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[three6mafia]

I dunno if anyone remembers my situation I posted like 2 weeks ago..
To sum **** up. We ended up kicking it. Went to a concert. **** was goin great for like a week or so then my dumbass ruined everything one night when I got wasted. We were hanging out with friends having a fire, jamming tunes. My chick, my boys girl, and I ended up staying up till like 630 am. Me and my boys girl were drinkin , my chick wasnt(cause you know the whole my be pregnant thing) anyway my chick said she was gonna go home cause she wanted to actually sleep on her bed and get some rest because she had a **** load of things she had to so the next few days (her aunts surprise party, sisters grad party. Was gonna be a hectic few days for her) we'll my dumbass got pissed because I wanted her to stay the night at my buddies house so I we could sleep together(not like have sex bit like actually sleep together) so I storm off, wasted, all pissed. She calls me tells me to come back I shouldn't be driving how I drunk I am. I pretty much tell her **** you blah blah. She says well I'm not dealing with this I'm goin home call me tomorrow when you sober up and realize how dumb you sound right now. My sumbass wouldn't stop. I probably left her like 4 voice mails and who knows how many texts talking ****. Smh wake up I'm the after noon like wtf did I just do. So I text her trying to apologize and what not. No response. So I talk toy boys girl she's just like yeah dude you ****i everything up. Things were goin great that night and freaked out. She's pissed at you. She pretty much tells me to just chill out for a bit she will come back around give it time. So the next night I have some of the boys over at the house. We got ****d up. I start checking out my chicks Facebook and she's getting tagged left and right at places(it was her aunts party that night) some ****** dude leVes a few comments on her wall saying he should have stayed longer and blah. I see this and start right back up texting her mean ****. This **** I was saying made the **** from the other night seem like poetry. I mean just rude ****. Left some voice mails too smh any way I wake up the next day to like 5 missed calls like 2 from my boy and 3 from his girl. I guess I pissed this chick off something fierce. I talk to my boys girl she's saying how I just ****** EVERYTHING up. Like things were bad the other night there's no coming back from this. She was saying how she wants to get a police report on me. Smh the dude that left the sad face comment was nothing too. Virtually no competiton just some guy that's been up on my chick for a few years now who "creeps her out" who just happen to be at the same restaurant/bar they had her aunts party at,
Chick deleted and blocked me on Facebook, ig. Blocked my cell number, straight cut off all ties with me.

Here's the real ****d up part. I just got a text from my boys girl saying she just talked to my chick... Looks like she's pregnant. I dunno wtf is gonna happen now. This girl absolutely HATES me now. Didn't even tell me she was pregnant, told my boys girl to fell me. Moral of the story kids, alcohol(whiskey to be specific) is not your friend. I'll let you guys know more as **** develops. I dunno if she wants to keep it or not. She knows how I feel about abortions(against em). What a mess. Hopefully we work **** out. I know I need to stop drinking. I have problems. I'm willing to try, especially for her. I'm such a ****** idiot.


Stay up guys

 

[2423]

^^^^ damn no hate but damn it sound like you're a mess and put her through alot of **** like for real man you gotta ease up on the drinking.

 

[monstar]

Stay up guys

If you want jer back u got some work to do. Alot of work bra. And alot of apologies are in order . Stay up my man we all have had a moment of weakness only to bounce back.

 

[three6mafia]

^^^^ damn no hate but damn it sound like you're a mess and put her through alot of **** like for real man you gotta ease up on the drinking.

I am, man. Make matters worse I just got transgeres to PM shift( 4pm-230am) ain't **** to so but drink. Killed Almoat a 5th of Ciroc to the dome last night smh I usually just smoke weed but I got a drug test coming up (randomly) so I had to quit. I got problems. I just can't be sober. At least with weed I was good. I turn into a different person on alcohol and pills. I've been suffering from depression since I was 13, I'm 26 now. I hate the pills they gave me. Weed made me sane. I'm just so lost.. As I tAke a sip of beer smh

Ain't the first time some thing like this happen. My ex of like 4 years. Same deal. I'd get ****** up, not get my way and freak out on her. She put up with it for a while. Ended blocking me on Facebook. Got a new number. ECT
Not gonn lie is probably be married to her right now if it wasn't for my drinking problem. Started dating when I was 19. Wed be goin on 7 yeArs if I hadn't ruined ****. Smh

 

[tdogg2k]

"You remind her too much of one of the worst things she's done in her life"

What I learned from that is to make sure the next girl I date was confident and had her own goals that didn't revolve around just being with me. It's flattering to have someone relocate and pick up a new job, change their life to be with you. But I've realized it's not always right and people need their own goals besides just doing whatever they have to to be with someone they care about. You gotta complement someone in a relationship, not need them, or have them need you. How we tell dudes in here to focus on their career and money and gamba will come. Well, I think females gotta do that too sometimes. "What's the perfect girl if it's not the perfect time" is a situation all to familiar with me.

Just my two cents and what may have happened but gonna need to hear the story.

It's kind of like a fixer up situation... which I've been super guilty of myself.

thats why I was shocked lol. At first I thought it she was bragging but i honestly dont know what to think. Thats why I posted it on NT to get yall opinion. Im leaning on not going not cause of disrespect but im a dog no shame in my game and I know if I get drunk at her wedding imma end up doin something embrassing

please don't be THAT dude.
if she has some fly homegirls, i can understand a bit.
but yea don't be that dude.

 

[three6mafia]

If you want jer back u got some work to do. Alot of work bra. And alot of apologies are in order . Stay up my man we all have had a moment of weakness only to bounce back.

Honestly I think it's over and done. Girl is too good and too much **** goin on her life(about to be dentist) to be dealing with my ****. damn near 30 too. Not like I'm stringing around a naive early 20s bar chick. She feels the same way about abortions as I do. So this should be interesting. Child support here I come smh

 

[tdogg2k]

Real talk my dude please go seek help, meeting or something.

1st is identifying the real problem to why you're drinking like that in the first place.
next is seeing if you can find your own happy place

 

[heliumclinton]

Bruh you got mad over facebook and her leaving at 6 AM?

You really have to slow down, and if shorty really is pregnant you need to figure out a way to think more logically about a lot of future situations.

 

[three6mafia]

Bruh you got mad over facebook and her leaving at 6 AM?

You really have to slow down, and if shorty really is pregnant you need to figure out a way to think more logically about a lot of future situations.

I know right? When I sobered up I was like wtf..

She is. Went to a Dr
And as far as plan **** out. I'm alright. I hAve a good job. Over 50k/year, full benes, 401k, stock options ect. Just became a home owner last month. I helped raise my boys daughter, (I'm the godfather) kids are nothing new to me. I just gotta work out my "demons" sort to speak.

Real talk my dude please go seek help, meeting or something.

1st is identifying the real problem to why you're drinking like that in the first place.
next is seeing if you can find your own happy place

thanks dude. I've sought help. They just throw downers at me. I feel you though. As soon as I can blaZe again I'll be good. My family and friends are here for me my work schedule just ***** me up. Boredom leads me to drink. I just gotta find something to keep me occupied. I play music and write that's works from time to time. Maybe I should join a gym or something.

 

[fontaine]

Going to a wedding today with the main...

Then a nice steakhouse afterwards.

I will be rocking a nicely tailored suit, and she will have a dress that hugs the curves...

...

Please tell me the quality of the yambs I will be receiving tonight?

Because it seems like a tailored suit + a wedding + a nice steakhouse will make heryambs ooze before we even make it home

 

[awwsome]

Real talk my dude please go seek help, meeting or something.

Straight up, that don't sound healthy at all.

 

[tdogg2k]

lol allow me to have a bit of a humble brag moment

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ewwwww youse nastyyyyyyyy

 

[Humbled]

Where do y'all go to get yambs during the summer? Campus life had me spoiled

 

[Coromanti]

Where do y'all go to get yambs during the summer? Campus life had me spoiled

Bars, summer classes, summer job, camp, maybe chat up a random on the street who looks like she would be receptive, girls on the block you already know,

 

[raysweatshirt]

Where y'all going tonight fellas? My boy gonna tthrow me on one of his girl's friends tonight but I gotta bad feeling I might be catching a grenade for him but that's what friends do right? :smh

 

[Coromanti]

Where y'all going tonight fellas? My boy gonna tthrow me on one of his girl's friends tonight but I gotta bad feeling I might be catching a grenade for him but that's what friends do right? :smh

Catch that grenade for ya boy.  At best the girl won't be as terrible as you thought, at worst he'll just owe you one.

 

[suberzat1]

Where y'all going tonight fellas? My boy gonna tthrow me on one of his girl's friends tonight but I gotta bad feeling I might be catching a grenade for him but that's what friends do right? :smh

I'm going to this bar if I don't feel like waiting for this chick to come over for those yambs.

Son the Jay x Beyonce concert is tomorrow. There tons of yambs in the city for you not to get any.

 

[raysweatshirt]

Catch that grenade for ya boy.  At best the girl won't be as terrible as you thought, at worst he'll just owe you one.

Yea you're right man it shouldn't be too bad, he'll def owe me if it is tho

I'm going to this bar if I don't feel like waiting for this chick to come over for those yambs.

Son the Jay x Beyonce concert is tomorrow. There tons of yambs in the city for you not to get any.

Nice, and they'll be everywhere bro, what state u in now fam?

 

[suberzat1]

Yea you're right man it shouldn't be too bad, he'll def owe me if it is tho
Nice, and they'll be everywhere bro, what state u in now fam?

Louisiana dawg until I graduate.

 

[ricerocket1]

Lol. This chick straight texted me "its not working out for me" after letting me smash for more than 4 months before I hop on my flight for a 2 week vacation.... Dunno how to feel about that one.

 

[raysweatshirt]

Louisiana dawg until I graduate.

My bad thought you were somewhere else for the summer , ight G

 

[Coromanti]

Lol. This chick straight texted me "its not working out for me" after letting me smash for more than 4 months before I hop on my flight for a 2 week vacation.... Dunno how to feel about that one.

Get the vacation yambs. When you get back, on to the next.

 

[mugen81]

Y'all boys be safe in these streets..
Headed out to Japan in a few hours...
Enjoy the rest of the summer yambs..
If your gut tells you one thing, always listen to it.
I think to myself all the time..
"If I didn't run after her to make that bus in Austin, I would have missed out on a blessing"..
One

 

[tomdiginson]

Lol. This chick straight texted me "its not working out for me" after letting me smash for more than 4 months before I hop on my flight for a 2 week vacation.... Dunno how to feel about that one.

Hit her with the k response or don't respond at all.

 

[youngdoc]

The K response always works