TAY: IT'S A MAN THING GINA

[surgev1]

Man I miss them middle school/early high school days when you could tell if a girl had a thing for you with a emoticon like a smiley face or a winky face. Nowadays girls use emojis in everything so you can't even tell by that anymore... Just a random little nostalgic vent hahaha

bro hell yeah lmao back then, it was a lot easier to know how to talk to a shorty, you already knew she was feeling you if she dropped certain smiley faces.

Nowadays, the emoji's mean nothing, you can only go by what she's giving you in her replies and the length of them as well. & never assume she's feeling you just because she calls you "love" or "Hun".....texting is mad stressful!

 

[lolcomin]

haha wish i could reminisce on middle and  high school love, but alas I missed out on that

 

[surgev1]

Another thing, I'm learning in that my youth, I'm really getting moments of clarity. Honestly picking up the herb has been great for helping to discover myself. Trying to be more vocal & willing to take chances, too...ushering a new age of giving no dambs lol

As far as yambs go, if she's slim/thick with a booty and she's down to kick it & burn some bud while expanding her mind/being exposed to some different things from the norm....then I'm interested. I just like open minded girls, period. Yeah looks are great but I'd take a 7 with an amazing personality and a "ride for my dude" mentality over one of these birds who post pics for attention and have absolutely nothing to offer me but their superficial appearances...I'm young & already realizing what's valuable to me, which I find to be an incredible weapon.

Shout out to the OGs of this thread for schooling young dudes like me, for sure.

 

[awwsome]

i already got advice soo i guess disregard what i wrote.

I wasn't tryna shade you or anything my guy but all you did was kiss the girl and you asking how to break things off like it was something serious.

 

[cucumbercool]

you can't do this till you have an hour lunch...

Preferably a job where your lunches are necessarily clocked.

not even. ive had half hour lunches and had good time w chicks. have a nice lunch and parlay something for after work

 

[アミーゴ]

Now that Spring is here I might just get rid of the entire roster and start fresh. There's 8 of em now (super OD, I had to count last night) but it's becoming too much. Picked up this NICE foreign exchange student from Sweden this weekend, bout to make her the No. 1 if things go well.

Southern girl bout to be HEATED.

 

[BIG LEEMELONE]

mugen81 wasn't meant as a diss just an honest question. To each his own like you said, I just can't see myself going that route. Everything positive you mentioned about marriage I have experienced as a bachelor so for me personally I'm not interested at least at this point. Call me a tin foil idiot and make jokes if you want but I have expansive knowledge both in the field and book learned to know what's real and what's illusory. I wish you the best

 

[HankHill]

I Think lunches are so underrated....

You can't go for the smash every time you meet up with a chick...

To me, lunches are clutch because

1. They're cheaper
2. Relatively quick
3. Shows you have interest

I live downtown and tell chicks to meet park in my garage and we walk to somewhere...

Supppppeeerrre clutch... Chicks be on D hard after that because you're working, you're on a time constraint, and you're providing.

That's like... a triple dose of yamb stimulation in a 45 minute window... Then to top it off, you leave them hanging by not trying to smash because you have other things to do?

Game over.

Downfall with lunch dates is that they fail to establish sexual attraction. I would, of course, prefer something in the evening because of the alcohol, dancing, and prospect of a nightcap.

But lunch dates are positive for reasons you mentioned.

I disagree. A chick can find a guy sexually attractive even if he's just doing homework in a library. You don't need to have alcohol involved. I like doing lunches now simply for my benefit. Like Fontaine mentioned its cheaper and they're usually inclined to pay for themselves. I can see if I want to be bothered with them or if I should just cut it off right now and go on with my day. I don't want to spend my night out with a chick I'm not feeling or who isn't feeling me. Also they feel more comfortable since its lunch and they're not worried about "is this guy expecting sex afterwards". I've had chicks ask me during lunch if I want to meet them for happy hour; or if its on the weekend they'll tell me where they're going to be at with their girls later that night so I can find them afterwards.

 

[mugen81]

Thank You guys for the laughs today, really needed it.
Look I am not going to tell you how to live your life because that's not my job . I don't care about statistics, charts and so called experts to tell me if my love for my wife is REAL or if it will last or whatever else "Tin Foil"theories you want to submit, lol..
All I will leave this thread with is have fun and live life to the fullest. Get all the experience, nuts and chill sessions with the ladies as much as possible so when and if the right one comes through you recognize her and you cupcake her, lol.
Marriage is not abnormal or the end game. Hell you really don't even have to get those papers to show someone you love them. My decision works for me because I always wanted to wife somebody that I felt good about. I live in the grey area to life so I see all angles and opinions to every situation anybody can imagine . I have taken my lumps from the game and life. I had to stand back and get right to receive the blessing whatever in the sky bestowed on to me. Its a lot of young cats in here( also Youngdoc and Tdogg, no shots were thrown at you big homies, lol) with their nuts hard and "can't tell them nothing attitudes" , that's cool and I hope life doesn't deal you hands like I received. Well I take that back, I hope life deals you hands so you can learn to appreciate life, love and overall success. My old head always told me "A hard head will make a soft ***", lol..
So to end all this rhetoric , I do wish you gentlemen the best of luck and I hope that you keep safe in these streets because it's spring/summer and yambs will be out in full force( good or bad). Take your "L's", enjoy everyday you wake up and just be thankful for the blessings . I'm happy for once and if you are happy as a single man, that's great, do you and enjoy it. We all have different paths and journeys. If we all were the same, had the same ideals and concepts of what the right rules to life were, that ish would be mad boring. If you feel some type of way about any of my post as a happily married man, I will just hit you with the "Ye Shrug" lol...
Peace...

 

[BIG LEEMELONE]

I really don't feel any type of way about it. You keep talking this "tin foil" and I never once dissed you but it's all good. And I completely agree about love being different from marriage, that was my point the whole time. Even the article I quoted talked about how married couples would do better if they acknowledged that it's not exactly natural but that doesn't mean it can't work. You claim to be open to all angles and opinions yet in the same breath talk about tin foil theories and laugh off what I share. Again I'm wishing you the best

 

[アミーゴ]

mugen81 I feel like it's the dudes who are looking for advice/ not smashing that come at you. I think the regulars ( I know I do) are right in path with what you have. I always say I won't settle down ( and maybe I wont?) but in the back of my head think I will. I'm just young and trying to live it up while I can, which you already have done

This is coming from a guy that had a gf for like 3 yrs in college. Maybe if I was as reckless as I am now back then, things would have changed.

On that note, as I said earlier I might just banish my entire lineup lol.

 

[spizike231]

What's your guys' opinion on smashin other girls while you and your girl are on a break?

 

[kevlar shrimp]

I never understood "breaks"

Either break up or work things out. I feel like people use breaks to mess with other people and then go back to their partners. If you feel like smashing another female and you're on break, do it.   But if you're gonna feel guilty about it, it's not worth it.

 

[アミーゴ]

What's your guys' opinion on smashin other girls while you and your girl are on a break?

Either ur together or not. End of story.

 

[lpheat22]

Damn looks like I lost one from the team. Eh on to the next.

 

[timelessflight]

I never understood "breaks"

Either break up or work things out. I feel like people use breaks to mess with other people and then go back to their partners. If you feel like smashing another female and you're on break, do it.  But if you're gonna feel guilty about it, it's not worth it.



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I've had 2 chicks use that "break" line on me. I then found out they've been talking to other people. At that point I simply delete the number and move on

 

[アミーゴ]

Damn looks like I lost one from the team. Eh on to the next.

Story?

 

[lpheat22]

Damn looks like I lost one from the team. Eh on to the next.

Story?

She saw some IG comments between myself and another and took it as I'm "exclusive" to the other chick so she said she's out. I told her I'm not exclusive with anyone. I just think her feelings got more to do with it than anything. We use to date before my last gf but it wasn't what I was looking for at the time.

 

[ddh1122]

EDIT: Coming soon. 

 

[BIG LEEMELONE]

Just keep the convo going and transition to finding some info about her, give her some about you and then go for the number again. She seems attracted but not really comfortable so just get to know each other quickly

 

[ddh1122]

Just keep the convo going and transition to finding some info about her, give her some about you and then go for the number again. She seems attracted but not really comfortable so just get to know each other quickly

Used to communicate with her through Twitter. Lot of dudes were after her so I just kept it lowkey, casual, and brought a few jokes here and here. 

 

[アミーゴ]

I'd say, "So, since I'm so charming and about to get u 100+ likes when u post that pic... I still haven't received ur number!"

 

[koolaidgeorge]

I'm tryna soak all this game from the OG's & Patrice O'Neal. I hope all of TAY flourishes this upcoming summer.

 

[ddh1122]

I'm tryna soak all this game from the OG's & Patrice O'Neal. I hope all of TAY flourishes this upcoming summer.

Link me to some good Patrice. Been meaning to catch up on him

 

[koolaidgeorge]

Link me to some good Patrice. Been meaning to catch up on him