TAY '16: The Saga Continues

[timelessflight]

Got a chicks number friday night. Hit her up next morning telling her it was good meeting her and i say im sure you made it home safe. She says she did and thanks. I hit with if she did anything after the bar, no reply. How do i go about this fams? I want to hit her up for lunch but not sure if its too soon. Mind you she works nights as a nurse so idk of she forgot to reply or what?

Call her and ask when is she free this week to get together

 

[change the name Snyder]

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[KingdomFlatbush]

Starting salsa lessons this week. The quest for fluid hips begins

 

[tdogg2k]

Yo snap chat everything!

 

[KingdomFlatbush]

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[Mark Antony]

Got a chicks number friday night. Hit her up next morning telling her it was good meeting her and i say im sure you made it home safe. She says she did and thanks. I hit with if she did anything after the bar, no reply. How do i go about this fams? I want to hit her up for lunch but not sure if its too soon. Mind you she works nights as a nurse so idk of she forgot to reply or what?

Call her and ask when is she free this week to get together

Maybe give it a day before this, you're already coming across too eager. Go about your day man, you don't know her.

 

[s0lefunk]

Just broke up with my girl of 4+ years, were friends for a solid 3 years prior to us getting together. Chemistry has just been off for a while. Tried addressing it but nothing was working. She also took a job in another state 7-8 months ago so long distance didn't help either.

We hit a snag in the relationship and before it became toxic I decided it was best to end it. It was the perfect breakup word to Seinfeld. No crying, cursing, just reflection and some jokes. She had been feeling the same way but thought she could do something on her end to change it. That's when I felt like a real **** and just knew it was time to call it off. Who knows what the future holds. I told her I see her as a wife and mom but I knew it wasn't going to happen between us if we kept on like this. It would have been even worse if I moved down there with her and it being just us.

To other NTers that may be in a similar situation, there is no convenient time to break up. Just follow your heart/gut. (Full disclaimer: I talked to damn near all my friends, even God, and flipped coins ). There is some regret creeping in because I know what she has to offer in the long run. But if you aren't having fun building up to it then whats the point?

 

[getyashinebox]

^went through something fairly similar not that long ago, even down to the (sort of) mutual parting of ways. Still have feelings for her, still care about her, but we're both too young to accept settling into a stagnant/declining relationship. And I said the same thing man, no point in sticking with something that is clearly not working at our age/life situation.

Glad it worked out for you, being single might be a little weird for you at first, but it gets much better real quick

EDIT: haven't been home for a weekend in over a month, how's DC been with the nicer weather? Looking fwd to this summer Heard our group got 3 girl interns, might test the integrity of my work rule

 

[Kaleo15]

So my ex (Legally Wife) came through the day trying to work things out, basically saying we should work things out.

Current girl came through at the same time. Basically Jerry Springer came to my house.

Anyway, everyone is telling me that I should go counseling and work things out with my Wife (granted we been separated for awhile)

And that I owe it to my vows to at least try to work things out.

I feel bad for everybody because I know I'll hurt somebody, I could possibly just end up alone.

My current girls ofcourse continued to hold me down, and wants me to stay with her.

I need some words of advice, I sure could use it.

If you want to know more about the situation and more details... PM me!

I don't want to put it out in the open.

 

[ogmcmxcii]

^

 

[change the name Snyder]

So my ex (Legally Wife) came through the day trying to work things out, current girl came through at the same time

how sway?

 

[crownedhead]

@Hawaii5O

How do you actually feel about your ex and your current?

 

[stork]

I need some words of advice, I sure could use it.

nah you don't, either stay or go.

prob should divorce her, since you already technically cheated 25x past year or whatever

 

[slighted]

So my ex (Legally Wife) came through the day trying to work things out, basically saying we should work things out.

Current girl came through at the same time.

Basically Jerry Springer came to my house.

Anyway, everyone is telling me that I should go counseling and work things out with my Wife (granted we been separated for awhile)

And that I owe it to my vows to at least try to work things out.

I feel bad for everybody because I know I'll hurt somebody, I could possibly just end up alone.

My current girls ofcourse continued to hold me down, and wants me to stay with her.

I need some words of advice, I sure could use it.

If you want to know more about the situation and more details... PM me!

I don't want to put it out in the open.

Do you have kids?

If not, just go through with the divorce. You already know what you wanna do; you're just looking for confirmation.

 

[Mark Antony]

Cot damn, these ****** making life decisions for this man in one fell swoop.

 

[tdogg2k]

Off topic. What do you guys use for after shave? I was using tea tree oil... starting to get bumps on my neck again

 

[tomdiginson]

Off topic. What do you guys use for after shave? I was using tea tree oil... starting to get bumps on my neck again

Aloe vera Gel.


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[KingdomFlatbush]

I use Vivant Skin Care facial products....they work marvelously on my skin and I don't suffer from razor bumps to boot (I am very susceptible to those )

 

[heliumclinton]

Words are appreciated

When you beating it and get that stride then she start saying all types of nasty ish questioning your manhood

That's when you tell yourself I'm about to be a father

 

[tdogg2k]

Where do yall get those products from

 

[tomdiginson]

Where do yall get those products from

This removes bumps and keeps your face clean. Just wash your face and apply it after. Good for your skin, hair, face etc.

]Amazon product ASIN B0105T6QXK

 

[flyny]

Off topic. What do you guys use for after shave? I was using tea tree oil... starting to get bumps on my neck again

BEVEL!!!!
Idk what you're shaving with but TRUST ME WHEN I TELL YOU, Bevel is the top shaving system made for course and curly hair, and sensitive skin.

GetBevel.com

And they sell it at select targets

I've been using bevel for about 6 months now and I have nothing but success stories. It's a single blade razor, comes with priming oil, shaving cream, and a after shave balm. That's all you need. I occasionally dab some tendskin/skintight after I shave, but that's optional.

Bevel is the best thing that I've done for my skin since switching to Dudu Osum Black soap.

I even shave my jewels with bevel

 

[suberzat1]

I just use clippers and rubbing alcohol...

 

[Mark Antony]

A steady routine of cleansing and exfoliating keeps that to a minimum. I shave with clippers though.

 

[ogmcmxcii]

I shaved my jewels last night and damn

Felt like the Zohan afterwards

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