She is not going to be your wing man. She is feeding you bs. If she is the one initiating conversation, put her on ice. When she starts chatting you up and starts telling you her sexual nonsense, she knows what she is doing. It's manipulation, ego stroking and boosting all on her side. If a woman comes to you ever in life and tells you "she wishes she can do xyz with you, but..." it's all manipulation tactics. Don't indulge in that. If a company toyed around with you while you're actively searching for employment and told you would be such a great fit for them, and call you everyday and tells you that, but never actually offer you employment, you would be pissed off and consider them unprofessional. Well, in a sense, it's similar in this scenario. So on the flip side, why would you tolerate it from some chick blatantly manipulating you for her own ego boost?