like these makes me appreciate meaningful, monogamous relationships.

Question though, how'd you deal with finding out that she had dated another person while yall were apart?

 

[6 Rings G.O.A.T.]

Congratulations..

 

[jbug88]

Congrats dude.
Me and my wife will be 12 years next month.

-J-

 

[dunknforce]

Congrats OP, Me and my Wife just hit 1 year in July, got a long ways to go lol

Air Five

 

[petezahut]

OP either has cheated on his wife before or watches TONS of porn.

dont you get live pron across from where you work or something ?

and congrats, must be nice to have children the same age as a third of NT

 

[onewearz]

OP, congrats to you and the family. I imagine that twelve years (+ the years of dating) is no easy task. Seeing threads like these makes me appreciate meaningful, monogamous relationships.
Question though, how'd you deal with finding out that she had dated another person while yall were apart?

i hated the dude she got with, mainly cause he was flyer than me

dude's gear was on point and of course i asked the million dollar question and she said yes , wayyyyyyyyy bigger

Congrats dude.
Me and my wife will be 12 years next month.
-J-

congrats my dude , glad to see theres more of us

 

[smurfysmurf821]

congrats good to hear long term relationships flowing well

 

[ootherocoo]

Got married in May, I hope to be there one day.

Congrats!...

 

[celtixhalfshell]

congrats (even tho u root for those rotten who-as AKA the skanks)

u mentioned marriage is hard then stated things like temptations and getting bored as being the reason for the hardship.

any others comes to mind that u wouldn't mind sharing?  if i marry my daughter's mother it probably won't be for two years or so.  so im sort of trying to start to think ahead.

also, u have two daughter's any advice with them?  mine is 5 years old and i handle her very well.  ive gotten many a compliments on how good of a daddy i am.  she gets bossy i shut it down so fast i make her cry.  but that only comprises about 1% of our time, other than  that were doing our silly faces, laughing, teaching her lessons, playing ps 3 u know good quality stuff.  

hit me with the stuff im not expecting.  

when it comes to the sex talk i think im going to scare her straight with STD pictures.

she's silly and likes to wiggle her butt but i tell her "asia, be careful, u can get really hurt by doing that."

she said how?  i said ill tell u later and in the back of my mind im thinking HIV.

congrats again.  boston sports > NYC tho

lol @ this post...

But.

at the same damb time...

But to.the fellas in these types of relationships ... y'all are a rare breed.

Takes a certain kind of man and woman to GROW UP together and stay together ...

Fortunately for me, I recognized that that's not me early, and didn't get settled down or have kids yet

ull get there famb and if not so be it.  marriage is NOT for everyone.  dont let society make u feel otherwise

 

MONEY , # 1 thing as far as hardships in a marriage. i lost a job once and was out of work for awhile, stress almost got us, we got through it though but it wasn't easy.

as far as daughters , i'm the strict but funny dad. my girls have me wrapped around their finger but at the same time they're so concerned with disappointing me that they don't eff up. they're both daddy's girls , both honor students and both promised to stay virgins till their married

the last one may seem unrealistic in these times but hopefully , the way i'm raising em and the frequent talks we have will prevent any twerkin vids from poppin up. plus my wife also does not play that **** at all. they have facebook and whatever else but my my has all passwords to EVERYTHING and checks wayyyy more than see has to. thankfully right now i have no worries with em. with your girl all i can say is be the softee you'd want her to find in a husband, but also be sure to let her know u don't tolerate nonsense and above all stupidity .

make sure to also show her the standings daily so she can she the sox are 11 games out

how did you propose?

at a family party, we were alone outside getting some air and i just went for it, perfect moment she said .

this has probably been asked but do u think about smashing other chicks?
you mentioned that u met this chick early....so do you have any experience with other girls?

i have, we met very young, i hung out with nothing but dirtbags

i did my dirt, not proud but i was young , just locked it away in my lil secret box.

funny thing is the priest asked us before we got married if we wanted to confess any infidelity to each other and she told me about the 1 other guy when we broke up. i told her 2 others and i said it with a straight face

she cried over 2 imagine if i really spilled the beans.. nothing she needs to know, nothing i need to know as far as her dirt if theres any.


thanks again everyone for the congrats

just now peeped the replies....

money u say eh? my girl says from what she's seen marriage is like a business partnership and i was like, "damb.....but....not eeem mad" so yeah preach.

and yeah good advice there on the social media.  having PW for their accounts is a great way to help structure their social prowess.

OP, congrats to you and the family. I imagine that twelve years (+ the years of dating) is no easy task. Seeing threads like these makes me appreciate meaningful, monogamous relationships.
Question though, how'd you deal with finding out that she had dated another person while yall were apart?

i hated the dude she got with, mainly cause he was flyer than me

dude's gear was on point and of course i asked the million dollar question and she said yes , wayyyyyyyyy bigger

Congrats dude.
Me and my wife will be 12 years next month.
-J-

congrats my dude , glad to see theres more of us

::Loads ammo for S & T lols::

 

[onewearz]

got alittle tooooo honest here

 

[executive76]

Pics?

 

[retro23j]

Congrats man

 

[djaward]

Congrats bro. Im on my way too. My wife and I have been together for 13 years and we have 2 kids.

 

[Mactastic4167]

Congrats, me and my wife are just hitting two years in December. Hope to have that same longevity. Props