Ok TAY so I'm going to San Diego to visit a friend for cinco de mayo. This is the one who I hung out with for her going away deal and her aunt flo was visiting. My original plan was get there in the afternoon check into the hotel and pre game then go to a padre game. Now she wants me to get there early so we can hit the beach, so I'm going to adjust my plans.
I'm now thinking
- Hit the beach for a few hours and do some drinking
- Check into the hotel. Try for the yambs (this will be our first time)
- Change and hit gas lamp for dinner, drinks and dancing
- Back to the hotel and smash again
Sound like a good plan? Anything I need to adjust.
She's only been there a week and the only people she knows out there is her cousin and her husband. She's their nanny. Once she meets some more chicks we'll make trips out there.
Haven't been in here since the old thread. What's up guys?
Update on my yambs:
After a rough fall/winter I broke it off for good with my gf of two years. It was great while it lasted but time to move on from that. She moved back home (out of state) immediately after we broke up so I don't even have to worry about seeing her now. It was tough for a couple weeks because I was heart broken, bummed out, thinking about her a lot. When I broke up with her told her I was sorry but I couldn't be just friends with her and didn't think it was a good idea we communicated at all. I just been hitting the gym, working hard, and started taking classes to get my MBA so I am doing great but wanted to get on the dating scene again too.
My roommate told me to try tinder so I downloaded it Saturday morning. Swiped everyone to play the number game and got a lot of matches but none were that great. Then got a good match, talked, she gave me her number, and ended up meeting this girl two hours later. Walked the dog around Georgetown waterfront with her and she was really chill. Couple hours after the date she texted me and invited me to a party this Thursday but I couldn't make it. Set up a dinner date for Friday instead.
The only downside is I'm 24 and she's 19 (turning 20 next month). So I wanted to split a bottle of wine at dinner, and I've eaten at this restaurant many times before and they are pretty lax with checking IDs. I talked to her about this a couple days ago to see if she felt comfortable enough using her fake and to avoid any awkward situation. But, she said her fake is from Arizona and it's really bad, she was too embarrassed to even send me a pic Told her it was ok and we didn't have to drink on the date. Hopefully this date goes as good as the first one and we keep chillin but it will be weird going on dates/going out and not being able to drink. Also she's inviting me to college parties and stuff and I don't wanna be hanging out with college kids.
Any tips from you guys out of college that have dated college girls? What am I getting into here?
Haven't been in here since the old thread. What's up guys?
Update on my yambs:
After a rough fall/winter I broke it off for good with my gf of two years. It was great while it lasted but time to move on from that. She moved back home (out of state) immediately after we broke up so I don't even have to worry about seeing her now. It was tough for a couple weeks because I was heart broken, bummed out, thinking about her a lot. When I broke up with her told her I was sorry but I couldn't be just friends with her and didn't think it was a good idea we communicated at all. I just been hitting the gym, working hard, and started taking classes to get my MBA so I am doing great but wanted to get on the dating scene again too.
My roommate told me to try tinder so I downloaded it Saturday morning. Swiped everyone to play the number game and got a lot of matches but none were that great. Then got a good match, talked, she gave me her number, and ended up meeting this girl two hours later. Walked the dog around Georgetown waterfront with her and she was really chill. Couple hours after the date she texted me and invited me to a party this Thursday but I couldn't make it. Set up a dinner date for Friday instead.
The only downside is I'm 24 and she's 19 (turning 20 next month). So I wanted to split a bottle of wine at dinner, and I've eaten at this restaurant many times before and they are pretty lax with checking IDs. I talked to her about this a couple days ago to see if she felt comfortable enough using her fake and to avoid any awkward situation. But, she said her fake is from Arizona and it's really bad, she was too embarrassed to even send me a pic Told her it was ok and we didn't have to drink on the date. Hopefully this date goes as good as the first one and we keep chillin but it will be weird going on dates/going out and not being able to drink. Also she's inviting me to college parties and stuff and I don't wanna be hanging out with college kids.
Any tips from you guys out of college that have dated college girls? What am I getting into here?
She lives walking distance from the restaurant. So I'll probably meet her at her place and walk over with her or just meet her there. I honestly think we would get away with drinking at this place. Maybe I'll ask her about it again. She didn't seem confident in the ID at all though.
Edit: I'm thinking the best plan is to ask if she wants to meet at her place an hour or so before dinner to have a few drinks. And I would just bring a 6 pack, or bottle of wine or whatever. She's staying in the city for the summer which is perfect because most of her friends are gonna be gone. Could be a nice little summer fling then I'm guessing she will become more occupied with school and friends during the fall. Which is ok with me, not taking this too seriously any way just trying to have some fun.
[COLOR=#red]Just had to put this out there...don't get caught giving a minor booze. Yeah chances are you will not get caught but if you do...curtains.[/COLOR]
Good advice guys. I have some things to think about. Will most likely hit her up tomorrow just to confirm the date and discuss coming over to her place before if I decide that. Another factor I know she mentioned she has 3 roommates and lives in a 2 room suite. I'm assuming that means student housing and it may be a dry dorm or something. So I probably can't just roll up carrying alcohol. Damn just typing that out I think the best course of action may be to just go sober, get to know her a little better. Then if we go on another date drive somewhere and ask if she wanna come back to my place and chill after, where I will have refreshments waiting lol.
Dealing with girls from different campuses, usually they prefer to go back to their place. Especially if they live with their friends. Just in my experience.
^True that is their comfort zone and they might have school or social stuff going on the next day. Whatever I don't mind taking this date slow I know she's already feeling me. Texted me first after our date inviting me out again so that's a good sign. I'll just play this one cool and see what happens. Keep you guys updated.
I've gotta say, the TCU girl I kick it with sometimes is very persuasive lol. She was a big time active student in high school, top grades, sports, clubs etc. she's not even from Texas, either. I really dig her taste in music, it's rare to discuss that with a shorty.
Anyway, we start kicking it & talking while I smoke her out, 15 minutes later we're having these deep conversations about music and in my head I'm like "ehh I'm pretty high. I think I'll just enjoy her company & leave it at that."
Apparently she had other plans, lol. I made a comment about how her ride had a lot of room & she was like "yeah, make yourself comfortable" so I did, and we start kissing a little bit but like I said, I wasn't really trying to get it in b/c I was blown
That kissing lasted for like a minute before she started giving some a-1 dome & that quickly made me reconsider. I gotta find me more shorties like that, she's the "blueprint" as far as I'm concerned.
