TAY '16: The Saga Continues

[tomdiginson]

I have actually never smoked a cig in my entire life, Never even tried one. But yeah, I mean obviously smoking anything isn't healthy for you. But it was still crazy how someone who clearly has issues with alcohol and controlling it, tries to tell me that she doesn't approve of my vice?

But nah, I have no intentions to ever see her again, I'm going to be much better off and can do MUCH better.

Yeah, it sounds like she has underlying isuses. Maybe she's is concerned about your health, but she is going about it the wrong way.

 

[airblaster503]

Alright so in a conundrum and figure I would reach out the TAY for advice. I have been single for damn near about 5 years. Haven't had much feelings for anyone and been just living the single life. Thing is I am terrible at cutting things off with chicks when they get to invested. Most of the time I just stop responding. What is your main go to for breaking things off. Truthfully I have been hanging out with this broad for a few weeks and just am not feeling it but she is definitely feeling like there is more. I started hanging out with this other chick who for the first time in a long time I feel a connection with so I have to get rid of this other bird. Tell me your ways

 

[ecruteakcityboy]

WTF am I doing wrong?
I'm getting super comfortable at approaching at bars but I'm just not closing the deal. We'll talk/dance within a span of 15-25 minutes, get her number, and move on.
I'll call them the next day and I try to make the conversations short and to the point. After that I don't ever hear back them ever again. ****'s starting to get super annoying.

 

[mplsdunk]

My girl got a damn stalker. Dude is friends with her friend so he knows about her through Facebook. He knew I am out of town through her friend. Shows up at her gym then shows up at her job. My girl already told her friend to tell him he's about to get his head bust. Oh well I get back tomorrow.

She had to have her friend a personal trainer at the gym tell him to go away. Straight creep.

 

[ecruteakcityboy]

My girl got a damn stalker. Dude is friends with her friend so he knows about her through Facebook. He knew I am out of town through her friend. Shows up at her gym then shows up at her job. My girl already told her friend to tell him he's about to get his head bust. Oh well I get back tomorrow.

She had to have her friend a personal trainer at the gym tell him to go away. Straight creep.

Need them pics bruh.

 

[ecruteakcityboy]

Also anybody ever go to a popular bar by themselves to pick up women?

 

[mplsdunk]

I don't have any. He's a coffe drinking hipster type dude. Real soft.

If you mean my girl suberzat has see. Pics, not on that tip.

 

[ecruteakcityboy]

I don't have any. He's a coffe drinking hipster type dude. Real soft.

If you mean my girl suberzat has see. Pics, not on that tip.

of the creeper

 

[mplsdunk]

I'd post them but I don't have Facebook.

Just picture your average white guy from the burbs with his I moved to the city starter kit. Pompadour, redwings, jean jacket and a ****** motorcycle. I honestly just want to talk reckless to his face and watch him do nothing but if I see him outside somewhere I'm not squaring up but he's getting his head rocked out of the blue. We go to all the same spots.

Like you've been told numerous times to keep it pushing. now you're going to start turning up at places looking for her? She's been told he showed up a few other times at her job when she wasn't there. Now I'm about to turn up on you.

 

[stork]

Also anybody ever go to a popular bar by themselves to pick up women?

yep, call it a quickstrike, I drop in to grab a drink, put up a few field goal attempts, try to get a #, and bounce. I'm only there like 20-30 minutes, walk in around 12AM.

don't go to pick up women, go to see the crowd, mingle etc.

 

[wavycrocket]

Sup with this NT group chat though .

Late pass

 

[datboi81]

Got this cutie from Chicago's number at a job fair. She was a vendor as well. The next two weekends are the worst though, wrestlemania is this weekend and next weekend I'm wrestling. I don't want to push us hanging out two weeks out, but I don't know what to do. Maybe I'll see if she's free tonight for a happy hour. Or maybe brunch on Saturday morning.

I'll try to get pics for yall.

 

[ecruteakcityboy]

yep, call it a quickstrike, I drop in to grab a drink, put up a few field goal attempts, try to get a #, and bounce. I'm only there like 20-30 minutes, walk in around 12AM.

don't go to pick up women, go to see the crowd, mingle etc.

what day of the week do you go ?

 

[hennessy]

WTF am I doing wrong?
I'm getting super comfortable at approaching at bars but I'm just not closing the deal. We'll talk/dance within a span of 15-25 minutes, get her number, and move on.
I'll call them the next day and I try to make the conversations short and to the point. After that I don't ever hear back them ever again. ****'s starting to get super annoying.

You gotta go home with them that night. Lots of girls give their number out just to be polite or even if they're feeling you they'll wake up and brush it off because they were out drinking. Gotta get them home and smash so good they gotta hit you up again.

You gotta understand when girls go out to the bar a lot of them have similar mind set as us. If they meet someone and like them enough they wanna go home and smash. They aren't out here looking for relationships or a guy to call them the next day and date. But if you show them a good time and vibe together they WILL be open to that the next day. You're not establishing enough of a connection in 15-25 minutes. You need to spend at least an hour with them and push to go back with you at the end of the night and if they say they can't THEN you ask for the number. That's how my game works at least. None of this boppin around the bar grabbing multiple numbers. You gotta scan the room, eye ****, approach, chill for an hour, offer to go home with you and or for another drink, smash, start chillin if it was good or otherwise move on to the next.

 

[Thierry Henry]

Not everybody is privileged to have their own spot like you though

 

[tdogg2k]

Not everybody is privileged to have their own spot like you though

Thats why there are hotels

 

[frshstunna]

Also anybody ever go to a popular bar by themselves to pick up women?

yep, call it a quickstrike, I drop in to grab a drink, put up a few field goal attempts, try to get a #, and bounce. I'm only there like 20-30 minutes, walk in around 12AM.

don't go to pick up women, go to see the crowd, mingle etc.

Yea me and my bro do the same thing sometimes ...hit the bar/club real quick , go straight to work talking to some chicks get digits n dip ...sometimes u ain't in the mood to be out all night but still need to get some new joints so 30mins - an hour is cool to get some new prospects

 

[suberzat1]

Sup with this NT group chat though .

Late pass

I don't think I have your number. Send me a pm.

 

[stork]

what day of the week do you go ?

Friday/Saturday night. but happy hours are supposed to get lit. I'd rather be in the gym training

Yea me and my bro do the same thing sometimes ...hit the bar/club real quick , go straight to work talking to some chicks get digits n dip ...sometimes u ain't in the mood to be out all night but still need to get some new joints so 30mins - an hour is cool to get some new prospects

exactly. my main thing is just being out in trying new places.

it's too easy to fall in the habit of staying home on the weekend

 

[kevlar]

Yea happy hour is definitely a great move. Been flourishing nicely from that. 

I actually need to start staying home on weekends 

 

[chrisqo]

so what is yall opening pick up line ?

 

[tdogg2k]

so what is yall opening pick up line ?

Hi my name is booger. Want to catch a flick....ill even let you pick

-shady

 

[tomdiginson]

.

 

[shoeking2102]

so what is yall opening pick up line ?

This could be good lol

 

[alp]

Hi my name is booger. Want to catch a flick....ill even let you pick

-shady