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Man there's nothing wrong with being a friend, but to want one of the opposite sex who's time you want to dominate is odd man. What about their relationships and friendships? We're not built for deep conversations with women we're not smashing, we barely do that with our boys (sober).
Just remember, when guys are "friendzoned", the guy is the usually initiating stuff. He's the one that's dominating her time and trying to have to get closer to her. That stuff is easily avoidable by not waiting weeks to make a move
M Mark Antony I don't get what you're saying bro bro. How can a woman force you to do anything? I still make the same sleazy and chauvinistic remarks to chicks whether I'm smashing or not.
Put it this way, there have been chicks that I smashed who originally told me they weren't looking for sex blah blah but I still end up smashing because for one I don't take them seriously and also you can get buns anywhere so I see what else they have to offer (chicks have the best hook ups and connects). They tell me about other dudes who bounce when they tell them the same thing. If you're getting buns elsewhere why would you be so pressed to get it from any one chick in particular?
If you show a chick you value her for more than just the p you'LL get the p and much more. If you only want the p a lot of times you won't even get that
Boys it finally happened. I got friendZoned.
First time ever a chick I was interested in puts me there. I don't even have any friends that are girls, so this is some weird stuff.
I did my thing played it cool like it ain't a thing, but now I've spent about 3 weeks, putting all this energy into this relationship , late night convos, early convos, texting, and I haven't pursued anything else, for lack of creativity, cuz it's all being wasted in this chick. Feel like a sucker lol. She cool.
The moment she casually hit me with "I don't know why all guys after a month ask me out, I just want friendship" had me feelin like EWD.
Flippin tease.
How can I transition away from this completely? Like not get away from friend zone into boyfriend, but just stop talking to her with out seeming like an a hole? She's way to used to me now and hits me up all the time, I need her to know that, that's not the regular me, and she can't get that part of me unless I'm smacking that booty. So do I just stop talking to her?
Women aren't only a tool for meeting yambs..they people too naamean.
I don't think that's sexist but it is immature. If you only spend time with chicks because you're hoping they give up the butt you have a one track mind. Women have a lot more to offer than just what's between their legs. But even from that perspective, she can hook you up with her friends and clear the lane for you to get buns so why just disregard her. It's almost akin to putting the p on the pedestal when you act like that's all a woman is good for. Don't let a bruised ego cloud your judgment, it's typically your own fault if you get friend zoned anyway. All the biggest players I know have at least a few female friends so take that for what it's worth.
you not gettin yambs. i can confirm with this statement.
Cut her off. Not to sound sexist, but there's almost zero benefit from being in a platonic relationship with a female, period.
Don't be that guy whose shoulder she cries on when some dude does her dirty. Leave that ish to her girlfriends.
you not gettin yambs. i can confirm with this statement.
Dude wants to hang out with men all day.
Hmm a lot of knowledge. I feel everything being said.
As for the 3 weeks of time to make a move, it's not really like that, my "moves" are constantly on. From the way I speak to my actions, I imply nothing less. And she can definetly feel it, I just didn't thirst or go extra hard, so when time kept going and she slid that remark, it put it in perspective for me.
And I mean she could potentially hook me up with friends, and do all those things that some dudes I know who have platonic woman, say they do. It's just not something that I value to be honest. Shorty hits me with snap videos saying good morning, washing her Face, cookin breakfast.. Like it's an all day communication marathon..
I'm not pulling these yambs in real life or on any online dating site. I need to find my swag again....
Damn you sound salty b. I see what you're saying though just out of respect. I've never done this and my friends don't either. But you gotta realize once you drop her, she's fair game get over it lol
3 weeks with constant communication, early and late night convos and you don't make a move? You know thats way too long right? You're "friend zoning" yourself at that point.
Got some sloppy from a Tinder thang last night and it had to be the best head I ever got before in my life!! :x
a broken clock is right twice a dayTwo children who don't know what platonic means.
or you're going to claim women make better wingmen
My ex would never smash my friend but yeah thats kinda ****** up tho. Man I know a girl that used to date this guy then broke up with him and started ******* his best friend and got pregnant then got an abortion. bet them ****** aint friends no more.The Don, salty? Lmao never (I smashed her 2 close friends 2-3 months after, and I left her). Just saying that those guys aren't ur friends if they try to get at ur ex right away, but I found it hilarious... If ur best friend smashed ur ex, is that still ur dude?Damn you sound salty b. I see what you're saying though just out of respect. I've never done this and my friends don't either. But you gotta realize once you drop her, she's fair game get over it lol
Aren't u the same dude that used my lines/ kept asking for more
for a friendship to be truly platonic it has to be that way on both sides. it don't count if she thinks its platonic but you tryna wait it out to get them panty drawls and vice versa.
Ok lets break down platonic. Because it looks like theres levels to this ish.
When you say platonic do you mean, someone you would never imagine smashing or do you mean someone you would hope to/intend to smash in the future? Because those are two totally different circumstances.
soooooooo you back on the team building phrase???
soooooooo you back on the team building phrase???
So you coming out for the Mini NT TAY bar hop then right! When I make my way out theresoooooooo you back on the team building phrase???yep. I go to Howard though and the female to male ratio is amazing. I've literally been turning down vagina left and right. I'm. About. To. Go. HAM!soooooooo you back on the team building phrase???