TAY: thread about yambs...

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Kaeeyeinjee....

My man.GIF..

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Read every word and agree. I think you're right on with what you say.

I think the issue is guys now UNDERSTAND what they have to do. They just dont know how to get to the "my confidence is on level 20" steez you talked about.

Post worthy thread my g! :smokin the insight and lulz is beneficial to the community, you based for that brotha.

A lot of dudes don't realize they've been on that 20 before though,if you ever worked retail before or at a restaurant chances are you've pulled a 10/dime/yambs before, PULLED THEM TO THE REGISTER, in the name of your badge, for your job. If you can sell them on something that doesn't even have to do with you, then you can pull them to your bedroom, who knows your product better than you? Easy sale.

Once these dudes get the "AHA" moment, of "HEY THIS GIRL NEEEEEEDS me, then it will become easier, but its all about repetition, the more you do something, the more you become accustomed to it. In 2 weeks these guys can be living in the Yambtons, if they get out there and get it for 2 weeks.
I can approach any woman or get any woman to approach me, but thats because I decided that I would never let any of them punk me or put me down no matter how bad I failed. I pulled a chic that worked in victoria's secret, by tapping her on the shoulder. When she turned around I was really trying to identify how she looked, because I only saw the apple, and her hair from behind, I was so close to her i had to really scan her really quick, forgot what i was going to say to her and straight up told her, "I just wanted to see what you looked like". Not the best opener but some women get so excited that someone actually had the balls to pull them aside that you usually don't have to do anything from there but play along, she pretty much closed the deal from there.
 
KayEyeNjee

Yo me and my girl went though a little spat last night...
I saw your post this morning at 6 a.m. before work..
inspired me to slap on the good cologne. wear the good tie to work. be fresh..
went in there said good morning. told her about something that happened.. but then kept it moving.

today during our students graduation. I caught her looking at me. even though she beyond mad at me..
now its about 2 p.m. and im sure she'll prolly call or text soon. but I keep living by that rule. don't give them the power
don't get them the power to seeing you struggle or trip...
keep your cool and have them miss you... have them come after you..
i was playing the sucker who got steamed rolled part for too long.
but your post empowered me to take power back.
thank you so much brotha. and congrats on the kid and your business success and all that

You are the Yambresident. Salute to you sir
 
Think about it, we look for different things. Men we like visuals, and there's an endless stream of that. Women like more, a provider, strength, confidence, status. Now how many bum ****** you know? A man of value that knows it is dangerous out here.
This.

And even though i've been approached by the yambs and have even had hot *** yambs send their "friendzoned" buddy to approach me on their behalf. WOMEN in general ARE TERRIFIED of approaching the man. Times are changing though. My best friend has a body count that is unheard of, and some of the yambs that have approached him kind of sent me back to the "life is unfair" mentality :lol haha not really, i just tell him I'll cut it before he does :smokin

Based on this knowledge that means, the majority of women who go out to clubs ,or to gym or to STARBUCKS go frustrated, and leave frustrated, they want them yambs drained as much as you do, the only difference is they want it to feel the companionship, men mostly want it to please their yambstick. They're not going to approach you, and if your afraid, no matter how many times they just imagined you plowing them, they're going to walk past you you in their yoga pants and their nike free runs with their iced mocha frap ,and brown sugar hair smelling like herbal essence/nexxus and DIP right past ya. Its coo tho. You noticed that she's flat footed and should of got the New balance 575 instead of the nike free 5.0 but you didn't say nothing to her? Fail So they're at your mercy, they need you to unlock their mystery, they're not going to walk up to you and automatically reveal it, thats why I say they are at your mercy, they throw them heels on and spend all that time trying to get a unique outfit different from their friends, and get mad when the next chic has the same dress on BECAUSE they want to be picked. Point ,blank,period. Women compete as hard as men do, they just do it more so on a subliminal level.
 
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KayEyeNjee

Yo me and my girl went though a little spat last night...
I saw your post this morning at 6 a.m. before work..
inspired me to slap on the good cologne. wear the good tie to work. be fresh..
went in there said good morning. told her about something that happened.. but then kept it moving.

today during our students graduation. I caught her looking at me. even though she beyond mad at me..
now its about 2 p.m. and im sure she'll prolly call or text soon. but I keep living by that rule. don't give them the power
don't get them the power to seeing you struggle or trip...
keep your cool and have them miss you... have them come after you..
i was playing the sucker who got steamed rolled part for too long.
but your post empowered me to take power back.
thank you so much brotha. and congrats on the kid and your business success and all that

You are the Yambresident. Salute to you sir

:smokin my man! don't go too hard tho, if you like her, because whats going to happen is, that swagger (Appropriately used the word finally! lol) is going to send off an alert to other yambs in the area, and when they pick up on it, your going to notice that you are gaining more attention, and the more you realize it, the bussier you become because you have more options to weigh, then your girl will wonder why you haven't hit her up, etc, etc, you may end up creating a distance between you guys...sounds good because you've opened yourself up for prime yambs real-estate but I've had that bite me in the *** before. I let go of one i was really feeling because I had so many options, but when I realized all i really wanted was her, she knew i had came to my senses and by then i was going to have to go through too much to get her back. So well done sir! Figure out what route you wana go with her though, if its your day 1 a1 chic, keep that routine up, and come home late, like go for a run or something, she'll be confused like "WTF" and if you play it cool like don't show to much emotion,smile, she'll be desperate to get back on your good side, aka Surrendered yambs. :p

And thanks for the well wishes famb, he's going on 6months, and i'm learning so much from him, fellas if your not bout that daddy life then #TEAMRAW
 
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:lol message recieved Ricky.


Mainly dudes gotta get into themselves and outta the thirst. I realized I never end up with the ones I really want, so I stopped really wanting any and life's good from there. Even those pop back up in your life every now and then when the thirst is averted.
 
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Damn Ricky 
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KayEyeNjee is dropping so much knowledge it's starting to get annoying how right he is :hat :lol
 
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I need some yaaaaaaaaaambs. seriously.

and not sex.

a consistent girl. **** is getting ridiculous. I legit kinda wanna go straight hunting for a few weeks til i land this but i dont even know.

plus nowadays me and my friends schedules are so different. I want to head out but they can't and vice versa
 
I need some yaaaaaaaaaambs. seriously.

and not sex.

a consistent girl. **** is getting ridiculous. I legit kinda wanna go straight hunting for a few weeks til i land this but i dont even know.

plus nowadays me and my friends schedules are so different. I want to head out but they can't and vice versa
where u from??
 
Trying to legit bag this girl. We hung out few times, lunch few times. Even this week she had a spare concert ticket and invited me . How do I proceed without thirst?
 
Trying to legit bag this girl. We hung out few times, lunch few times. Even this week she had a spare concert ticket and invited me . How do I proceed without thirst?
Judging from you two hanging out a few times and having lunches together, seems to me you're just a friend to this girl. Have you ever took her out on a real date at all? Have you tried making moves on her?
 
Judging from you two hanging out a few times and having lunches together, seems to me you're just a friend to this girl. Have you ever took her out on a real date at all? Have you tried making moves on her?
This. I make it clear that I want the yambs on the first time hanging out. If you dont make a move the first time yall hang out you'd prolly be better off cutting her off then falling in the friend zone. 
 
Based on my experience, unless it's an ex where there's history/emotions, the "friend zone" is nothing to fear if you have a enough experience, confidence and an abundance mentality. You keep it moving and cordial, good things happen regardless of if she comes around or not. But do it right she will.
 
i forgot how massive this thread is but my nt men i need game for hollering at women on social media. I can only bag in person for some reason my ism doesnt translate onto the net very well. Not really looking into pof or okc but bagging on twitter mainly, things have changed since the days of blackplanet and myspace 
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. And not those superficial broads sending thirst traps just regular plain janes 
 
So your boy needs some help. I haven't really stepped out in a while and me and some of my boys are going Bar hopping tonight. I'm pretty sure my bar game is rusty AF. Someone help a young goon get on his feet? Haha
 
This. I make it clear that I want the yambs on the first time hanging out. If you dont make a move the first time yall hang out you'd prolly be better off cutting her off then falling in the friend zone. 

Oh snap. Well before I give up on that I've asked her out tomorrow and she's down. What can I do to not buddy this too much?
 
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