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"Be ready for our adventure Friday night. Look cute for once ."
Always works.
Always works.
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It happens.I really don't understand how people get caught up in the friend zone...
Maybe because I'm pretty aggressive, but still.
"Be ready for our adventure Friday night. Look cute for once."
Always works.
So I just met this chick about a month ago in a stat class and since then we've been studying together mostly everyday. She's real open around me, like we'll talk about sex and stuff all the time while we're studying or whatever. Lately I've been thinking about trying to become more than just study partners, just tryna smash, but I don't wanna wife her anything. It seems like she likes me but yesterday she told me I reminded her of her brother, how should I interpret that my NT brethren?
I always figured there was a difference between a chick saying you remind her of her brother compared you are like a brother.
Happens to me alot. I lose interest VERY fast + I'm most of the time in these "whatever" type moods where I don't even feel like messing/talking with girlsDon't know how you can spend that much time with a girl you're attracted to and not make your move.
Why torture yourself like that?
So I just met this chick about a month ago in a stat class and since then we've been studying together mostly everyday. She's real open around me, like we'll talk about sex and stuff all the time while we're studying or whatever. Lately I've been thinking about trying to become more than just study partners, just tryna smash, but I don't wanna wife her anything. It seems like she likes me but yesterday she told me I reminded her of her brother, how should I interpret that my NT brethren?
I always figured there was a difference between a chick saying you remind her of her brother compared you are like a brother.
Around my way any chick that calls a guy her brother she has/is smashing so you're not in purgatory yet. If she talks about sex around you, that's a good indicator of what's on her mind while you're with her, but you're gonna need to get more aggressive on her. Make some slick comments like "it's not too many chicks that can handle me" or something to intrigue her curiosity. She'll cave. That's what they do.
Don't know how you can spend that much time with a girl you're attracted to and not make your move.
Why torture yourself like that?
ATL is great for black women but NYC is the only place that rivals SoCal in quality, diversity (not just racially but ratchet through professional) and quantity.
yeeeeeah no. Houston exists.
Just smashed.
Ya'll ever get so over it that u become depressed?
This is number 16 this year, and I think I had enough.
This one girl who I swear is the love of my life lives in Booston and it's her bday... Maybe that's why?
I swear, the next time I see her I'm going to tell her the truth... Like...
"Every girl I've ever tried to date I compare to you, but there's just no comparison."
Shall add this line to the playbook."Be ready for our adventure Friday night. Look cute for once ."
Always works.
A woman with "male " friends= emergency **** in the glass
A male with "female"friends= waiting for the exact moment to pounce...
Lol...
Never will forget that conversation with my old head. Been said before but it's hard to maintain strictly platonic friendships with the opposite sex. It's possible but hard because at the end of the day we still are animals looking for a mate or coitus. I have been in plenty of " Friendzones" only to find out years later the girls were waiting on me to make the moves but got tired of my cowardice and moved on, lol...
Even the girl I called my "sister" in college, I had feelings for because she knew everything about me and I questioned why we didn't talk.. Main reason was because I played " mind games" with myself and someone swooped in, smh...
That's why I implore men and women to just say what they feel. All this fronting and playing hide and seek with feelings or urges to smash is beyond me. Once again you are born to die, so what's stopping you from going after something you want. As long as you are not hurting someone or putting yourself in a precarious situation, then why hesitate in taking the L, unless( this is in the small percentile) you truly like her conversation and you don't want to mess up the bond you two developed even then be weary because eventually someone will catch feels, whether you believe it or not...
All I am saying is all the thoughts you may have racing in your head could very well be in the mind of said young lady...
Too many young dudes in here having opportunities I waited too long to experience. Don't wait for heartbreak or tragedy to make you live..
Enjoy the road to wisdom that are scattered with peaks and valleys...
Wise Men=Young Fools...
I always say quality > quantity in all things, especially women.
Once you had enough () in your life, you realize there is nothing in catching bodies just for sport, it's about connections.
Every time I come to ATL I remember what im missing living in a small city.
Only spend a week here out the year and on the first day hitting Lenox/Cumberland or chilling in the AUC w/ some of my bros I will see a random or a Spelman chick that puts the top 5 in my city to shame.. And then proceed to see dozens of females that keep doing it.
I need to visit Cali so I don't end up with a narrow perspective thinking ATL is the only place I can find bad established women
At Clark right now, testosterone on 3000.
This bro this.
Many will never understand what goes down in the AUC and the sights u see on the strip or the chicks pulling out of the spellman gate that you'll never see again lol
what school did you go to and when did u finish bra
Son chick I'm dating is at UNO we should link up. Get on some of these yambs in the city.Nah I don't graduate until 2016 at UNO
I mentioned in thIs thread earlier that I was getting tired of meaningless sex but that was only transient.
Never felt depressed but I had a moment of "what am I really doing with my life"
I seen this random chcik a couple times at the same spot when im heading to this one class
Ima try to holla next time
Thinking of going with
Hey do i know u from somewhere?
Then jus introduce myself and say hey i gotta go to class gimme ur number and we could hangout sometime
Is that a tay approved approach?
Bless me with wat a yung god such as urself would sayI seen this random chcik a couple times at the same spot when im heading to this one class
Ima try to holla next time
Thinking of going with
Hey do i know u from somewhere?
Then jus introduce myself and say hey i gotta go to class gimme ur number and we could hangout sometime
Is that a tay approved approach?
You could do this, or approach her with something she's never heard before...