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but your bid in
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I'm so new to this. I never try to legit bag. We've gone out after work. This Tuesday even she invited me to a concert since she had an extra ticket. May be a sign but meh. I need new ideas where to take a girl if any folks have suggestions.
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yall work toghter ? if so dead it , if not take her to a gun range or horseback riding or at night there has to have some sort of music fest in your city this time of year
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If you want to take things to the next level or make sure you're not friend zoned just offer to cook for her or cook together. Nice little dinner at her or your place with some music can lead to a lil some some, the food doesnt even have to taste great either 
. She'll get the point.
Or like dude said above. Gun range, mini golf (easy to get touchy), those outdoor movie theaters, etc.
. She'll get the point. Or like dude said above. Gun range, mini golf (easy to get touchy), those outdoor movie theaters, etc.
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Go karting
mr marcus
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I'm in new york w nothing new to do. I guess I need to find out what she likes to do heh
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need some of TAY's input.... AM I BUGGIN... or are these yambs being offered on a plate?
backstory: i get to this new college in '11... FIRST DAY try to holla at a yamb (girl A) and got shut down... she was cool about it though..
fast forward thru the year and i get to smanging her friend (girl b).. she gives me the yambs WHENEVER and will to this day... she even drives out here just to deliver them to me...
i've been smashing girl B since fall '11... but lately... girl A has been hitting me up...
dont want to read too much into it.. but i comment on a facebook status...
but after a while, i get an inbox message... and here's how the convo went...
now i'm at a bit of confusion... she was DEEP in love w/ a homey.. he's graduated and went back to the east coast where he's from... me and dude were somewhat cool, but really just shared the same friends.. only time i talked to him was when we were among similar friends.
but what's w/ this chick? is she just trying to be cool? or is she serving the yambs up on a plate? i want to proceed carefully b/c like i said... i can still to this day smash her friend, girl b..
not really tripping of girl b.. but there's no reason to rustle jimmies if they arent needed to be rustled, right?
backstory: i get to this new college in '11... FIRST DAY try to holla at a yamb (girl A) and got shut down... she was cool about it though..
fast forward thru the year and i get to smanging her friend (girl b).. she gives me the yambs WHENEVER and will to this day... she even drives out here just to deliver them to me...
i've been smashing girl B since fall '11... but lately... girl A has been hitting me up...
dont want to read too much into it.. but i comment on a facebook status...
but after a while, i get an inbox message... and here's how the convo went...
now i'm at a bit of confusion... she was DEEP in love w/ a homey.. he's graduated and went back to the east coast where he's from... me and dude were somewhat cool, but really just shared the same friends.. only time i talked to him was when we were among similar friends.
but what's w/ this chick? is she just trying to be cool? or is she serving the yambs up on a plate? i want to proceed carefully b/c like i said... i can still to this day smash her friend, girl b..
not really tripping of girl b.. but there's no reason to rustle jimmies if they arent needed to be rustled, right?
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I don't see the yamb offering , I think you made her feel bad about denying you so she gave you her number out of sympathy
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that's what i was thinking...I don't see the yamb offering , I think you made her feel bad about denying you so she gave you her number out of sympathy
but then... she follows that message up 20 min later and was like
"soooo... are you going to use it?"
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is she still with dude ? if she let you smash you got to let the homie know dont know dudes need to be investing time in bop's
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too early to tell. you might have to text/call her when she's around your place with something like "so how about a caprisun?" and see if she takes the bait.
Edit- actually if she's with a friend everywhere she goes this will be damn near impossible, unless the friend somehow ditches.
Edit 2 - she loves him, wont happen. i'd move on to the next, no need to ruin something good.
Edit- actually if she's with a friend everywhere she goes this will be damn near impossible, unless the friend somehow ditches.
Edit 2 - she loves him, wont happen. i'd move on to the next, no need to ruin something good.
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just checked the facebook...
pictures of them together on may 5th... all loved up...
"this man gives me headaches, but the greats are so great i put up with it. i love him so much"
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Just have fun while your young and try to marry a chick that ain't been with too many dudes
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try her , i aint never had a females number outside of fam that i didnt buss out.
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so my official status with this chick got bumped down to cutty buddy.
ill take it
ill take it
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need some of TAY's input.... AM I BUGGIN... or are these yambs being offered on a plate?
backstory: i get to this new college in '11... FIRST DAY try to holla at a yamb (girl A) and got shut down... she was cool about it though..
fast forward thru the year and i get to smanging her friend (girl b).. she gives me the yambs WHENEVER and will to this day... she even drives out here just to deliver them to me...
i've been smashing girl B since fall '11... but lately... girl A has been hitting me up...
dont want to read too much into it.. but i comment on a facebook status...
but after a while, i get an inbox message... and here's how the convo went...
now i'm at a bit of confusion... she was DEEP in love w/ a homey.. he's graduated and went back to the east coast where he's from... me and dude were somewhat cool, but really just shared the same friends.. only time i talked to him was when we were among similar friends.
but what's w/ this chick? is she just trying to be cool? or is she serving the yambs up on a plate? i want to proceed carefully b/c like i said... i can still to this day smash her friend, girl b..
not really tripping of girl b.. but there's no reason to rustle jimmies if they arent needed to be rustled, right?
IMO she's open for biz. You've increased your value by showing her you capable of acquiring other yambs and be happy with out her. Chicks can't live with themselves after they let go of something that they underestimated or didn't know the value of. Now that you have her number , DON'T hit her up, AT ALL! This will show that you still have control and are not thirst for her. She'll want it even more after that and she'll hit u up like "Hey, u never hit me up" from there the yambs will be surrendered with no resistance
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Quick Question
How early is too early to set up a date?
I was planning on calling her tmw to set up a Thursday date. I think that is pretty adequate. But i just realized i have a Beer League Softball game that night. So now im thinking friday but ugh.. I have to hold this girl over til then.. Kind of getting bored with the whole texting deal for the sake of keeping in contact and in her mind.
I was planning on taking her on a dope spot i know where we can walk, talk, do small activities (paddle boats and mini golf if she wants), and eat. blah blah blah.. But it has to be a nice day for all that to work right? And i also wanna have a good portion of the late afternoon, evening, and possibly early night (
) So that way i can work out and all that early in the day. Shes a big workout buff too so she'd has time to do that as well. Anyways, so..
Monday, I call her. No date on this day since it would be too short notice(for what i want to do) plus its gonna rain/storm all day. So no.
Tuesday, I have hockey in the evening/night and crappy day. So no
Wed, another crap day weather wise. Storms. an extra day to build anticipation is good. And my grandfather is coming into town. So no.
Thursday, Finally nice out but i have softball dead smack in the middle of the evening. Messes up my plans.
Friday, Nice weather and im totally free but like i said, i dont want to have to maintain contact for the sake of doing it too hold interest til then. I might be making too big of a deal for one day but hey, its still one day
I know shes interested in me. But its gotten to that point, at least for me, where its like "Aight man, its time to kick it."
So I ask, Is monday to early to set up a date for friday? Or should i still set up a date for thursday and say f softball? Im set on calling her tmw because.... i just am.
How early is too early to set up a date?
I was planning on calling her tmw to set up a Thursday date. I think that is pretty adequate. But i just realized i have a Beer League Softball game that night. So now im thinking friday but ugh.. I have to hold this girl over til then.. Kind of getting bored with the whole texting deal for the sake of keeping in contact and in her mind.
I was planning on taking her on a dope spot i know where we can walk, talk, do small activities (paddle boats and mini golf if she wants), and eat. blah blah blah.. But it has to be a nice day for all that to work right? And i also wanna have a good portion of the late afternoon, evening, and possibly early night (
) So that way i can work out and all that early in the day. Shes a big workout buff too so she'd has time to do that as well. Anyways, so..Monday, I call her. No date on this day since it would be too short notice(for what i want to do) plus its gonna rain/storm all day. So no.
Tuesday, I have hockey in the evening/night and crappy day. So no
Wed, another crap day weather wise. Storms. an extra day to build anticipation is good. And my grandfather is coming into town. So no.
Thursday, Finally nice out but i have softball dead smack in the middle of the evening. Messes up my plans.
Friday, Nice weather and im totally free but like i said, i dont want to have to maintain contact for the sake of doing it too hold interest til then. I might be making too big of a deal for one day but hey, its still one day
I know shes interested in me. But its gotten to that point, at least for me, where its like "Aight man, its time to kick it."
So I ask, Is monday to early to set up a date for friday? Or should i still set up a date for thursday and say f softball? Im set on calling her tmw because.... i just am.
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I might be making too much of it.. Ill call her tmw and have her pick between thursday and friday. F it.
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Gentlemen, let us not forget the D.E.N.N.I.S. method.
Demonstrate value
Engage physically
Nurture dependence
Neglect emotionally
Inspire hope
Separate entirely
I know this is buried somewhere in the other 248 pages but I just want to reinforce. I like the last 2 posters text screen shots.
Demonstrate value
Engage physically
Nurture dependence
Neglect emotionally
Inspire hope
Separate entirely
I know this is buried somewhere in the other 248 pages but I just want to reinforce. I like the last 2 posters text screen shots.
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Was getting to know this *****.
Told her let's kick it today (last night) continued talking like I didn't say anything
Red flag one
Hit her up today and nada
2 strikes . She out, she been had a 1st strike.
Can't stand women acting like little girls.
Told her let's kick it today (last night) continued talking like I didn't say anything
Red flag one
Hit her up today and nada
2 strikes . She out, she been had a 1st strike.
Can't stand women acting like little girls.
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it's not that serious you got the hint just let it go and screw her.
I mean if you ask her to hang and she doesn't want to hang.... she could say no. but thats an awkward *** no no matter how she puts it.
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Getting back in the game after being out for almost 15 months. Got something lined up for next weekend already though, old yamb. I need some more in the rotation though, just getting back out there and putting in effort will probably be my toughest thing to deal with.
bluexsneakerhead
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This 10 month drought is killing me. Imma be extremely upset if dude ends up not following through with his word. Not only because I've been waiting for alone time with him for more than a month, but because i caught feelings for dude. 
I know that I shouldn't be insecure, but I was doing some Facebook stalking (yeah, my mistake
) earlier and saw some pictures of his ex girlfriend from our first two years of college. I mean, I had a boyfriend during the exact same time frame. Why am I jealous of his past?
I always wonder if he's genuine, if I'm just JO status, or if he's just ******g with me. I just wish he'd tell me wassup, like, DIRECTLY.
Lets just hope that I'm just overthinking.
I know that I shouldn't be insecure, but I was doing some Facebook stalking (yeah, my mistake
) earlier and saw some pictures of his ex girlfriend from our first two years of college. I mean, I had a boyfriend during the exact same time frame. Why am I jealous of his past? I always wonder if he's genuine, if I'm just JO status, or if he's just ******g with me. I just wish he'd tell me wassup, like, DIRECTLY.
Lets just hope that I'm just overthinking.
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216301baller
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10 months well damn last time I went that long I was still a virgin...I admire your self control though..wish I had the same
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