TAY '16: The Saga Continues

[datboi81]

Asked this question in the Barnes thread, but figured I'd get your guys opinions too.

"Is it wrong to go for my boy's boy's ex-girlfriend? (As in a friend of my best friend) Like we're cool and have broke bread and ish, but dude is married expecting child later this month.

Him and I have already determined it was cool, but just wanted to get other opinions."

 

[tomdiginson]

Dude is married. What would he care. Plus its a friend of your friend. Why would you care ?

 

[hoosierdaddy317]

Asked this question in the Barnes thread, but figured I'd get your guys opinions too.

"Is it wrong to go for my boy's boy's ex-girlfriend? (As in a friend of my best friend) Like we're cool and have broke bread and ish, but dude is married expecting child later this month.

Him and I have already determined it was cool, but just wanted to get other opinions."

Not that big of a deal to smash... but would never wife her based on the principle. 

 

[datboi81]

Him and I are cool, but we ain't exchanging no Christmas cards. Don't even think I have dudes number anymore. Idk my coworkers were saying I was foul, but they are majority women so I took it with a grain of salt.

Thanks for the answers btw!

 

[Good Ol J.R]

Go for it. He's not YOUR friend, he is your friend's friend. You'll be straight.


Back in California and I realize that I HATE dating so much I rather my ex just stop being so prideful and make the first move.

 

[Black Lotus]

all good imo bro

 

[doxen5703]

Not that big of a deal to smash... but would never wife her based on the principle. 

This.

 

[iamdef]

Asked this question in the Barnes thread, but figured I'd get your guys opinions too.

"Is it wrong to go for my boy's boy's ex-girlfriend? (As in a friend of my best friend) Like we're cool and have broke bread and ish, but dude is married expecting child later this month.

Him and I have already determined it was cool, but just wanted to get other opinions."

He SHOULDN'T care since he married and all, but as long as y'all cleared it up is all that matters

 

[ncvikingx97]

Just thought i'd share my first real relationship with you guys cause:

-Girl I have known in kindergarten reaches out to me out of no where, we "dated" in seventh grade, and have always liked each other and ****.

-First date I knew I really liked this girl, I originally just wanted to smash but I knew she was special.

-We progressed and stuff, and it got more serious

-I caught feelings after a couple months, and I told her I loved her

- It was really cool, and we both loved each other, and she became my best friend.

- Fast forward a couple months, and everything is great; sex is good, we are really tight, perfect relationship in my eyes.

- This is where it gets interesting. She was diagnosed with Borderline personality disorder, which basically makes it extremely hard for a person to have too much emotional attachment to someone, despite how they may really feel. So, I knew at some point this would happen. Pretty soon after, things started going down hill, we hung out less, texted less, and had less sex.

Fast forward to last Tuesday, and she says she loves me, but wants a break because it is too real. I'm cool with it, and today we end up ending things entirely. I finally have something to contribute to TAY

. I don't know guys, it hurts and ****, but at the same time it was all worth it; I finally know what love feels like, and it's great, but I know there I'll be able to find a better girl somewhere else. Also, BPD is a terrible thing.

 

[ncvikingx97]

Also, where do you guys find girls who don't want a relationship, just want to smash? I'm 18 and have NO idea where to start, highschool girls aren't worth the investment, and I don't want anything emotional. Thanks fellas 

 

[suberzat1]

U Street, dupont circle, outside of &pizza, this whiskey walk I'm going to March 5(dc crew ), college campus, cafes, brunches, spring around the corner so sun dresses are about to be out, rose bar...... Should I keep going?

 

[ncvikingx97]

No I just needed some inspiration

No DC crew ( Raleigh 

 )

 

[willypete]

this whiskey walk I'm going to March 5(dc crew )

I'm down

 

[youngdoc]

Asked this question in the Barnes thread, but figured I'd get your guys opinions too.

"Is it wrong to go for my boy's boy's ex-girlfriend? (As in a friend of my best friend) Like we're cool and have broke bread and ish, but dude is married expecting child later this month.

Him and I have already determined it was cool, but just wanted to get other opinions."

If you consider him a friend, like a real friend not just an acquaintance I would leave her alone.

If it's just a friend of a friend as you described then there should be no issues

 

[suberzat1]

this whiskey walk I'm going to March 5(dc crew )

I'm down

Cool cool I went last year and it was legit. We can plan things out I'm a week.

 

[risveryown]

 
Also, where do you guys find girls who don't want a relationship, just want to smash? I'm 18 and have NO idea where to start, highschool girls aren't worth the investment, and I don't want anything emotional. Thanks fellas 

You go to a University or something ?

 

[adobecs4]

Midtown this weekend. Lit, it shall be

 

[2423]

Is tinder plus wroth it? I mean it's only like 5 dollars for 12 months lol

 

[suberzat1]

Is tinder plus wroth it? I mean it's only like 5 dollars for 12 months lol

Take that $60 and go to happy hour for a week.

 

[2423]

Take that $60 and go to happy hour for a week.

Wait they charge you every month aww hell naw I'll pass on that

 

[ncvikingx97]

 
You go to a University or something ?

Nah man I'm a senior in highschool 

 

[doxen5703]

Nah man I'm a senior in highschool 

Take the rest of this semester to practice shooting your shot. You're gonna have to be in the books heavy in college, you won't have time to practice the shot. I mean personally I don't have time to for it.

 

[risveryown]

 
Nah man I'm a senior in highschool 

Well in that case it's the end the road for you soon, start shooting them shots and putting yourself in position for the summer & idk if you got college plans or whatever but if so they'll be coming around.

 

[risveryown]

Take the rest of this semester to practice shooting your shot. You're gonna have to be in the books heavy in college, you won't have time to practice the shot. I mean personally I don't have time to for it.

Lord knows, I which my current self could holler at myself 3 years ago... Damn time moves quick 

 

[suberzat1]

 


You go to a University or something ?

Nah man I'm a senior in highschool 

Well don't take my advice and WIO when you are chilling with a chick,.