TAY: IT'S A MAN THING GINA

[frshstunna]

Yup...my cuz just found out his baby moms creepin ...seen too many dudes believe they girl was all good just to end up hurt smh

 

[Mark Antony]

The value of the p went down, cost of a good girl to spend the rest of your days with is sky high due to rarity. These ain't even the ratchet types breaking dudes hearts.

 

[lamekilla]

I think it's more so that when woman know they completely have your all, they look for the next challenge unless you are seriously committed or have a ring...

...and even then they still might "act up"

 

[Lovetohate3000]

^^repped a.r.e....
. I have no love for females.... Just want to smash. It is what it is. Cupcaking ain't for me anymore....on the #forever alone team aswell

 

[Peep Game]

One thing I learned, is DO NOT put all your eggs in one basket fellas
I'm not saying if you're in a serious relationship to keep one on the side, but definitely have a number saved somewhere hidden (email, private contact app or somethin) just as insurance. Don't fully commit to anything without a Fail Safe Plan. Even if you just dating exclusively have 1 or 2 options on deck. These females will make you wanna be all about them and switch it up on you faster than an Iverson crossover. Both my exes got pregnant by a ninja within like 9 months of the break up....hoez be playin the field homiez trust me. Unless you know for sure you got a wholesome girl, treat them accordingly...do not trust them farther than you can throw them
It's sad because I wanna be a good one woman dude...but after this ish I'm probably gonna be a player for life or the next 5-10 years at least. Even though I stay wit some female company I can't relate so its still basically that feeling of being #foreveralone

Couldn't agree more with this

 

[rare]

 

[luigyvintage03]

Yup...my cuz just found out his baby moms creepin

...seen too many dudes believe they girl was all good just to end up hurt smh

This is the worst bruh, especially that he has a kid with this chick.. 

 

[shooters touch]

One thing I learned, is DO NOT put all your eggs in one basket fellas
I'm not saying if you're in a serious relationship to keep one on the side, but definitely have a number saved somewhere hidden (email, private contact app or somethin) just as insurance. Don't fully commit to anything without a Fail Safe Plan. Even if you just dating exclusively have 1 or 2 options on deck. These females will make you wanna be all about them and switch it up on you faster than an Iverson crossover. Both my exes got pregnant by a ninja within like 9 months of the break up....hoez be playin the field homiez trust me. Unless you know for sure you got a wholesome girl, treat them accordingly...do not trust them farther than you can throw them
It's sad because I wanna be a good one woman dude...but after this ish I'm probably gonna be a player for life or the next 5-10 years at least. Even though I stay wit some female company I can't relate so its still basically that feeling of being #foreveralone

I got 3 on true standby. I believe she a wholesome women, comes from a good background and is down for me.  Im just honestly getting bored with our sex life, gotta spice it up or sum'm cause Im not going to cheat on her nor do I want to break it off atm.

 

[frshstunna]

Yup...my cuz just found out his baby moms creepin ...seen too many dudes believe they girl was all good just to end up hurt smh

This is the worst bruh, especially that he has a kid with this chick.. 

You wanna know what the worst part is? she messing around with family while he away taking care of business trying to provide ...always said this but ppl been creepin/ doing dirt forever, but seems like these days the females give less dambs and dont care as much about lookin like a lady or being discreet with they ****

 

[niquefreak94]

Meh. None on standby. If we break up I will just go out and find New girls. They're really a dime a dozen.

 

[acericoescobar]

No way to know whether you had a wholesome girl or not while in the moment. All you know is you didn't have one when you get cheated on

Truth

Meh. None on standby. If we break up I will just go out and find New girls. They're really a dime a dozen.

Yea but at least if you got a 1 or 2 standby, if you get played...it won't feel like you did, feel me?

 

[Mark Antony]

No way to know whether you had a wholesome girl or not while in the moment. All you know is you didn't have one when you get cheated on

Truth

Meh. None on standby. If we break up I will just go out and find New girls. They're really a dime a dozen.

Yea but at least if you got a 1 or 2 standby, if you get played...it won't feel like you did, feel me?

Gotta agree here, I hear this from married dudes or long terms whose ladies caught a whiff of that grass is greener syndrome but eventually came back. They started off all into the women, now They stay with an option on deck now after that hurt. Not necessarily smashing, but she/they are around.

 

[niquefreak94]

Gotta agree here, I hear this from married dudes or long terms whose ladies caught a whiff of that grass is greener syndrome but eventually came back. They started off all into the women, now They stay with an option on deck now after that hurt. Not necessarily smashing, but she/they are around.

Good for them.

 

[niquefreak94]

Yea but at least if you got a 1 or 2 standby, if you get played...it won't feel like you did, feel me?

Yeah, I understand your logic my man.

 

[larry david]

 

Yea but at least if you got a 1 or 2 standby, if you get played...it won't feel like you did, feel me?

Yeah, I understand your logic my man.

You hearing him, but you ain't listening...

 

[lolcomin]

Yup always keep a standby chick,

learned the hard way

most of these girls these days be hoeing around too

and be ******* with people's emotions

I went to a summer program and my homie and this one girl started talking the last 2 weeks, go to the club that weekend and start making out and eating each other's necks. They start talking about getting into a relationship, fast forward to yesterday, he texted me that she hit him with the "Can we just be friends" line. He really liked her to. He's a one woman type of guy so it kinda hurt him even though he's got girls that are way more attractive and seem down texting him for daysssssss

 

[mugen81]

What in the hell...
Man this thread is on one right now..
Lol...
You can't get mad if a girl moves on faster then you want. Stop trying to wife/commit to every chick you come by. Once again "Like energy attracts like energy"...
If you don't have your **** together what makes you think you deserve a chick who DOES have her **** together..
Yes there are scandalous females out there, but look yourself in the mirror and ask why you keep attracting "ain't **** chicks" to your life.
As grown men, you share some of this culpability in these "relationships". Granted you truly never, totally know someone and feelings and love change like the weather but start holding your **** to an upper echelon and cultivate yourself to a more rounded person. Stop trying to smash every chick with a phat *** and pretty face. Too many people(male/female) rush these things or try this "new age, hipster" **** that makes absolutely no sense or don't live in truth.
Communication should always be the first foundation to whatever situation you are trying to build. From your career-family-friends-women. Stop trying to bamboozle these females and stop being scared to lose a squad, that's all apart of the game into learning who you are and what hopefully you want(if you chose) to have a relationship.
" Ain't No Future In Your Frontin"
"You Ain't Gots To Lie To Kick It"

 

[youngdoc]

Don't really need chicks on standby.

Standby chicks weren't good enough to be wifed and are easily replaceable.

If it doesn't work out with the chick I'm with right now I can just go back to what I've been doing for the last 3 years.

 

[ballinsam23]

Yea i'm not really agreeing with this standby stuff. Those girls are easily replaceable, not a good investment.

Its one thing to have a roster, but its another thing to be exclusive and still have an option available on the side "just in case." Plus who ever said that that option is gonna be waiting for you? She'll have other dudes with the same value as you at her doorstep.

I understand what you're saying, but I just dont agree with it.

 

[charlie parker]

Don't fully commit to anything without a Fail Safe Plan. Even if you just dating exclusively have 1 or 2 options on deck. These females will make you wanna be all about them and switch it up on you faster than an Iverson crossover.

Engraved in stone worthy.

And nobody is talking about wifing up side pieces, Its about the aftermath and landing on your feet better.  Keep a girl(s) you can hit up, smash, etc and take your mind off of things until you are right.

Of course, you could go and LOOK for girls after but why do that when you call one and slide through on the way home?

 

[Thierry Henry]

Y'all remember that chick that flaked on the coffee date like 2 months ago? We ended up meeting up last Wednesday and I helped her study for her final. Nothing went down though as it was my first time meeting her and I didn't make any moves whatsoever. We have barely spoken since then, I'm sure I didn't do anything wrong

Sorta wanna cuff....she's Dominican, with nice caramel skin and green eyes, she plays volleyball too so body is on point.

 

[tomdiginson]

Y'all remember that chick that flaked on the coffee date like 2 months ago? We ended up meeting up last Wednesday and I helped her study for her final. Nothing went down though as it was my first time meeting her and I didn't make any moves whatsoever. We have barely spoken since then, I'm sure I didn't do anything wrong

Sorta wanna cuff....she's Dominican, with nice caramel skin and green eyes, she plays volleyball too so body is on point.

You're wasting time on her. Either you make a move or get tossed into the friend zone category.

 

[Coromanti]

Was that in response to me?

How does she have the lead?
What should I be doing?

How does she have the lead?

By acting annoyed when you all touchy feely, then acting annoyed when you're no touchy feely.

That's games Bruh. Games.

What should you do?

When she act like she don't want you all over her tell her "well don't be all over me in 10 minutes. I ain't got time for you to be acting like that. Make up your mind." Or something along those lines.

So I spoke to her about it.
After that I took a nap and it was like a whole new girl. Thanks for the advice.

 

[niquefreak94]

So I spoke to her about it.
After that I took a nap and it was like a whole new girl. Thanks for the advice.

Real ****** do real things.

Now you just gotta monitor it so it don't go back like it was and you're money.

 

[youngdoc]

Don't fully commit to anything without a Fail Safe Plan. Even if you just dating exclusively have 1 or 2 options on deck. These females will make you wanna be all about them and switch it up on you faster than an Iverson crossover.

Engraved in stone worthy.

And nobody is talking about wifing up side pieces, Its about the aftermath and landing on your feet better.  Keep a girl(s) you can hit up, smash, etc and take your mind off of things until you are right.

Of course, you could go and LOOK for girls after but why do that when you call one and slide through on the way home?

Because I'm not gonna keep in contact with a FWB while I'm in a committed relationship.

And me downgrading from a current to an ex FWB isn't gonna make me feel better. Some new P will though