TAY: thread about yambs...

[young thundercat]

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[benny bugatti]

Question - does anybody here claim or knows somebody who claim that they smashed nearly 100% of the females that have come over their spot? I've met a few dudes that have said that and it seems nearly impossible.

I look at my history and maybe I've gotten at 30% of the girls that have come over the first time, and maybe 50% eventually. I mean some chicks just wasn't down for that, IMO. I made moves the majority of times, but sometimes shorty wasn't receptive. Maybe she wanted to wait, maybe she just wanted a brother to cupcake her behind. But I've always taken that some girls ain't gonna give it up the first time they come over.

It's all good, it doesn't bother me in any way, but just wondering how can dudes be undefeated. Maybe I can learn a thing or two.

 

[Mark Antony]

Not 100% but your numbers kinda low bruh. You share that spot with someone else? Their spot is a little different, I feel like they're more open at your spot than theirs.

 

[championboyz7]

I'm done with it after this but...

Help me understand internet terms aint lulz = cool points.

So you was with your 1st option but you hitting up your 2nd option, she told you nah I'm good...you get emotional and say F her?

Then you throw another broad in her face? And this is all over late night texting bc your drunk and thristy? Yea I stand by my first statement def lame of you.




Then you threw a smiley face at the end

Let him do him if that's how he gets buns let him keep doing him. I don't see why you getting bothered by how the next man speaks to a female.

 

[kings castle]

That's semi-creepy. I've never done that before. If anything, find her on fb and ask her there. Or wait until you run into her somehow.

Yeah, I don't even think I can go down that road bruh. lol. It seems kinda creepy, not to mention my text game is weeeaak . I'm more of a call nd set sumn up guy.

If things went the way you said they did, i would straight tell her the truth (I think people overlook how valuable the truth can be)

"Hey, i know this is a little awkward, but i met you at the party last weekend, and i was tellin my boy about this girl (you) tha ,t i was having a blast with and totally didnt get the #...he said he knew you and gave me your #"

gotta shorten it for text. tho.

that would make me feel like I'm straight up begging for this chick. I'm not tryin to put the ball in her court like that. Thing is I think I'd definitely have a better chance if just ran into her/seen her again.

Why don't you have your brother talk to her?

didnt even think of that . just gonna try to get my bro to put in a good word, or set something up where were both in a social setting ( someone here suggested this i think)

 

[gatorbeltsnpattiemelts]

I texted a guy once when I got his number from a friend of mine.... we texted back n forth cool and I thought he was digging it, then cuz just STOPPED responding Luckily he and my friend fell out and I never saw him again. I always wondered what happened tho.

It was odd cuz when I hit him he was into the convo... didn't say he was weirded out or anything *shrugs*

 

[benny bugatti]

Not 100% but your numbers kinda low bruh. You share that spot with someone else? Their spot is a little different, I feel like they're more open at your spot than theirs.

I've lived on my own since I graduated college and the success ratio has gone up, but still not super high. I always figured, some girls put out right away, some don't.

 

[young thundercat]

Let him do him if that's how he gets buns let him keep doing him. I don't see why you getting bothered by how the next man speaks to a female.

How am I getting bothered I'm just kicking game dog. No harm no foul. This is a thread about buns, I would like every young scholar in here to conquer all buns they encounter.

 

[kings castle]

I texted a guy once when I got his number from a friend of mine.... we texted back n forth cool and I thought he was digging it, then cuz just STOPPED responding Luckily he and my friend fell out and I never saw him again. I always wondered what happened tho.

It was odd cuz when I hit him he was into the convo... didn't say he was weirded out or anything *shrugs*

I would imagine that there's a double standard with sumn like this though. If girls randomly texted me, I'd be feeling hella nice. No doubt, my mind would tell me this is my next possible yamb acquisition.

But if a dude texted a chick like that, who already gets hit on by dudes constantly,i think we'd come off as thirsty/creepy/ nd we've got no chance from that point.

 

[gatorbeltsnpattiemelts]

It all depends

If I a guy I was super feeling randomly got my number and texted me I'd feel like the luckiest guy in the world. Like I said man, if a chick is feeling you a lot of these so called "rules" are out the window. Someone of ya'll just need to accept that maybe she didn't hit you back, or call you back, or whatever , IS BECAUSE SHE DIDN'T LIKE YOU. Sucks but it's the truth. When people like people, they let them get away with all kinds of stuff. We know this.

MATTER OF FACT, it happened to me. A homie in the crew would kinda flirt with me from time to time, but I never knew if he liked me or not. I thought he was cute and funny, somewhat obnoxious But he was just a **** talker which I didn't mind. Well one night we all went out but I left early cuz the spot was dead. He came RIGHT when we were about to leave. So I get home and BOOM, I get a text from a random number asking why I didn't say bye You think I thought he was creeper? **** NO! We texted back n forth a few months but things never really popped off. Still, the moral of the story is I liked him so it was ok for him to ask the homie for my number.


Also happened with another homie out of the crew, it was somebody who I liked and thought was cute so I was dumb excited when I randomly got a text from him. He lived in louisiana tho so I know it couldn't pop off, but still--I was flattered. We are still cool, but he doesn't text me anymore.

 

[gllahone84]

Cool points...

 

[216301baller]

Man I will never try to save another girl in my life

 

[d e beatup]

Well me & my former lady were in relationship purgatory; started off just as FWB, both liked each other and enjoyed our time together, but neither of us were really ready for anything full blown. Had to cut her off last month cause she tried to play the fence & get all the perks of a relationship without putting out. Needles to say, the arrangement had run it's course.

Almost immediately I get an ultra random text from a girl I dated many moons ago, over 10 years ago. It's crazy how similar we still are. On top of that we both got married/divorced young (both 27), her kid is close in age to mine, all kinds of stars aligning up right.

Somebody posted that Costanza vid about doing opposite but that's what I'm doing. She's coming to spend All-Star weekend with me and I told her that we will not have sex. I figure it's always been a walk in the park to get the P but the relationship going smoothly, not so much. I'm gonna try and stay strong because this one is wifey material.

I got a chick that's in town for business the whole week though. Every time she comes she does her corporate training in the morning and we just have sex all evening, the whole week. I got to figure out how to not screw this up with the new one cause the JO is expert at making me cave & give her the D. I feel foolish, turning down a week of guaranteed, wild freaky NSA bumpin, to in turn not have sex with a long-distance divorced chick. Lol, guess she is special...

 

[ricky409]

It all depends

If I a guy I was super feeling randomly got my number and texted me I'd feel like the luckiest guy in the world. Like I said man, if a chick is feeling you a lot of these so called "rules" are out the window. Someone of ya'll just need to accept that maybe she didn't hit you back, or call you back, or whatever , IS BECAUSE SHE DIDN'T LIKE YOU. Sucks but it's the truth. When people like people, they let them get away with all kinds of stuff. We know this.

MATTER OF FACT, it happened to me. A homie in the crew would kinda flirt with me from time to time, but I never knew if he liked me or not. I thought he was cute and funny, somewhat obnoxious But he was just a **** talker which I didn't mind. Well one night we all went out but I left early cuz the spot was dead. He came RIGHT when we were about to leave. So I get home and BOOM, I get a text from a random number asking why I didn't say bye You think I thought he was creeper? **** NO! We texted back n forth a few months but things never really popped off. Still, the moral of the story is I liked him so it was ok for him to ask the homie for my number.


Also happened with another homie out of the crew, it was somebody who I liked and thought was cute so I was dumb excited when I randomly got a text from him. He lived in louisiana tho so I know it couldn't pop off, but still--I was flattered. We are still cool, but he doesn't text me anymore.

no more of your stories unless you tell us if they got the yambs or not.

 

[216301baller]

I guess my post earlier was deleted..my school homecoming was tonite I saw my old fb I attempted to dance with her she blew me off basically then walks past me later in the night saying ima **** some guy tonite..what a sloot..yea ima be honest I liked the girl..I was gonna apologize for my actions last week n be on my way but I learned a valuable lesson tonite i swear

 

[rocky437]

When people like people, they let them get away with all kinds of stuff. We know this.

Hit the nail on the head, this quote is especially true for women towards men, if she likes you you can say stupid stuff and look like a complete fool during dates and still have sex with her. I've experienced it many times. Also women are extremely shallow, just as shallow as men if not more.

 

[youngdoc]

Question - does anybody here claim or knows somebody who claim that they smashed nearly 100% of the females that have come over their spot? I've met a few dudes that have said that and it seems nearly impossible.

I look at my history and maybe I've gotten at 30% of the girls that have come over the first time, and maybe 50% eventually. I mean some chicks just wasn't down for that, IMO. I made moves the majority of times, but sometimes shorty wasn't receptive. Maybe she wanted to wait, maybe she just wanted a brother to cupcake her behind. But I've always taken that some girls ain't gonna give it up the first time they come over.

It's all good, it doesn't bother me in any way, but just wondering how can dudes be undefeated. Maybe I can learn a thing or two.

Not going to front and claim 100% but there's been very few instances where a chick came over solo and I didn't close eventually. Probably 75% the first night.


The last home L was about a year ago. I already had hit multiple times and she said no because I wouldn't lock her down.

On the road is a whole different ball game. Actually the last time I was in enemy territory I got kicked out before I could even try to close (weekday and she had to be up at 5). We went out once more but I never made back to her crib and she deaded me after that.

I don't do anything special. MO is to start a movie (usually comedy and something we've seen before so she doesn't get too into the movie). Get her laughing and comfortable, initiate some minor physical contact and accelerate while following the signs.

I admit that unless a chick comes off as a really easy kill, I will do at least one date in neutral territory before having them come to the crib.

 

[rell]

Hm, seems like mods are goingbto town deleting posts in here lol

 

[Mark Antony]

When people like people, they let them get away with all kinds of stuff. We know this.

Hit the nail on the head, this quote is especially true for women towards men, if she likes you you can say stupid stuff and look like a complete fool during dates and still have sex with her. I've experienced it many times. Also women are extremely shallow, just as shallow as men if not more.

True. When she's done though, same **** becomes unacceptable and creepy.

 

[jthagreat]

If things went the way you said they did, i would straight tell her the truth (I think people overlook how valuable the truth can be)

"Hey, i know this is a little awkward, but i met you at the party last weekend, and i was tellin my boy about this girl (you) tha ,t i was having a blast with and totally didnt get the #...he said he knew you and gave me your #"

gotta shorten it for text. tho.

that would make me feel like I'm straight up begging for this chick. I'm not tryin to put the ball in her court like that. Thing is I think I'd definitely have a better chance if just ran into her/seen her again.
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not sure why it edited that way....




Hmm, doesnt seem creep like at all to me. but let us know what you do.

as far as h;aving a girl over an not smashing.

Ive lived by myself for about to 2 years now and only once has a girl comeover an i didnt smash. she was wack anyway (met her online...) so in the 2 years and not counting girls i was already hitting, im 4/5 ...30% is low imo

Girls are just like guys and know what it is. If you can get them to go out with you and come thru, all you gotta do it not F!!! it up and say somethin stupid.

 

[gatorbeltsnpattiemelts]

no more of your stories unless you tell us if they got the yambs or not.

reading is FUNdamental Ricky

 

[skip2mylou23]

Me and my girl split up its been like two weeks

She obviously still has feelings for me and I still have some to

Would it be foul if I laid with some other chick?

I still wanna get back with her tho

I would suggest you not hook up with other chicks. How would it make you feel if she hooked up with guys right now?

If anything, the girls you've been planning on smashing can always be smashed later.

 

[joepac12]

I would suggest you not hook up with other chicks. How would it make you feel if she hooked up with guys right now?

If anything, the girls you've been planning on smashing can always be smashed later.

 

[SneakerProSr.]

Its was 55-65 in Dallas this weekend sunny as F, just copped a new whip that's boppermagnetish and all I did is kick it with the wifey.

I'm so disappointed in myself :x

 

[gatorbeltsnpattiemelts]

Its was 55-65 in Dallas this weekend sunny as F, just copped a new whip that's boppermagnetish and all I did is kick it with the wifey.

I'm so disappointed in myself :x

sooooo you'd much rather go out and get at other girls not your girlfriend then? I'm confused....