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danger style danger style this u?
 
Went bowling over weekend with the homies prolly been about 9 years tbh since i went

Scored a 145 1st game. 2nd game a 97 and 3rd game a 123

Think im gonna pick this back up and get into it again

Wanna get a 200 at least 1x this year

Man I got like tendonitis of the wrist/forearm the last 2 times I bowled. I think I’m retired. Good luck getting back into it. Fun game to play with the homies
 
Got into a bit of a situation with a former coworker/friend.
Bro got mad at me behind my back because I let his girl, a close friend of mine (also a former coworker), borrow my jewelry for an IG photo. :stoneface:
Mind you, I’m not in the picture. She asked to wear my chain for a picture with said boyfriend.

I’ve known her for longer than he has so I didn’t think much of it. She later texted me though that he started talking **** about me and wants her to stop associating with me. I literally helped wingman for him to help him date her in the first place so I’m the last person he should be mad at. Kinda pathetic to snake me like that.

It’s not that deep man, women have male friends.
Not sure how to handle this. It’d be awkward to stay friends with the guy and pretend nothing happened.
Bringing it up on the other hand would be even more awkward because obviously he’d know that info could’ve only came from her.
 
Got into a bit of a situation with a former coworker/friend.
Bro got mad at me behind my back because I let his girl, a close friend of mine (also a former coworker), borrow my jewelry for an IG photo. :stoneface:
Mind you, I’m not in the picture. She asked to wear my chain for a picture with said boyfriend.

I’ve known her for longer than he has so I didn’t think much of it. She later texted me though that he started talking **** about me and wants her to stop associating with me. I literally helped wingman for him to help him date her in the first place so I’m the last person he should be mad at. Kinda pathetic to snake me like that.

It’s not that deep man, women have male friends.
Not sure how to handle this. It’d be awkward to stay friends with the guy and pretend nothing happened.
Bringing it up on the other hand would be even more awkward because obviously he’d know that info could’ve only came from her.
The first bolded is just weird on all accounts. Lol why is she stunting for the gram with someone else’s jewels? If the boyfriend was around, why didn’t he have an issue with it right then??

The rest of the bolded: You can’t dictate how they move in their relationship unfortunately. Yes it is a beta move on dudes part to be mad about something trivial but also you know guys are territorial so if he perceives you as a threat (to the relationship) then nothing you can do really. You could try to squash the beef but it’ll do more harm to your relationship with both of them.

Honestly, you shouldn’t be letting womenz rock your jewels if they have a boyfriend, bd or husband. Also don’t cry over spilled milk, if he was that soft about something trivial like this and talking ish about you, then it’s best to cut your losses(?)
 
The first bolded is just weird on all accounts. Lol why is she stunting for the gram with someone else’s jewels? If the boyfriend was around, why didn’t he have an issue with it right then??

The rest of the bolded: You can’t dictate how they move in their relationship unfortunately. Yes it is a beta move on dudes part to be mad about something trivial but also you know guys are territorial so if he perceives you as a threat (to the relationship) then nothing you can do really. You could try to squash the beef but it’ll do more harm to your relationship with both of them.

Honestly, you shouldn’t be letting womenz rock your jewels if they have a boyfriend, bd or husband. Also don’t cry over spilled milk, if he was that soft about something trivial like this and talking ish about you, then it’s best to cut your losses(?)
It’s like a kind of ironic picture, it was at a themed event where the dress code was “decadent”, which roughly translates to “gaudy” I think. So it didn’t seem that out of place to me.

What they do in their relationship’s none of my business but when he tries to pressure one of my close friends to stop hanging out with me, that’s kinda treading on my territory.

I guess I’ll just let things play out and see where it goes. She’s not very appreciative of controlling behavior so I wouldn’t be surprised if she kicks him to the curb soon.
 
Got into a bit of a situation with a former coworker/friend.
Bro got mad at me behind my back because I let his girl, a close friend of mine (also a former coworker), borrow my jewelry for an IG photo. :stoneface:
Mind you, I’m not in the picture. She asked to wear my chain for a picture with said boyfriend.

I’ve known her for longer than he has so I didn’t think much of it. She later texted me though that he started talking **** about me and wants her to stop associating with me. I literally helped wingman for him to help him date her in the first place so I’m the last person he should be mad at. Kinda pathetic to snake me like that.

It’s not that deep man, women have male friends.
Not sure how to handle this. It’d be awkward to stay friends with the guy and pretend nothing happened.
Bringing it up on the other hand would be even more awkward because obviously he’d know that info could’ve only came from her.
The only people who I think are owed an explanation why I'm done with them are the people who I think can handle that conversation.
Whether it's a breakup or a work friend or a close friend, if you don't think someone can handle that difficult conversation maturely, you are not obligated to have it with them. Just be done, or diminish your time.
 
The only people who I think are owed an explanation why I'm done with them are the people who I think can handle that conversation.
Whether it's a breakup or a work friend or a close friend, if you don't think someone can handle that difficult conversation maturely, you are not obligated to have it with them. Just be done, or diminish your time.
100% agreed. The slight problem with that though is that I’m a close friend of her and we tend to hang out regularly. I’d rather not cause a hassle for her but I’m also not going to let some insecure loser dictate whether I can hang out with his girl.

She made it clear to me that she likewise has no intention to stop hanging out with me etc so at least it sounds like she’s prepared to deal with the potential mess. I have nothing left to say to some bum who’d snake me like that.

If anything, the guy probably felt like that for a while now. I doubt some silly picture was the breaking point. Sometimes when I hang out with her it’s just the two of us but that’s something he was long aware of before they started dating. It would look a lot more suspicious if I suddenly stopped as soon as she got into a relationship.
If you can’t deal with platonic male friendships, quit crying and go date someone else.
 
Got into a bit of a situation with a former coworker/friend.
Bro got mad at me behind my back because I let his girl, a close friend of mine (also a former coworker), borrow my jewelry for an IG photo. :stoneface:
Mind you, I’m not in the picture. She asked to wear my chain for a picture with said boyfriend.

I’ve known her for longer than he has so I didn’t think much of it. She later texted me though that he started talking **** about me and wants her to stop associating with me. I literally helped wingman for him to help him date her in the first place so I’m the last person he should be mad at. Kinda pathetic to snake me like that.

It’s not that deep man, women have male friends.
Not sure how to handle this. It’d be awkward to stay friends with the guy and pretend nothing happened.
Bringing it up on the other hand would be even more awkward because obviously he’d know that info could’ve only came from her.
what is the brand name of the pearl earrings?
 
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Got into a bit of a situation with a former coworker/friend.
Bro got mad at me behind my back because I let his girl, a close friend of mine (also a former coworker), borrow my jewelry for an IG photo. :stoneface:
Mind you, I’m not in the picture. She asked to wear my chain for a picture with said boyfriend.

I’ve known her for longer than he has so I didn’t think much of it. She later texted me though that he started talking **** about me and wants her to stop associating with me. I literally helped wingman for him to help him date her in the first place so I’m the last person he should be mad at. Kinda pathetic to snake me like that.

It’s not that deep man, women have male friends.
Not sure how to handle this. It’d be awkward to stay friends with the guy and pretend nothing happened.
Bringing it up on the other hand would be even more awkward because obviously he’d know that info could’ve only came from her.

Yea, you gotta know better man. :lol:

I would always assume the worst in a situation like that. I wouldn't even want it to be known that she was even coming @ me asking for some simple stuff like that.

It’s like a kind of ironic picture, it was at a themed event where the dress code was “decadent”, which roughly translates to “gaudy” I think. So it didn’t seem that out of place to me.

What they do in their relationship’s none of my business but when he tries to pressure one of my close friends to stop hanging out with me, that’s kinda treading on my territory.

I guess I’ll just let things play out and see where it goes. She’s not very appreciative of controlling behavior so I wouldn’t be surprised if she kicks him to the curb soon.

Nah, you should fall back because she is in a relationship.

If she is really your friend, fall back and let her be with her dude.

If they don't work out, then you can resume the closeness yall had before.

But while they are together, it makes the most sense for you to fall back.
 
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