the thread about nothing...

I feel you. In that boat myself.
We just reconnected on Facebook, its all love and I'm happy for her but when I think back we really enjoyed each others company. Not getting too far into it but we both kind of realized it at different points, then we had a falling out and by the time it was salvaged it was a wrap
 
yea... but then again.. if it was the right chick, wouldnt it have been the right time?
It depends..

If you meet the right chick, but she's currently with someone else, then it's the wrong time.

If she's moving to another state, in a week, it's the wrong time.

Etc.
 
Maybe, deep down, I don't really want a relationship or I've always had a huge misunderstanding of what a relationship. I always thought it was a mutual thing. 2 people coming together to make each other happy. It seems like its just really men doing whatever(or I guess 'providing') for women and we get to smash and be seen with them in public. How is that mutual? Is that actually mutual and my priorities are messed up? Do I not value women enough? Even my mom was trying to tell me when I met a women I really like, give her $30-$40 every time I see her to get her hair an nails done. I always thought was simp ****. Or am I supposed to like her so much that money doesn't matter. If that's the case, why do people act like paying for the P is a grand sin? I guess its ok if you got feels? Am I selfish? Do I want to much for myself in life? Am I supposed to not want anything in life except a woman?
 
Maybe, deep down, I don't really want a relationship or I've always had a huge misunderstanding of what a relationship. I always thought it was a mutual thing. 2 people coming together to make each other happy. It seems like its just really men doing whatever(or I guess 'providing') for women and we get to smash and be seen with them in public. How is that mutual? Is that actually mutual and my priorities are messed up? Do I not value women enough? Even my mom was trying to tell me when I met a women I really like, give her $30-$40 every time I see her to get her hair an nails done. I always thought was simp ****. Or am I supposed to like her so much that money doesn't matter. If that's the case, why do people act like paying for the P is a grand sin? I guess its ok if you got feels? Am I selfish? Do I want to much for myself in life? Am I supposed to not want anything in life except a woman?

You need to figure out what it is that you want. Perhaps you don't value yourself enough. That reflects on how you value women and people.

Your mom is seriously tripping about giving money to someone you barley know. :lol: The way you start is the way you'll have to keep her. (Hence why they say women can't raise a man - I was somewhat raised by a single mom and partly by my grandparents)

You have every right to be selfish. However, if you're ready to be a relationship, you have to be willing to be ready to give that up - for the right one.

As men, women (or man) and being whole with a woman (or man) is a desire we want eventually - deep down.


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It depends..

If you meet the right chick, but she's currently with someone else, then it's the wrong time.

If she's moving to another state, in a week, it's the wrong time.

Etc.

if its the wrong time, then it was never the right chick.
 
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Speaking of basketball. This may be a psycho question but how did Lavar have so much control on his kid to become a athlete. As a teen we had a friend who had a dad like that. Strict as hell, he’d take up the half court of the gym just to train his son. He was a cool guy but when it came to training his son he was strict. I think his son was good but I never heard much of him after a while. Dad even had females picked for him as a type to marry. But like I said his dad was a cool guy. I’m assuming he lacked off as he got into high school. Was it not in him ? Was he trained to hard ? Did he make him the center of attention to the point he just didn’t want to do it ? I’m curious. I always asked what happened but friends never mentioned him after a while.
 
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Speaking of basketball. This may be a psycho question but how did Lavar have so much control on his kid to become a athlete. As a teen we had a friend who had a dad like that. Strict as hell, he’d take up the half court of the gym just to train his son. He was a cool guy but when it came to training his son he was strict. I think his son was good but I never heard much of him after a while. Dad even had females picked for him as a type to marry. But like I said his dad was a cool guy. I’m assuming he lacked off as he got into high school. Was it not in him ? Was he trained to hard ? Did he make him the center of attention to the point he just didn’t want to do it ? I’m curious. I always asked what happened but friends never mentioned him after a while.
I mean, he's the father and has every right to train and regimen their childhood to become basketball players.

IMO, I think it's a little too much as to what Lavar does with his kids (Takin Melo and Gelo out of school to play overseas) I wouldn't do that if I knew my kid progress and grow as a player. I feel like by taking his kids out of school, stunted their development big time.
 
There has to be balance to everything. Cant just over train someone and have them miss out on other things.

Depriving them of **** only makes them less motivated imo
 
Yea I know.

It sucks knowing that neither of your parents never had your best interest in mind. :{
 
Dad even had females picked for him as a type to marry. .
One of my customers did that to his son because he didn't like who his son was dating. Him and his son hate each other and don't speak. He didn't even go to his son's wedding, because he didn't approve of who he was marrying.
 
Yea I know.

It sucks knowing that neither of your parents never had your best interest in mind. :smh:
I don't know how it played our for you. I know I wanna teach my kids as much as possible to prepare them for life. I don't even know if half the **** I want to share with them will have any value as far as a better life.

I hope they never feel the way you do, but at the same time I'm already resigned to the fact that my short comings will be their's as well. Not because I didn't have their best intentions at heart...but because the vastness of life can't be comprehended.
 
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