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Originally Posted by MECKS
Originally Posted by IluvJordanXI
This girl and I have been texting each other constantly since the month of may. We're both in college and I brought her out to the movies before. She did the whole lying on my shoulders thing during the movie and held hands with me briefly. She told me I was in her dream before...just me, her and gym equipment. This was at the beginning of May, fast forward to the end of the month. I text her about my bad cooking skills and she told me that I should learn how to cook better cause girls like that. In my mind, this to me sounds like shes offering genuine advice and is not interested in me. I texted her "the same can be said for girls." She texted back "she knows" and that "a easy way to get into a guy's heart is through his stomach." I came up with a response that would force her to indirectly tell me if she has feelings for me or not. I responded "is that why you always offer me food?" She replied back no and that shes offers food to everyone. So if I'm reading in between the lines correctly...she has no interest in me and was only toying with me? Friendzoned? We txt each other constantly up until that point. I told her goodnight and stopped texting her after that. Its been a week now and I don't know what to do. I got my vague answer that shes not interested but to just stop texting her cold turkey makes me sound like a jerk. Like I was only her friend for the bunz, but truthfully I saw her as a friend first and then caught feelings. I'm confused NT! It feels good to let this all out but why would she lead me on?!![]()
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Tell her how you feel. Ask to move the relationship up.
Yeah that sounds like the typical thing to do but...if i admit that, she will have me by the balls and can dictate my emotions whenever she feels like. Girls like a challenge and just confessing my feelings would drop me to the friendzone...
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https://www.google.com/search?hl=en...&tab=wi&authuser=0&ei=6wrPT6TxBcH42QXcufWrDA#
Edit: if details matter, she even made me one of those phone charms for my iphone. Like personally made one from clay and all sorts of arts and craft.
Edit #2: She just poked me on FB 2 minutes ago...Can't help but feel giddy but also how weird it is to post this on NT and have her interact moments later...
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