- Mar 2, 2013
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Yo... dead it. don't look back.Alright guys so I'm gonna be in AC next month around Memorial day. My ex lives in NJ about an hour away. Haven't talked to her since we broke up 3 weeks ago. I'm thinking of sending her a text on Easter like, "Happy EasterI'm gonna be in NJ next month..." and seeing what she says back. I'm completely over the relationship. When she moved back to NJ, even though we broke up, she said she still wanted to visit each other and take things slow to get back to where we were. I then found out through a mutual friend she had a new boyfriend but she was still texting me like crazy. This is when I called her out and cut off all communication with her. Told her I wasn't going to make her a priority when I was just an option. She was like, "it's not like that, I still love you and care about you more than anyone in the world, if it got to that point with him I was going to tell you, it doesn't matter any way because I'm in NJ now (think other guy is in DC), etc..." I asked if she was having sex with him she got all mad and said she wasn't a *****. Sent her a long text next day just saying I'm putting the relationship behind me and moving on, sorry we can't be friends, need space from you, etc...
Now, I'm not trying to get back into a relationship with her. But, I think enough time has lapsed where things have cooled down. She was going through a really rough time before she left hopefully she's doing better now. I really care about her still and even her best friend told me that she definitely does love me and care about me more than anyone else. I know it's true and feel like she'd be down to meet up and just have fun and smash like old times. She's sexy as hell and I really hate how things ended where I had to break it off for good over a text.
I'm like 50/50 with this right now. Help me out if you've experienced anything similar.
so much scheming...
word to the females aint innocent thread