the nomad
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- Jul 21, 2012
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I know I kid around on here a lot, but your father not being in your life will make you a better father and more receptive to your kids. A quality real women look for in a mate. My father was the same way, inconsistent, he met his youngest grandson this summer. He saw how happy and strong my little family is and he nearly broke down in tears, couldn't even look me in the eye. You don't want to be the guy that has everything, because if you did you wouldn't know the value of what you have. Just like Tom and Gatsby, they BOTH tried to buy her love, and win her by being "alphas". Tom was a racist hedonistic jerk off. Why would you ever want to be that shallow?I wish my pops would've stayed in my life consistently; his absence made some things difficult for my mother and I that didn't have to be. I often wonder the type of man I would be had he of stayed. I feel like I would've been better with women and more athletic, but to be honest I'm not sure. I'm still not even close to being the man I want to be. I want to be THE MAN, the type of guy that has power, that women want, who has a commanding presence. A Tom Buchanan type. I want everything, and I want to be the best at something before I die. I want to have all the women I desire, and not to lust after a girl that couldn't care less about me. I need to be successful.
Right now you're going through an impulse phase, we all go through it, until you're old enough to have the experience to realize the grass isn't always greener. I know people who had the "perfect" life, popular in high school, car at 16, college and now they're broken down like Eddie King Jr. and helpless.
There's threads on NT where I present myself as oversexed, indulgent, pompous, etc ...but anything that comes easy isn't worth much.