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I think it's me getting nervous + her not doing anything lol. She be puttin the pressure on ya boy too.
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I would let her go no problem even tho that island is far as the **** but why are you against it fam?Would ya'll let ur girl go to Bali on a whim?
Like, her friend bought a ticket, talked her into going (she had always wanted to visit there anyways) and it's 10 days away.
I'm so against this. I have work commitments and such so I can't go, she is asking her boss for the time off tomorrow... She will be gone for a wk.
I would let her go no problem even tho that island is far as the **** but why are you against it fam?
10 days can be short notices and yes $1,200 could be used in better ways than a trip across the world. Thanksgiving is not that big of a holiday for me since my older siblings live out of state and we are not that "family" type of family. I usually just spend Thanksgiving eating with my mom then chilling with my boys. I maybe the wrong person to make any suggestions.Multiple reasons.I would let her go no problem even tho that island is far as the **** but why are you against it fam?
A. It's 10 days from now, why not just plan it out? Or plan it for when I can go...?
B. It's Thanksgiving and her fam are throwing a big party.
C. It's the holidays, wouldn't that money be better used on gifts?
D. We are planning multiple things coming up and she would use 3 of her 10 vacation days on this (I think she has already used one when she came to see me in SoCal).
E. The ticket is around $1,200.
Multiple reasons.
A. It's 10 days from now, why not just plan it out? Or plan it for when I can go...?
B. It's Thanksgiving and her fam are throwing a big party.
C. It's the holidays, wouldn't that money be better used on gifts?
D. We are planning multiple things coming up and she would use 3 of her 10 vacation days on this (I think she has already used one when she came to see me in SoCal).
E. The ticket is around $1,200.
10 days can be short notices and yes $1,200 could be used in better ways than a trip across the world. Thanksgiving is not that big of a holiday for me since my older siblings live out of state and we are not that "family" type of family. I usually just spend Thanksgiving eating with my mom then chilling with my boys. I maybe the wrong person to make any suggestions.
But I will say that since this is you two first Thanksgiving together that she should stay in the bay and spend time with you/family. Save that money and use some vacation time for some later events.
Nah, tell her to chill with that trip & to focus on the holidays, another time will come for her to travel there, propose that y'all go later at some point . Either that or your girl & her friend are about to get turnt in Bali while you at home watching Two in a Half Men re-runs. Lol
Sorry to hear dude! But either way she should stay since you did make that move
That why I feel she should stay since you made that move. I really need to get my passport for my Euro trip.....I think I may not come back thoThanks man.Sorry to hear dude! But either way she should stay since you did make that move
That's what I told her...
"I moved up here for you to travel and *&%*."
It's just weird for me, due to it being SO last minute. I also think traveling alone (when u have a bf/gf) is weird too...
Like wouldn't u want to just chill and eventually see all that with me? We are in the midst of planning Europe for next Oct.
Sorry to hear dude! But either way she should stay since you did make that move
Thanks man.
That's what I told her...
"I moved up here for you to travel and *&%*."
It's just weird for me, due to it being SO last minute. I also think traveling alone (when u have a bf/gf) is weird too...
Like wouldn't u want to just chill and eventually see all that with me? We are in the midst of planning Europe for next Oct.
Did she never mention this as a possibility before? Or it was really just 10 days?Multiple reasons.I would let her go no problem even tho that island is far as the **** but why are you against it fam?
A. It's 10 days from now, why not just plan it out? Or plan it for when I can go...?
B. It's Thanksgiving and her fam are throwing a big party.
C. It's the holidays, wouldn't that money be better used on gifts?
D. We are planning multiple things coming up and she would use 3 of her 10 vacation days on this (I think she has already used one when she came to see me in SoCal).
E. The ticket is around $1,200.
Toss her in bushesGirl I used to talk to just sent me a message on FB saying
Her: Hey
Her: *little thumbs up emoji thing:*
Her: Sorry...ignore that...
Uhh okay. Haven't talked to her in months, probably a year..
Season kinda dry for me right now. Picked out a few prospects but haven't seen them in a couple of weeks.
I was gonna respond at first cause I thought she meant sorry about putting the little emoji thing. Changed my mind. 1st message sent at 11 and the next 2 sent 2 hours later, she did it on purpose - had to.Toss her in bushes
this is probably a terrible perspective but look at it as a blessing in disguise. u get to live that single life a bit more while she's gone and tbh a good looking girl on vacation is gonna do what she wants bf or notThanks man.
That's what I told her...
"I moved up here for you to travel and *&%*."
It's just weird for me, due to it being SO last minute. I also think traveling alone (when u have a bf/gf) is weird too...
Like wouldn't u want to just chill and eventually see all that with me? We are in the midst of planning Europe for next Oct.
Multiple reasons.
A. It's 10 days from now, why not just plan it out? Or plan it for when I can go...?
B. It's Thanksgiving and her fam are throwing a big party.
C. It's the holidays, wouldn't that money be better used on gifts?
D. We are planning multiple things coming up and she would use 3 of her 10 vacation days on this (I think she has already used one when she came to see me in SoCal).
E. The ticket is around $1,200.
Did she never mention this as a possibility before? Or it was really just 10 days?
I think the fact that you just moved there and the fact that this trip would disrupt the plans that you guys have are the only credible objections you have as a (short-term) boyfriend.
You're likely not gonna spend thanksgiving together even if she was here. Besides, thanksgiving is mainly for family and since you haven't been together that long it shouldn't be a biggie.
As far as costs and planning, 10 days seems like a short time to properly prepare for quite a not-so-cheap trip.
this is probably a terrible perspective but look at it as a blessing in disguise. u get to live that single life a bit more while she's gone and tbh a good looking girl on vacation is gonna do what she wants bf or not
Your reasons make sense and are logical but it seems like you're just jealous that you can't go. And those logical reasons are just to cover up that resentment.
How often does someone really get a chance to go to Bali? It's not like a Vegas trip or something. You can say oh we can plan it later but you know it doesn't always work out. Something comes up or a better deal for a different part of the world works out better. It's not that easy.
Just my 2 cents. I could def see why you're upset but id still let her go.
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