Have a friend , who has been my friend for about 15 years now . Since I’ve known him he has had 1 job for like a year … super super good dude , always has had my back , my whole life .
Aside from him being a super good dude , he’s a habitual liar . I’m not exaggerating , he literally is . So much so if he says it’s a death in his family we question it. That’s literally how bad it is .
I’ve put money in his pockets multiple times. When I had a lounge , put him on and let him throw parties . When he wanted to be a rapper I literally paid for 90% of his studio time .
it was 3 of us that were close , he always asks us for money “loans” that have never got paid back. It’s always small amounts , nothing too crazy . So him not paying it back isn’t a huge issue . But he would do stuff like ask for money say it’s for a kid and then buy 2K . **** like that .
fast forward to now , he’s in dialysis due his kidneys from diabetes . I check on him , shoot him random text , etc. but I never hear from him really except when he asking for a loan
today he said he needs some money for his daughter daycare (has 2.5 kids) .
im torn because he the homie and I know now he’s sick and part of me feels like I gotta help but then on the other hand , the dude only hits up first when he needs something but on the other hand again lol I know he going through his own **** .
but even before dialysis and we knew he was sick he was only hittting up when he needed something