TAY: IT'S A MAN THING GINA

[htownshoefiend]

 
So I am talking to this girl at this concert the other day, I approach...She continues to invite me to have a cigarette outside for a bit, I don't smoke, but I lead her outside. We chopped it up for a bit like 10 minutes or so, I proceed to giver her MY number. Next morning she sends a text saying who it is, and how much fun she had blah blah blah. I respond back and she standoffish. I am like what the f? Why did you text me?

Just when I thought I had the game figured out, females find the Johan Santana Curve from 2005 to throw at a brotha. I'm speechless.

it be like that sometimes 

a week or two ago I straight up told this chick i was feeling her and wanted to advance our relationship. then the next couple of days she starts calling me and we talk on the phone for like 1.5 hours every night for like 4-5 days. prior to this i would see her like every other day during the weekdays and we would chop it up about anything, but not really text or call her a lot, maybe a text or two here and there every week or so

so since she started hitting ME up after i told her how i felt, I thought the feelings were reciprocated. but i'm having second thoughts now because when i hit her up, text or call, she seems like she doesn't want to talk. was about to ask her out but i fell back since our communication kinda tapered off

just when i thought i had it figured out, being straight up and not playing any of the dating games

im confuzzled bruh

 

[mugen81]

Trust I have dealt with A LOT of females that didnt know my "worth" and all I can say is the trials and tribulations, heartaches and confusion lead me down the path to meeting my wife. For this whole week she has been gone, there were days I thoroughly enjoyed coming home to an empty house and ************ on NT but not having her in bed and just talking killed that real quick...
This dating/relationship thing is a process and it takes time. I used to rush into things because I had that artificial "S" on my chest but when you just say **** it and just learn how to chill and just be and don't put on airs for a chick, things come together. She truly is my best friend because I can tell her secrets and just be my nerdy self, but also be aware like I have always said real relationships are built out of partnerships and being self-less. If you are not ready to consider another persons well being, enjoy yourself and live for the moment..
I believe it will happen for everybody at some point in their lives( doesn't have to be marriage) but all you can have is hope...
My wife and I live by this corny mantra per se:
"Faith and Hope are what separates the dead from the living"...
I admit I gave up at one point but when I met her I just knew and I put my faith in something bigger then me. I am not a religious person at all but I do believe in something bigger that brought us together...
I know that is "Foil Paper" hat talk for some NTERS, but I just feel that all the lessons I learned and that moment and energy I displayed that day brought this wonderful creature to me and for that I am grateful..
Once again I know the risk for opening up and trusting someone but if you walk with wasted energy or just overall a bleak outlook on life, guaranteed you will attract that.
To truly be brave in this life is to live, love, fear nothing and explore this vast universe.
That's what real, true love is. If you can look it in the eye and when it's all said and done and not be angry or vengeful then you know you have loved..
Public Sevice Announcement For The Week..
Outchea...

 

[fontaine]

bros...

i'm currently in the midst of falling for a chick...

smh... get me outta these feels!

 

[301216baller]

bros...

i'm currently in the midst of falling for a chick...

smh... get me outta these feels!

me 2 & i dont even care

 

[Chiron]

bros...

i'm currently in the midst of falling for a chick...

smh... get me outta these feels!

BRB Gonna call my homie Chris Brown and check if she's loyal...

Spoiler: Warning: Spoiler!

Nope

 

[Teknoman]

it be like that sometimes |I

a week or two ago I straight up told this chick i was feeling her and wanted to advance our relationship. then the next couple of days she starts calling me and we talk on the phone for like 1.5 hours every night for like 4-5 days. prior to this i would see her like every other day during the weekdays and we would chop it up about anything, but not really text or call her a lot, maybe a text or two here and there every week or so

so since she started hitting ME up after i told her how i felt, I thought the feelings were reciprocated. but i'm having second thoughts now because when i hit her up, text or call, she seems like she doesn't want to talk. was about to ask her out but i fell back since our communication kinda tapered off

just when i thought i had it figured out, being straight up and not playing any of the dating games

im confuzzled bruh

Stop over thinking man.

Just ask her out. If she acts funny style then replace her.

Worse happens she deads you. Oh well

 

[big j 33]

bros...

i'm currently in the midst of falling for a chick...

smh... get me outta these feels!

 

[yeezusdisciple]

bros...

i'm currently in the midst of falling for a chick...

smh... get me outta these feels!

Soon as i fell for a chick bad ish happened b

 

[big j 33]

I vented a bit to TAN, but this thread seems more appropriate.

Girlfriend broke up with me a couple weeks ago and I'm still pretty bummed about it. She said I was the best boyfriend she's had, but she didn't have that kind of feeling for me anymore. She's definitely moved on and I'm pretty sure she met someone else already What makes things worse is we work together. So a few times a week I'm forced to deal with her in close quarters all day/night

I know things will be alright and I shouldn't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me.. but I still liked her a lot and was ready for it to be something serious. She was pretty incredible... especially with the physical side of the relationship (so I'll definitely miss that ) but oh well.

I'm doing better, but I always had a hard time moving on quickly. I've periodically checked through this thread, so I figured to join up and share

 

[アミーゴ]

I vented a bit to TAN, but this thread seems more appropriate.

Girlfriend broke up with me a couple weeks ago and I'm still pretty bummed about it. She said I was the best boyfriend she's had, but she didn't have that kind of feeling for me anymore. She's definitely moved on and I'm pretty sure she met someone else already What makes things worse is we work together. So a few times a week I'm forced to deal with her in close quarters all day/night

I know things will be alright and I shouldn't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me.. but I still liked her a lot and was ready for it to be something serious. She was pretty incredible... especially with the physical side of the relationship (so I'll definitely miss that ) but oh well.

I'm doing better, but I always had a hard time moving on quickly. I've periodically checked through this thread, so I figured to join up and share

U will be fine my dude. Welcome to the dark side

 

[big j 33]

Yeah, I'm doing better. I didn't have an appetite or any energy the first week and that's gone away. I'm still checking her Facebook too often but I'm not texting her or begging to get her back or anything like that. Just thinking about her and feeling bad But I'm going to try to channel that into working out some more and trying to pick up some hobbies.

 

[アミーゴ]

Yeah, I'm doing better. I didn't have an appetite or any energy the first week and that's gone away. I'm still checking her Facebook too often but I'm not texting her or begging to get her back or anything like that. Just thinking about her and feeling bad But I'm going to try to channel that into working out some more and trying to pick up some hobbies.

Have u been out with ur boys yet? Don't creep, it will only make u feel worse lol.

 

[big j 33]

Nah, not really. Mostly because I lost touch with my close group of friends over the past couple years so I don't really see them. And my social life as of late has been with all my work friends... and I work with her

 

[heliumclinton]

So I am talking to this girl at this concert the other day, I approach...She continues to invite me to have a cigarette outside for a bit, I don't smoke, but I lead her outside. We chopped it up for a bit like 10 minutes or so, I proceed to giver her MY number. Next morning she sends a text saying who it is, and how much fun she had blah blah blah. I respond back and she standoffish. I am like what the f? Why did you text me?

Just when I thought I had the game figured out, females find the Johan Santana Curve from 2005 to throw at a brotha. I'm speechless.

It's hard to read a person through text IMO I've had chicks that one word me in the text messages and be on me like white on rice in person. The older I get the less text I send. I think the era of getting to know a person face to face instead of digitally is slowly coming back.

 

[00david00]

bros...

i'm currently in the midst of falling for a chick...

smh... get me outta these feels!

me too, and i hate it

 

[youngdoc]

Don't even bother trying to understand why a chick curves you. Way too many possibilities.

I've been curved by mediocre chicks and within the same night a bad one is going home with me.

There are nights when I can't miss and nights when I'm Charles Smith against the Bulls

Just do you and draw the confidence from within and not the results and it will never waver

 

[Kaleo15]

bros...

i'm currently in the midst of falling for a chick...

smh... get me outta these feels!

Brahh... ima keep it a hunnit wit u!

And i'm not trying to jinx your out, but the last time I fell in love with a girl.

Spoiler: Warning: Spoiler!

I ended up happily married, with so far a pretty successful life.

You're welcome.

 

[koolaidgeorge]

Getting curved is so demoralizing breh

 

[youngdoc]

Getting curved is so demoralizing breh

In my head every girl who curves me either has a boyfriend or is racist (if she's not black)

 

[geraldg2309]

big j 33 man I know that feel fam.

My girlfriend and I had a rough time to an eventual point where she lost all her feelings for me and she felt distant with herself. I'm very blessed she doesn't pull the "I need my personal space, need to find myself" crap. She really never gives up on us and we still try to make it work. At that point, I made sure I was gonna make her fall in love with me again and have her feeling really loved and more happy. And well, it worked.

Basically I want to say for those trying to look for a serious relationship, make sure you find a girl that puts the same serious time, effort and commitment you do. Your relationship will never fail, even when love fails at times.

Don't know why I'm posting this in TAY but oh well.

 

[koolaidgeorge]

In my head every girl who curves me either has a boyfriend or is racist (if she's not black)

I should go in with that mindset, but then doubt sets in & I feel like a lame. Gotta find something that'll boost my morale

 

[milestailsprowe]

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Not my pic of course but using the premium lamb skins makes you feel like such a boss with the fancy packing and the fake it says luxury. Girl looked like whats thats

 

[youngdoc]

In my head every girl who curves me either has a boyfriend or is racist (if she's not black)

I should go in with that mindset, but then doubt sets in & I feel like a lame. Gotta find something that'll boost my morale

First become completely content with who you are then just practice talking to women without even trying to holler, just conversing

 

[tdogg2k]

Yeah, I'm doing better. I didn't have an appetite or any energy the first week and that's gone away. I'm still checking her Facebook too often but I'm not texting her or begging to get her back or anything like that. Just thinking about her and feeling bad But I'm going to try to channel that into working out some more and trying to pick up some hobbies.

hobbies help. the most important (but not easy) thing to do is take her name out your mouth. youre going to think about her. thats normal. but what youre probably doing that ypu shouldnt is still saying we or our or MY ex.
that helps a lot because it takes a part of her out of the brain.
also delete her from f my dude. seein that pic and name is counterproductive.

those are the first signs on what to do

 

[elderwatsondiggs]

[COLOR=#red]My TAY brothers and one sister (@Gator), we were speaking earlier about busting fast and then a serious round 2 and stuff like that...

My argument was that one really long round can make a serious statement and make it more enjoyable for both. Well last night omg...

I had an almost 3 hour first round and it was CRAZY!! I started with the sideways spoon real easy like just to set the tone and get the box ready...then she went oral to reclaim her juices, then I returned the favor. Then I went to the modified missionary where she had her legs closed to make it tighter and I could ride up high to make the pelvic thrusts stimulate the pearl better. I did that for like 20 minutes until she couldn't take anymore...she told me "what are you trying to do to me?". Then we took a break...started back up with another oral session then to the her on her stomach me on top from the back position...then another break after awhile of that. We went back to the spoon then another break...yes more oral and then to the missionary position which I alternated doing planks and straight up arm lock outs (the push-up position). Mind you she came at least 3 times already and I was still holding out. We kept that up for some time and then I started the home stroke cause I knew I couldn't hold out any longer...my dudes when I finally came the first skeet flew OVER her head and the rest just painted her abs and chest. I felt like a pr0n star busting that hard and that much...and of course chicks love when that happens cause in their minds they are like "I did that"

All that to say if you continuously build up and then delay, when you finally do bust it will be magnanimous! Also the chick's mind will be blown. Now maybe you don't want to do this with a random smash or a chick you don't want to become to clingy, but for a wifey type or a chick you really like it's a great way to lay the pipe. It will rewire her mind.[/COLOR]