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Thanks dudes. I have a lot to think about it. It's still 4 or 5 months before she leaves.
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It wasn't like I just dropped this on her as an ultimatum. We decided together.
When we first talked about this. She was against the open relationship and wanted to stay exclusive because she couldn't imagine me being with anyone else and I was fine with that. Then after having talked to her best friend yesterday, they were talking about it together and she wondered if it could really work like that. She wasn't a thot before we met at all. She had just lost her virginity to some guy to get it out of the way two weeks before I met her so I'm her second and really the only person she's ever been with.
And so she was afraid of losing me if she hooked up with someone and told me. But she said to me that she feels if I ever cheated on her she would probably be able to look past it because she likes me so much, and admitted that she was flawed in that way. Where I on the other hand have zero tolerance. I was kinda surprised she felt that way honestly.
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Not everyone that comes into your life is supposed to stay. Just the conflicts you two guys are having says to me that the decision is clear cut but you guys are too scared to face the harsh realities. Let her go and if it's meant to be then it shall. Trying to force or place stipulations (from both parties) will just make things harder. There is always a fine line you walk in relationships but sometimes you have to take hard stances and stand by your convictions. If you are truly in love, like my bro Tdogg and Hawaii said, 5 months ain't ish. Plus we live in a technological era of FaceTime and Skype. If you two cant ride this out and be faithful to each other now, please don't even consider marriage or moving in. My wife gets hit on regularly( even while pregnant) and I trust her and she knows who is at home. If your girl really is about loyalty then this conversation shouldn't have even come up. Yes it's realistic to believe that things might dive south and you guys might hook up with others, but your foundation of trust should always be precedent. There is a red flag in all of this for me, can't quite put my finger on it but insecurities, trust, something seems off.
But I wish you two the best, sometimes in life it's better to do the hard things even when you don't want to..
Peace
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where did you guys go ?planning one this weekend .
Went on the first date since me and my ex, went great ,good girl. She wants to chill this weekend.
Tai restaurant, probably grab dinner and walk on the water saturday night.
where did you guys go ?planning one this weekend .
Dinner is a classic first date activity. But don't be scared to try something more hands on. Bowling. Pool. Mini golf or go carting to name a few. Most females just get the Olive Garden treatment the first date and that can be kinda routine. If she is a cool girl and outgoing try something else. Guarantee they eat it up and will be more impressed then you asking her what appetizer y'all wanna split at chilis. Lol
I'm taking this chick bike riding and monument gazing when I get back to DC for our first date
not to harp too much on Hennessey's situation
but some of you dudes acting real NT right now.
Like y'all never go/went without yambs for more than a week.
I'm all for the let her live her life thing. and let her go
IF
there was a problem and that's what she wanted.
Some people (men and women) love the insurance of coming back to something. or having something come back to them.
if she doesnt NEED to have sex x(which everyone on earth DOESN'T NEED) then she wont do it.
Not every woman is out looking for Penis everyday (same with men and yambs)
It's like Chris Rock said. it's nothing for woman to brush off dudes, They've been offered **** since they were in Middle school (with love letters vday cards)
Give some chicks a bit more credit. Not all are hopping on the first penis train to cheating.
It's only 5 months son, you two should be able to stay faithful
Thanks dudes. I have a lot to think about it. It's still 4 or 5 months before she leaves.