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sup famb...
i was chopping it w/ this chick a few years back, and started to break down the whole convo in mind... replaying how things went down.... everything was dope right up until i had it in my mind to turn the conversation to a different path...
i got this feel right in my chest.. heart thumped hard... messed up it up and fumbled the rock..
then i realized "why am i worried? the worse thing she could say is no... as a matter a fact... if she's not feeling me, then its something wrong with her"...
from then on, i understood that there's NO reason to have this feeling... embarrassment only lasts a few min... and also noticed that everyone's focus aint on me. if i fall.. dust myself and get up.
i know i'm not the only one that gets this feel before i turn the convo from "hey how you doing" to "what's with me and you"...
how do you fellas combat that feeling? this would really help out some of the younger cats on the board having issues talking with chicks...
help the young playas out.
i was chopping it w/ this chick a few years back, and started to break down the whole convo in mind... replaying how things went down.... everything was dope right up until i had it in my mind to turn the conversation to a different path...
i got this feel right in my chest.. heart thumped hard... messed up it up and fumbled the rock..
then i realized "why am i worried? the worse thing she could say is no... as a matter a fact... if she's not feeling me, then its something wrong with her"...
from then on, i understood that there's NO reason to have this feeling... embarrassment only lasts a few min... and also noticed that everyone's focus aint on me. if i fall.. dust myself and get up.
i know i'm not the only one that gets this feel before i turn the convo from "hey how you doing" to "what's with me and you"...
how do you fellas combat that feeling? this would really help out some of the younger cats on the board having issues talking with chicks...
help the young playas out.
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