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I haven't spoken to my ex since we broke up Feb 13 and she sent my mother a message to get an update about a situation I'm going through because she knows I'd just ignore her.
Mom updates her saying everything is postponed because of the Rona. Ex owed her like $40 that she claimed she would pay back so Mom says to forget about the money and that she prefers remembering the good times and feelings me and ex had for each other.
I get MAD at moms because she updates someone I cut off about something 3 people close to me know details about. Also I'm even more angry about the other sentence about the good times and feelings part of her response because she knows the circumstances of why I broke it off. I feel like she being extra sweet to someone I cut out of my life for a very good reason. I don't feel like she got my back. She doesn't see it that way. Claims that just because I'm not with someone anymore she has to hate them (missing the point) and that that's just her way of handling things like that. I get even angrier and things haven't been the same for a week.
Am I trippin?
At the end of the day it’s mom dukes. She’s gonna do what she feels what she wants to do with your feelings/beliefs second.
she’s a woman, Just like how you have to constantly drill things in these joints heads about what your feelings/expectations are you have to do the same with your moms with even gentler care.
I know how you feel because my moms used to do similar **** with my BM and I would try to explain to her how that would be counter productive for me.
For whatever reason it eventually drilled into her brain to now my moms is an asset when it comes to the relationship with my BM and no longer a liability